/lit/ - Literature

>>19923221
Way of the superior man

How to attract women:
If you're ugly and short, have money
If you're tall and attractive, just go outside

It's really that simple.

>>19923519
I’m tall, athletic, not very ugly but also not very handsome and I’ve crippling anxiety + depression, what do?

>>19923540
Therapy you fucking retard. You can also get cognitive therapy books.

>>19923221
You need to make friends first, that will help you become more comfortable with people. They'll also probably introduce you to girls just by virtue of having a larger social circle. The only real, cliche, advice I can give you is to try and get out of your head when interacting with people

>>19923545
>>19923540
Therapy is a spook and therapists are a racket for mediocre psychology graduates who weren't intelligent enough go into medicine. Therapy culture is sick and disgusting. They want to keep people emotionally crippled to make money. It's the soft arm of big pharma. Literally go for a walk to clear your head. If you don't have a chemical imbalance your anxiety is induced by technology. You outside, unplug from your devices, enjoy nature.

I know you can do it, anon.

>>19923565
*Go outside

Also get a hobby like fishing, rock climbing, or carpentry. Use your hands, embrace and conquer nature. Idleness makes the brain wander into dark territory.

>>19923221
Models is the only book you reall need to read. Works like a charm.

>>19923545
i went to my first therapy session today lol. it’s hard to find a good therapist.

>>19923565
I dunno, I think/hope it can help as long if your therapist know her shit. I think of it as a substitute to a wise elder that will listen and occasionally give me advice. Ideally that’s what it should be, at least. I mostly grew up without talking to my parents. Also some people (though hopefully not me) might well have a biological problem, although for most it’s probably just a healthy response to a hellish reality.

Sure, hobbies are cool. I realised recently that mine were all computer related, so I’m trying to get into drawing and writing poetry/essays, maybe even fiction. I like writing but I feel a bit self conscious writing about anything because I have lived so little.

>>19923540
>what do?
do xanax, benzos, vyvnase, phenibut, adderall cocaine, speed 8 hours of sleep, a balanced diet, no screens after 8PM, cardio exercise, vitamin s supplements
one or some combination of them will work

>>19923221
Why do you losers want to get out of inceldom? You don't know how unbearable it gets with roasties.

>>19923652
personally I'm just curious what all the fuss is about

>>19923640
Good work.

I would suggest also adding a physical hobby, like weightlifting, running, or cycling. Endorphin release is crazy powerful. After you get into pretty good shape, see if your city has adult rec leagues. You’ll likely have more confidence after making gains in your fitness, and you’ll probably be ready to interact with others in low pressure and fun environments.

You’ll probably meet like-minded friends and potential partners, as well as having a nicer body after all of the activity.

>>19923640
>>19923645
>>19923679
Men need physical activity to ground us. Pharmaceuticals are a spook.

>>19923221
The Book of Pook

>>19923813
that book is so cringe lol, not recommended for anyone out of high school honestly it reads like satire

>>19923841
I quite like it, it's funny and has some good advice

>>19923221

>>19923221
Arguably this would be good but I feel like it would fall on deaf ears until the incel is in a better place with self-esteem/themselves.

>>19923640
OP if you want a good book on therapy, the new mood therapy is a decent walkthrough of cbt.

>>19923540
>>19923640

Try invincible by David Tian

>>19923221
Save some money and buy a whore.

>>19923545
CBT is fucking nigger tier. Must have gone through tens of thousands of dollars worth of it and if anything it has made me worse. Absolutely baffling how Americans have to pay for it.

I left my inceldom by working out ans just going to local events with no friends. Everntually you get over the OMG THEYLL NOTICE I HAVE NO FRIENDS anxiety. Drinking helps, if you live in bumblefuck idk go to church or something

>>19923221
Please take a moment to realize what website you've posted this question on. Do you really trust disaffected autists on the literature subsection of an Uyghur telenovella forum to help you lose your virginity?

>>19923221
If you want to have sex why not just pay a hooker for your 1st time?

>>19924590
> if anything it has made me worse
damn imagine sucking this bad at thinking, why are you on a literature board?

>>19924687
It worked for me.

>>19923565
>If you don't have a chemical imbalance your anxiety is induced by technology.

Because no one has ever lived in immutable circumstances that cause them chronic stress and anxiety before. Are you fucking retarded? How does working at a job you hate or having an abusive spouse relate to "just unplug and talk a walk lol"?

>>19923221
inceldom is a terminal state of mind you cant escape

Don't read any books about attracting women that have been written by boomers or gen x'rs. (Really, any in general but especially those two.)

First off, they're likely to be out of touch.
Secondly there the ones that have all of those comics, jokes and bumper stickers about hating their wives and shit.

Look at happy, fulfilling marriages and realise that they have always belonged to the unsubdued eccentrics, since they were being their unapolegetic selves, therefore actually attracted someone that appreciated their idiosyncracies instead of marrying someone they were only physically attracted to, and then promptly divorcing once the facade started to fade.

Pic related helped me out of my shell. Since reading it, any other self help books, I've gotten engaged and moved out of my rental

>>19923519
>>19925016
This attitude is why you'll never make it.

>>19924590
>Pic related

>>19923886
if women particularly don't like you, you are in fact a loser. Sartre was an ugly motherfucker and on top of that drew more or less the wrong conclusions from his intellectual pursuits and he was still fucking mad bitches. It's easier than ever and you're still a virgin.

>>19923221
Literally just get a hobby that you enjoy and women also participate in. Make an effort to be friendly. If you meet someone who you enjoy being around, attempt to get to know her better. Even if she's in a happy relationship, she is liable to introduce you to women with similar interests that aren't.

Having female friends you aren't trying to fuck is the key.

>>19923886
I'm losing my shit at this anon who has been spamming this for the last day or so after getting utterly btfo in a similar thread.

>>19925132
Based and gets laid pill

>>19923221
I was spooked by this incel stuff for a little while, because of the whole mimetic desire thing and too much 4chan. The thing is that not only am I not interested in sexual relationships with women at all (all of my romantic atttaction so far has been to guys) but I'm not at all interested in mere sex either. But I still got insecure about not having sex and thinking that I could not attract women. It took two stupid hook-ups with guys and a more recent make-out with a woman to find out more who I really am unfortunately. All of which is accompanied by quite intense feelings of guilt. Almost all of what incels say isn't all that true, it's just people autistically projecting their obsessive anxieties and insecurities onto the world around them. The world is never as black-and-white as anxiety makes it out to be. I know this post probably won't apply to many people and it's a weird place to post it but I encourage you not to copy what other people desire but try to find what is authentically you. For me I think it might increasingly be a liberal interpretation of Christianity.

>>19923221
If you have to read a book to get laid, it already over for you.

>>19923221

>Best books for leaving inceldom?

Extension du domaine de la lutte by Michel Houellebecq.

You are going to end that inceldom you don't like so much. Probably not the way you are hoping or thinking, but you are going to end that inceldom.

>>19925132
>Having female friends you aren't trying to fuck is the key.
doesn't exist unless you are a homo

>>19925158
Where did he get btfo?

Just do all the basic stuff (work on your hygiene, physique, hobbies etc) and put yourself out there. Try out clubs, bars, conventions, heck even the library. This is without a doubt one of the easiest periods in human history for men looking for casual sex. I’ve had sex with a girl within minutes of meeting her. Also, I do recommend sleeping with a hooker once or twice to learn how sex works.

>>19923519
I'm 5'9" but my muscles and face are God tier. I'm usually rated an 8. I ended up settling with an ugly wife because I know she won't cheat haha. Working out and style are easy ways to looks max. Anyone who says otherwise is a NPC cope.

>>19927137
They could be really unattractive

>>19927137
Imagine being so weak-willed that your primary thought process revolves immediately to sex without any disdain or control. Stop watching porn and learn to de sexualise yourself. You're obsessed and addicted NPC.

>>19923540
What have you tried?

>>19925132
>>19927137
you can just be in a friend group with married couples. Girls don't just stop having girlfriends the moment they get married.

>>19925120
>if women particularly don't like you, you are in fact a loser.
How so?

Incels should sleep with one another. There, problem solved. I accept your nomination for the 2022 nobel prize.

Corey Wayne

>>19925362
underrated

Go to the gym and make sure its not your only hobby or youll be a gymcel. Go out to bars/clubs/events, if you have no friends go to more niche versions of those like a metal night, techno clubs whatever you like since being by yourself usually isnt judged aa harshly and talk to literally anyone guys girls you name it. If you spill spaghetti who cares youll never see them again. This is what worked for me. If you are crippingly autistic it might be game over for you, maybe see a therapist idk.

>>19930246
>Go out to bars/clubs/events
I hate it. Too loud, the people you talk to are drunk out of their minds and have nothing interesting to say, it fucks up your sleep cycle and if you do end up picking up a girl, it's too awkward to actually try and move toward a relationship, best you can hope for is sex with total strangers at the risk of getting some kind of std.

Is there a book that tells you exactly what to say and when. One that works for multiple scenarios, not only for meeting women at a bar, but rather for taking to women you know and making them attracted to you

>>19925132
I like weightlifting. But I cant talk to women when I am lifting

What are some hobbies to meet women?

>>19923565
drivel. the efficacy of established therapy methods for a broad range of common psychological issues is well-known to the point that ignorance betrays utter scientific illiteracy.

health insurance companies don't make money off of therapy, you dullard. they want people OUT of therapy so they can stop paying for it.

>>19924035
Why did you find this book useful?

Give me one good reason why you shouldn't gravitate to traditional masculinity.

>>19928139
t. Roastie.

Women are for fun, and having your children. Men do not need to stoop so low as to gravitate towards women. This entire worldview you have focuses on the woman, the main benefactor from a platonic relationship is the woman. She gets a protector, an emotional tampon, and the man doesn't get laid. Any man who willingly does this is a beta.

>>19931361
lol

>>19931361
Not that anon, but you are not forced to be "friends" with women if you don't want to. You preach about how pathetic it is to gravitate towards women but at the same time you showed obsession with sexuality. Yes, those beta limp wristed white knights that are "friends" with women are all obsessed with sex too, that's why they are the way they are.

Leaving incel life has 3 factors which also coincides with female attraction critera:
1. Physical attractiveness and height
2. Money $$$$$ baby
3. Personal character

If your short and ugly, there surgical procedures to fix your fax and break-length your legs to increase height. For money learn the stock market its literally a money multiplier machine if you're not retarded. As for personal character fucking get a hobby and interests that isn't video games and sports.

We're living in modern society where technological resources with enough money, time and effort where even the fattest neckbeard can transform himself into mega chad.

>>19925132
Imagine discussing your hobby with a woman lol.
Aristotle what's that he's old and boring anon just fuck me already
Why are you reading book about whale anon just fuck me.

I actually have one female friend, who I don't really even like, and we only talk about shows/movies we both watched as kids.

>>19932441
Imagine doing all this shit just for retarded women, when he could go to some diner in the rural parts of his state and fuck without doing any of this.

>>19932469
Significant portion of people here live in suburban and/or metropolitan areas. And besides going to some hillbilly poor southern area and trying to pick up a cute bumpkin aint happening if your ugly/fat and poor even country sluts have standards.

>>19932530
Suburban and metropolitan women aren't worth it.
Don't be fat and ugly then LOL. Your lot is determined in life, make peace with it and find God.

>>19932441
>For money learn the stock market its literally a money multiplier machine if you're not retarded.
Wbat books did you read to become a millionaire off the stock market?

>>19932625
Not millionaire currently but at the rate i'm investing and gaining it definately gonna be a $1MM in about 5 years. Don't need any fancy investing books unless you're going into indepth research based investing. Just put all your money into the broad market relatively safe indexes.

>>19932441

This post reeks of autistic virgin

Idk, I've been a volcel since I was 11

You can go read some pick up books if you want, but I honestly think reading books on people goes further. There are good relationship books that deal with the long term, but most PUA books teach you how to fake the "symptoms" of being a desirable man. Fine if you want casual sex, but women figure out pretty fast that you aren't genuine. Work on yourself first and don't expect women to complete you. Read How to Win Friends, be sociable, get a hobby, have some ambition, talk to women like you would your male friends. Stop trying so hard. Women smell desperation on you. Maybe read a good book on actual gender differences like Why Gender Matters. There are honestly no shortcuts.

>>19923540
Do a flip

>>19932662
So I take that women are attracted with what is convenient for them rather than the truth? A man fighting for truth might not necessarily succeed in terms of material, wealth or whatever. Whoever is in power in a society holds all the women, regardless if they are committed to truth or not, or maybe it's all just power relations and the truth doesn't exist.

>>19932650

A fucking what?

>>19923505
This book is bullshit. It basically tells you to go with your heart and give all your love and emotions to a women no matter what. This is a great way for a women to act a certain way to you in private but shit talk and talk down to you behind your back.