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Once again thinking of sending a copy of my book about an abusive relationship to the guy who abused me.

Once again having goddamn panic attacks just looking at his name.

It's been eight years since I've seen him. I'm in a loving relationship now. Should I just let it go? Or do I force this monster to see himself as the antagonist in this book that was somehow published by a major company?

he probably wouldn't even look anyway.

>> No.18976841

kys tranny YWNBAW

>> No.18976844
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>>18976829
>Why yes, I do make people write entire books about me.

>> No.18976851

I don't think about my rapist even though I have his name, his address, and the names of his family members. I could conceivably ruin his life.

Personally, I think living well is the best revenge. I have my own life, I don't need to obsess over someone else's

>> No.18976867

>>18976829
post tits

>> No.18976876

>>18976851
fair enough

eh, i got money for making trauma erotica so i guess that's the best i can ask for.

also i'm a dude why does everyone think i've got tits

>> No.18976878

>>18976829
>I'm in a loving relationship now.
You're better off than most people, get over yourself

>> No.18976904

>>18976829
Have you considered therapy or counseling for this? I’m not trying to be an ass here, but if it’s been eight years and he’s still this distressing for you, maybe you should talk to someone about it. Does your current partner know?

>> No.18976909

>>18976829
are you fucking retarded? if just looking at his name gives you panic attacks, initiating contact certainly will. i'm going to assume you're making this post because you're wildly unstable at the moment and maybe in the middle of some kind of flashback but why would you invite that back into your life? and WHY would you give him the satisfaction of knowing he's hurt you so much that you wrote him into your novel? live in the present. you couldn't pay me to talk to the person who raped me. i don't often think about him anymore. let him go for your health. identifying as a victim forever is a bad trap to fall into.

>> No.18976912

>>18976904
seconded and recommending DBT

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>>18976904
I've been in and out for a while. And yeah they know. I'll be honest, it doesn't occur to me often, but every time I have to do marketing and talk to people about what's up with the whack-ass themes in this monstrosity, the thought of "boy I sure wish I could make him as uncomfortable as I am right now" pops up out of nowhere.

>> No.18976926

>>18976909
I get that. and no it's "survivor" not "victim".

Like I said, it was a fleeting thought and I'm over it probably. But maybe I didn't think about the fact that I'd have to keep thinking about this shit and focus on the worst parts of it to get this book marketed. Probably not a good idea.