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Books to cope with the shame of being a 19 year old male virgin?

>> No.18818856

>>18818847
>start with the greeks
my Brother is 25 and he's a virgin, my roommate is 21 and a virgin as well. I lost it at 19 but there's a reason they call it a "virginity" lol, it's not like sex makes the world complete or something.

>> No.18818875

>>18818847
Frankenstein

>> No.18818885

>>18818847
Retard doesn't know that sex isn't a life goal

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>>18818847
23 here. I lost my virginity to escorts and have fucked like twenty women at this point and have plenty of sexual experience (getting head, fucking missionary, doggy, etc.) I figured that you have to lose it soon or later so you might as well just get it over with. Your first time will be awful btw.
Weird to think there is an entire generation of young men retaining their virginity well into their 20s. It's sort of the opposite of the boomer generation which was to let loose and have as much as sex with lines of cocaine.

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>>18818847
I am a 31 year old virgin.

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Just look at me: I'm a 24 year old male virgin.
I care very little tbqh

>> No.18819185

>>18819178
Can you cast a spell of good weather, please? This summer sucks ass.

>> No.18819230

>>18818847
the bible, douay rheims version

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>>18818847
I am not a virgin but I am an incel

>> No.18819251

Let not the desire of beauty overcome thee, neither be thou caught by thine eyes, neither be captivated with her eyelids. For the value of a harlot is as much as if one loaf; and a woman hunts for the precious souls of men.

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>>18818847
Bro, there is no shame in that. Sex is not all that matters in life. Granted, love isn't either because women can't love anything apart from themselves and their kids. It is nice if you can have sex with someone you are comfortable with, but it isn't that big of a deal when you are actually done with the act. It is just as hollow as all things that give momentary pleasure in the end.

You are thinking too much about sex. Don't make it your identity or life goal. Because if you do you could end up a complete wreck after your first time.

t. virgin until 28, wish I never did, experienced some kind of ego death after my first time

>>18818909
this, but don't have sex with an escort unless you live in Netherlands or some place with decent facilities.

I think that kind of sex still exist. It have just been moved to the "top 20 %" of men. Women are probably still as slutty as they have been.

>>18819178
Good on you. I wish I had your strenght.

>> No.18819264

>>18819178
Wizard

>> No.18819677

>>18819262
>experienced some kind of ego death after my first time
can you tell us more anon?

>> No.18819698

>>18819262
I dont really mind not having sex but i feel like i might be missing essential experience.
t. 29 year old khv

>> No.18819711

>>18819698
Think of the eternal return, anon. You might live your life ad infinitum without ever having sex. This is also how Nietzsche caught syphilis.

>> No.18819719

>>18818847
I'm 21 and virgin and I don't care anymore
The years increase so fast and since I was 18 it feels like I didn't even leave my house
But it's not a burden to me anymore, I just focus on things I want to pursue, because I know that love will not be what I want

My deepest desire is to feel whole with another human being, to have no secrets against each other and to know all of each other. But I know that it's pretty difficult to find a woman that would give me this. So I pursue that feeling elsewhere (i.e. books) for now and will leave the rest to fate. I will be happy whether I find someone or not. I don't mind dying a virgin.

>> No.18819728

fuck as many escorts as you can to get over your pussy obsession/thread

>> No.18819759

>>18818847
Mein kampf is a go-to

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>>18819677
I can't really explain it because I still don't really understand it. I have tried to write an answer, but I fail. I always thought that sex and love was for normies, and that I would not experience that because that was how the world was. All of a sudden I get to have sex for the first time. It was over very fast and I even started bleeding.

The clarity that hit me after made me very confused. It was post-nut clarity of the highest degree, after two months of nofap.I felt like I didnt know who I was anymore. Am I a fucking normie now? Has everything I have thought all these years been wrong? Could I have experienced love and sex earlier? I overthink and those thoughts kept flying around in my head. I had sex with that girl multiple times after, and often felt like an imposter after. Doing something that was not for me. It shook up the way I viewed the world, in a way I didn't expect. I had thought the thought that having sex would change me, because I have seen that happen to my friends, but not like this. Like I said, I still don't understand it and for a very long time (still now and then) I want it undone.

>>18819698
To be honest, if you are 29 and never had sex or anything, either make sure you find a girl that loves you and will love and do the stuff with her, or never do them. Speaking from personal experience. I wish I could go back and never have sex. Even if it felt good, there and then.

>>18819719
Anon, I hope you find that someone. Be wary of women though. They will tell you that they want openness and talk about your inner things, but they don't actually want that. It might be you are a hopeless romantic in an era where that kind of love or connection is impossible.

>> No.18822288

>>18820561
>you find a girl that loves you and will love and do the stuff with her
those girls dont care about virgins

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>>18818847
start with a classic

>> No.18822359

>>18820561
Listen to this anon.

>> No.18822397

Literally just give it time, the shame goes away.

>> No.18822415

>>18818847
You don't need a book here's a quote:
"Stop being a idot, idiot" - me (smart)

>> No.18822429

>>18818847
A list of prostitutes in your local area

>> No.18822449

>>18818847
>19 year old
>shame
There's nothing to recommend yet
t. 24 yo virgin

>> No.18822490

>>18818847
> Nooooo, I'm not commiting whoredom
Don't be ashamed of such things, anon

>> No.18822514

>>18818856
Wtf that old is not normal. Specially since girls dont want to reach adulthood still virgin.

>> No.18822527
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This one is for you:
GOTHIC VIOLENCE is a fictional dark comedy by author, Mike Ma. Though is a continuation of the first work, this book stands alone. GOTHIC VIOLENCE follows a gang of jihadist surfers who use insider trading profit to disable the national power grid and capture Florida amid total panic
Get it here: https://www.amazon.com/Gothic-Violence-Mike-Ma/dp/B096Z7J6C1

>> No.18822531

>>18818847
shame?

>> No.18822533

>>18818847
Bro, you have all the time in the world

>> No.18822561

>>18818847
I was a 19 years old virgin yesterday, today I am a 20 years old virgin

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>>18822561
Happy birthday, please buy this.
GOTHIC VIOLENCE is a fictional dark comedy by author, Mike Ma. Though is a continuation of the first work, this book stands alone. GOTHIC VIOLENCE follows a gang of jihadist surfers who use insider trading profit to disable the national power grid and capture Florida amid total panic
Get it here: https://www.amazon.com/Gothic-Violence-Mike-Ma/dp/B096Z7J6C1

>> No.18823657

>>18818909
Yes, and it’s even worse that it only because there are better options, women are the only who are able to practice their sexuality in a free way(in optimal conditions) choosing men that are attractive enough and the rest are completely invisible to them. this men, the invisible ones, are doomed to have sex (if they ever do) with women with far more experience than theirs, that only choose them because there was no other option available, that are dreaming of sex with more attractive men

>> No.18823666

>>18818847
Guys what did he mean by this?

>> No.18823712

JANNIES, DO YOUR JOB

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>>18818847
anyone else here pretty sexually active but has never actually inserted penis into vagina?

>> No.18823856

>>18823818
If not gay, wtf does that mean?

>> No.18823879

If you live in America and go to university, sex will come to you without trying. I was a mega sperg and got laid by a genuine qt. Just drink alcohol and get in with the right people and it will come. Sex is nice and anyone who says otherwise is coping: it is a fundamental part of our humanity