/lit/ - Literature

read freud

>WHAT'S YOUR FETISH? BROO WHAT THAT'S MINE TOO
unironically get a life

Why do i find femdom so arousing. I don't want to be a beta male

>>18452275
I'm so beta that I can't even imagine myself as alpha in my fantasies

>>18452275
there's nothin inherently beta about femdom
>I don't want to be a beta male
saying this makes you a fag though

Fetishes are conditioned behaviors, usually communicated via porn or some other trigger. It has been scientifically demonstrated that arousal can be conditioned by a penny jar. You are mentally ill if you have a fetish.
>>18452259
Based.

>>18452251
>how's people get them
All fetishes are caused by tiny jewish elves that parasitize one's skull.

>>18452308
how do you get rid of them anon

>>18452308
kek imagine being this vanilla that you dont have ANY fetishes

>>18452373
the other day half of this board admitted their religious larping was only done because they were virgins. im not surprised he would claim that.

For me, it's latex, the thinking mans fetish.

What causes a DDLG fetish? My ex had that

Deprivation of normal sexual practices. Which are plenty satisfying. Though it happens that people getting bored with normal “vanilla” sex can fall into a fetish or two, the worst fetishes come from those that are deprived of it.
Don’t romanticize it

>>18452275

Because you like the dominatrix aesthetic?

>>18452326

Porn-induced fetishes go away in time after you stop cooming to them. No idea about fetishes that predate exposure to pornography.

>>18452251
Excluding the obvious Freud(ian school)

I have picrel
Never actually read it
I can't even understand who the author is
For "John H. Smith" wiki lists basically only politicians, plus a math dude and two priests (but their birthdates do not match up with publication date, 1949 - one of them would have published this at 10)

Other books I have
Incest - Herbert Maisch
Love life of the Ancient Greeks - Sofia A. Souli (bought in Greece)
Sesso Perverso - Patrizia Filner
Le Mani Lunghe - Guido Tiberga (these two probably untranslated)

The Carnal Prayer Mat - Li Yu (Not what I expected, just ancient chinese stories about fucking, mostly humorous - bought it because I liked the title and there are Asian tits on the cover)

>>18452604
Forgot the pic, fuck

There was a study done a long time ago where researchers found that men who were attracted to breasts tended to be athletic, outgoing, gregarious, and social. Men attracted to the lower body, specifically the leg, were introverted, intellectual, passive, shy.

>>18452661
Elmer Batters, who was a great leg photographer, thought that men got into legs because their mothers weren’t loving enough. He thought that when a child cried, a loving mother would pick him up and cuddle him to her breast—so he would get into breasts. But the mother who didn’t nurture would leave the child on the ground and all he had was the legs. It’s an interesting theory.

>>18452563
Says the tranny fetishist lmao.

>>18452661
Bullshit. I like boobs and tummy exclusively and I'm a fucking loser.

>>18452667
Its bullshit lol

>>18452661
Uhh, I like both, though?
>>18452667
I only started appreciating legs/thighs after a certain age, before it was all tits/ass.

>>18452385
I don't believe in god.
>>18452373
>celebrating maladaptive perversions
Imbecile.

Get help, OP.

>>18452261
based

>>18452251
>Are there any good books about fetishes
Yes. Loads.
>and how's people get them?
Oh, you meant meta-analyses of fetishes? No, don't know any, sorry.
>>18452275
Could you elaborate on what you mean by femdom?

>>18452251
Gravity's Rainbow.

Are there books that fetishize armpits

>>18452673
I’m not trans. Homosexuality is a sexuality, not a fetish

>>18452563
Yeah me and my wife had a similar experience. A year into our relationship, we both realized we don't need all the creaky fantasies we used to have. It's almost like the fantasies became unsatisfying because nothing beats a loving sexual relationship. It's interesting how so many fetishes (the entirety of porn as well) come from a basic lack of love.

>>18452768
Bump. I really like when girls wear tank tops, armpit shaved or with a little re-growth, a bit sweaty.

>>18452795
Oof. Right in the feels...

>>18452779
Not in todays world, tranny.
It took me a long time to come to terms that some ppl are truly just gay. But the majority of the gay community are either mentally ill, larping, or both.

The truly gay are mostly normal and keep it behind closed doors.

>>18452373
Coomer freak. Fetishes are unnatural

>>18452860
>naturally occuring behaviour is unnatural
What did he mean by this

>>18452308
>You are mentally ill if you have a fetish.
So everyone on earth, both past and present, have been mentally ill? What's the point of the term then?

>>18452826
Homosexuals can be some of the most sexually repressed people. The Catholic homosexual choses to become a priest or nun and only exacerbates their repression and unhealthy fetishes develope.
(Transients are by their own definition mental)
It isn’t necessarily “truly gay” to hide it from childish people like yourself. I only came out after I left my family. Hardly a bullhorn announcement to the world, I love quietly, dignified but open about it.

>>18452795
Ty for the backing up

>>18452989
>I love quietly
And live* hahah

>>18452989
What would you know of a loving sexual relationship, tranny?

>>18452989
Butterfly, you make an exception with regards to me, CORRECT? :3

>>18452999
>>18453007
And the posts end here. What the FUCK. I've been on cloud nine butterfly. After I started posting you started nonstop and you won't deny a SINGLE THING. No one will.

You are my bitch. Holy shit :3

>>18453000
Why would I say anything to green with envy blob who gets my sex wrong every post?

>>18453007
You are an ass and know it. Stop the act

>>18453034
Lol. :3

Just answer me my question: do you own a collar with my name on it or not

>>18452936
>my perversions are natural and you're the freak by practicing vaginal sex without fetishes
Projector will blind you if you look at it.

>>18452860
All religious idols are fetishistic

>>18452275
You don't have to be a beta in your regular life to enjoy femdom. Contrary to what moderns want you to believe, your sexuality does not define you.

>>18452261
>getlife?
yeah: fetlife

>>18453060
Anyone controlled by a perversion is inherently beta.

>>18453059
Those are different meanings of the word

>>18453093
You can have a fetish without being "controlled" by it

>>18452661
why am i not attracted by this. This woman looks like she shouldnt be showing her feet like this.

>>18453034
I have a feeling you are going to be raped. Call it a hunch.

>>18452326
You release the traumas in your subconscious that perpetuate them. Look up Transformation Mastery

>>18453122
per-vert
From-Vertical
or,
From-straight

i.e. perversion is anything other than the upright.

>>18453351
This is not an argument

>>18453122
Cope.

>>18453205
She's wearing a collar with my name on it right now. She has admitted in the past and she never denies it.

:3

>>18453045
>>my perversions are natural
I never said "mine".

Does psychoanalysis say anything about a fart fetish? Lol, I’m curious. But perhaps that is too uncommon a fetish for anyone to have written anything on it.

>>18453495
I'd say it has something to do with anal phase, but don't quote me on it

>CHEEKY BEHAVIOR: THE MEANING AND FUNCTION OF ‘FARTLORE’
IN CHILDHOOD AND ADOLESCENCE

https://scholarworks.iu.edu/journals/index.php/cfr/article/download/25085/30962/59245

I was either born with my fetish or somehow molested in a very very particular way as an infant.

I have nothing specific, some psych book.
>>18452261
People ask about my fetishes more in the real life. Shit's strange, people speak of gaining new fetishes like they're collecting trading cards.

The fact that I can remember having my particulat fetish as a toddler proves every single person in this thread wrong. It can't be from either repression or conditioning. Something about it is innate

>>18453535
Lmao, this paper is amusing. Thanks anon.

>find the naked body disgusting, genitalia especially
>can only get off to fully clothed
is this normal? anyone else?

>>18453560
Yeah, all of mine stem from childhood, even if I can’t remember exactly how they came to be.

>>18453560
early childhood trauma is a big factor

>>18453600
It would have to be very early and very particular. Which is possible, but seems very unlikely

>>18453567
I didn't even read it, I just googled "Freud flatulence"

>>18453570
what are they?

>>18453706
Farting, urination, chubby girls.

>>18453796
I'm sorry to hear that.

>>18452261
holy based

>>18452661
generally speaking people w more popular interests (tits, sports) are probably more social/extroverted than people w less popular (feet, lit)

>>18453796
Only the first one seems uncommon to me

>>18453042
>>18453034
>>18453028

>>18453706
Women with 9/10 asses WEARING COLLARS FOR ME IN PUBLIC THAT HAVE MY NAME ON THEM :3

She's had me even higher than this before.

>>18453826
Do you think this is inherent in liking tits and sports over feet and lit, or it's just that the former are a more common and social acceptable topic which in turn makes it easier to speak to more people about it?

>>18453856
Close but not quite. Shotacon is a little off.

How to describe it, we've masturbated to hentai before but it's with the older guy typically. For us, its still domination from my end.

She'll probably have a face like that in a year. She does right now when she masturbate s

>>18452261
This. The collective age of 4chan is like 16

>>18452251
The vast majority of these fetishes were extremely rare or nonexistent up until the 1960s. Yes, you can find a few examples of BDSM or feet or something in an obscure poem from the 1500s but that overwhelming majority of people were normal. The rise of fetishes and kinks is due to people being corrupted by pornography. I suspect that the increased ugliness of the average person (mostly due to obesity) has also made getting off normally more difficult but I don't have anything to back that up. If you are a weirdo, please try to stop being weird because it's weird and I hate it, mostly because I fear it may infect good people.

>>18452251
STOP TAKING SOMETHING THAT SHOULD BE BEAUTIFUL AND MAKING IT DEPRAVED AND UGLY. I hate you fucking freaks. I'm not even a Nazi but this shit makes me want to put you deviants in the fucking ovens or take a hammer to your skulls. Death to the system that allows this degeneracy to spread and death to the vermin who propogate it.

>>18452275
>femdom
>beta
Femdom is Chad as fuck.

>>18454177
No fetish is "Chad as fuck" dumbass

>>18454184
>No fetish is "Chad as fuck" dumbass

>>18452308
Correct up until the last sentence (except for using the word "conditioned" when you meant to say "triggered" in regards to the penny jar.

How is the conditioning unhealthy? To not have any fetishes, to have not associated anything with that which is sexy, is the true mental illness, insofar as it shows a lack of what we will call an inductive-connective faculty.

>>18452251
Whats the fetish where you want to completely dominate 3D women but at the same time want 2D girls to bully you into submission called?

>>18452661
>study was done a long time ago
Into the trash it goes
Asses have been popularized and are now probably predominate way over tits.

>>18453093
You cannot be controlled by the things you want. That's like saying you are not free because you are controlled by yourself.

>>18454223
Asses are predominant because of the popularization of negro culture. If you've ever seen how black parents parent, you'd know that this really just reinforces the hypothesis.

>>18453568
Based aesthetic fetish haver

>>18454235
Heroin addicts are definitely in control of their lives and none of them are doing things they don't want to in order to fuel their want of heroin.

>>18453568
Idk why but girls wearing sweatpants does more for me than girls wearing leggings or jeans. You can just barely see the outline of their body and it's enough to know that there's something good under there but it also leaves enough to the imagination that gives it a certain eroticism.

>tfw 25 yo virgin
>tfw femdom fetish
>tfw mother with anger issues
It all just makes sense but knowing the origins of my problems does not help me solve them.

>>18454246
I agree, but what's that have to do with black peoples parents?

>>18454270
>theory is that certain men prefer lower body>upper body due to neglectful mothers
>black mothers are neglectful
>blacks are all obsessed with asses

>>18454251
>Heroin addicts are definitely in control of their lives
In part, yes
>and none of them are doing things they don't want to in order to fuel their want of heroin.
Insofar as they are doing things they don't want to, they are controlled. Your point?

>>18454280
>Insofar as they are doing things they don't want to, they are controlled.
So you agree that this poster >>18454235 is wrong

>>18454266
That isn't the origin jfl, there is nothing arousing and sexy about her yelling at you in the first place. I don't think you understand how conditioning works.

>>18454266
>can only get hard to elderly guys fucking teenager girls
whats the reason behind this sire?

I want Butterfly to stick her feet in my mouth. What fetish is this?

>>18454281
That theory is retarded desu
>>18454289
No. When the heroin user does the thing they want to do (take heroin), they are in control. When they do things they don't want to do (mugged on a street corner because homeless on the street), they aren't in control.

>>18454292
If you think the dynamism of human sexuality ends entirely at
>touch dick when exposed to X and you will learn to like X
then you're going to end up with pretty much no questions answered.

>>18454127
>overwhelming majority of people were normal
lol

>>18454306
How many people do you know with an opioid dependency? Most of them don't want to shoot up, they do it because their body physically craves it the same way you crave water in a desert. People with large addictions who go cold turkey can die from the withdrawals. Your whole lolberg "DURR I U DO IT THEN OBVIOUSLY U WANT TO DO IT" line of thinking is completely divorced from reality.

>>18454299
You'd have to tell me about your childhood family life if you want an answer. What was it like? You're focused on age, so how old are your parents? How was your childhood relationship with girls your age?

>>18454299
>whats the reason behind this sire?
Sometimes I watch that stuff too, on a conscious level for me it's "Damn, this fat bald grandpa can fuck that chick. That chick is slutty enough to fuck him. Both these things point to the fact that I can get a teenage chick".

>>18453311
is this a joke

>>18452251
Anything by Marquez de Sade

Can you guys like... stop misgendering butters for 10 minutes? kthanks

trans women and real women, butters is a real woman, period.

>>18452301
>there's nothin inherently beta about femdom

this level of cope

>>18455706
To my understanding, many top level CEO, politician, etc, like femdom because, for once, they are not in charge of everything and can just "obey" (="relax" as in "I don't have to do everything myself")

Opposite of picrel, in a sense

Also let me add that dominatrix is expensive, not everyone can afford that, most don't even provide sex

I've heard of people paying to go at some girl's apartment and wash her dishes.

>>18452795
I have a lot of fetish shit because my gf doesn't want to fuck her hormones and my dick gets limp after 20 sec with a condom: if I could just fuck her pussy our sex would be much simpler

>>18452261
spbp
>>18452275
When the cuck sissy femboy poop chungus coomer boomer says the zoomer doomer gooner is a real wojak desu
><
MFW

>>18452275
>Why do i find femdom so arousing
because you have taste
>I don't want to be a beta male
You can destroy your adversaries in day-to-day life, and come home to your matriarch and lay your head in her lap and tell her all about it while she strokes your hair.

Your social dynamic with your significant other does not have anything to do with your social dynamics with other people. Each relationship in your life is unique. Stop looking at things through a hyper-simplified lens. Your obsession with categories is a contradiction with their heuristic and lossy nature.

Simply be.

>>18452275
I like the idea of femdom but only with older women. Like 20-30 years older. Too bad there's not even any good porn of it, so I'm stuck just imagining.

>>18452259
watch Feed.

>>18452661
I guess that's why I'm a sanguine boob-man.

People who are obsessed with a particular fetish are mentally ill.

Like how can you only be attracted to women wearing particular clothes or something, rather than just finding it attractive but it not being the only attractive thing?

>>18456286
Mental illness is a side effect of civilization. As long as there is civilization, there will be mental illness. Everyone wants to be master but can't, and certain children will end up being subjected to the destructive tendencies of adults around them.

>>18456299
I think you've been reading too much Lacan.

>>18456312
I've never read Lacan, actually.

>>18454127
This is some high level delusion.

>>18456319
I know but it's the same obsessive psychoanalytical ideas about childhood and ethics.

>>18456323
>ethics
I'm not really passing judgment on anything.

>>18456336
No, ethics as in "civilizational ideas are constraining such and such and leading to unnaturalness in such and such".

You're criticising ethics (for lack of a better word).

>>18452251
Exposure to excessively sexual stimuli traumatizes the develop mind

I wish I had the option of not seeing overtly sexual things until I was in my teens. You can teach anatomy and even rudimentary understand of sex before then without ruining anything but crop tops, navel rings, handbras and buttock bearing shorts being everywhere at all once shouldn’t have been normalized. It’s the precursor to softcore porn we have today

>>18453940
23

>>18456340
Well, is it wrong because of that?

>>18456365
I just think it's an overly negative view of life and culture. I think it views culture too separately.

>>18456367
>I think it views culture too separately.
What do you mean?

>>18456378
I mean it views culture too separately from the values of life.

Why do you define culture only insofar is it being something unnatural?

>>18456381
I only define culture unnatural insofar as the uncultured are concerned. The uncultured come into contact with a culture and find it unnatural to them, and necessarily oppressive. I'm not against culture for this.

What virtually everyone refers to as a Fetish is actually a Specialized Sexual Interest (SSI), a body part, sex act, etc. that is especially arousing.
As a person accrues SSI, three or more, they begin to run the risk of developing Specialized Sexual Interest Syndrome (SSIS) wherein the person is essentially horny all time.
Now, if a person has a Fetish what they have is an SSI that is so strong and pronounced that the person is disinterested in a sexual experience if that SSI is not a featured part of that experience (for example, a person with a foot fetish won't care about having sex with a beautiful woman if her feet aren't involved, but is game so long as her feet are on the menu).

You're welcome, thread.

>>18454177
cope