/lit/ - Literature

>>16379779
>love
look, you're a bag made of skin filled with chemicals and stuff. there's no love, there's attraction and pragmatic reasons for spending extended amounts of time with the opposite sex. there's also reasons against it, all depends on what you want to get out of life.

>>16379779
Kristen Roupenian

>>16379779
What's the "dating pool" for the modern young man? Perhaps:
- Used-up whore with a 30+ body count.
- Insane girl with daddy issues and disorders
- Boring normie girl with shit taste in everything
- Manipulative slut who would cheat since day 1
- Leftist SJW girl who favors niggers and degeneracy

>>16379779
Just become gay.

>>16379827
This. It's impossible to be a gay incel.

>>16379799
get a nice jewish girl

>tfw all of the above

>>16379779
>/gif/
>/r9k/
>/fit/
>/x/
>/mu/
Damn

>>16379799
If you can’t make it work with the normie girl than you should probably just give up; and it’s almost certainly always been that way

>>16379853
stop larping as me

>>16379852
>HAHAHA HE DID THE EPIC ALCOHOL MEME
Many upboats

>>16379793
>you are made of component parts, therefore love does not exist

>>16379793
Leddit>>>>>

>>16379859
There's nothing wrong with adorning a reoccurring mask

>>16379799
>complaining about boring normie girls
if you think your girlfriend/wife needs to have the same hobbies as you're just a fucking retarded closet faggot. Women just need to be mentally stable enough to shit out some kids for you and make dinner. Everything else is fags like you being brainwashed.

>>16379859
>>16379884
I'm gonna pound both of your pussies

>>16379779
The dating pool for young men is literally
- social media addicts
- "socially anxious" girls you have to perform constant emotional labour for
- high maintenance (if not schizophrenic) gym gals
- Emotionally taxing manipulators
- Performative "progressive" women who still treat men like shit

>>16379779
translating hannah: "I'm a useless hole who can't get a single man she wants"
the 'dating pool' is for losers

>>16379899
Good luck finding a Western girl who makes dinner for you. Even the ones who want to reproduce are getting scarce.

>mfw the dating pool for young men

https://streamable.com/pghx8s

>>16379946

I feel like every white man has an insufferable aunt like this. This type of white woman is too fucking common.

>>16379779
wtf, no love for rapists? we're part of the dating pool!

>>16379946
>https://streamable.com/pghx8s
dios mio...la creatura americana...

the world is filled with hollow people and straw people.
Truly this must be hell.
but at least it cant get any worse
and we carry on in eternity.

>>16379798
She eats ice cream with such sincerity! I weep that DFW could not witness such a thing!

>>16379779
I'm the porn addict.

>>16379927
socially anxious girls being the most desirable. they stick to you like a sock out of a dryer and are the only ones in this group who feel guilt.

>>16380067
you're almost writing a poem, keep going

>>16379927
> Performative "progressive" women who still treat men like shit
Performative "progressive" women who still want to be treated like shit*

>emotional labor

>>16379946
That's a 10/10 in Burgerland.

>>16380147
They'll use you the same as any other whore. As soon as you boost their confidence just enough they're gonna dump your sorry ass

>>16379946
>hole
fitting

>>16380170
>male emotional labor: patiently listening to endless tirades and complaints, providing, doing things for her, giving her gifts, helping to actually solve problems
>female emotional labor: "that sucks lol it's ok tho," putting out

>>16380191
Emotional labor is probably the most stupud feminist meme ever invented. I remember learning about it in my first uni class when we read 5 Faces of Oppression. The most stupid horseshit I have ever read

>>16380191
>>16380208
>OMG I can't believe my boyfriend actually expects me to give a shit about him. This is, like, oppression or something.
Fuck w*men

>>16379793
Why should I listen to you, then, bag-of-skin?

>>16379946
genuine psycho

>>16379946
>"Hole"
kek

>>16379779
>says "emotional labour"
>says "performative"
No red flags here, I wonder why there's no normal guys on this list.

>>16380208
>>16380191
>>16380170

They call it emptional labour becuase of how worked up they get over their feelings.

which are you /lit/?
im emotionally distant manipulator

>>16379799
Don't forgot the women who think liking dogs is a personality trait.

>>16379793

This is true, women are ATMs that dispense sex if you show the right credentials: looks / money / status. It is literally nothing but pragmatism, it's just that women are at root pragmatic in a way that draws from their instincts

>>16379799
For me it's been
-Pseudo-independent women with troubled pasts and draining levels of dependency issues. Nothing you do is right but everything you don't do is wrong and they're only ever going to be a sinking ship
-Very perky and superficially charming women who are agreeable and lovely but have no hobbies or passions besides the surface level social events like sports games, bar nights and parties.
-Girls that claim to have a lot of interests that they never indulge, usually the biggest mental blueballers of all of them
-Actually interesting ones (They almost never end up being attractive)

>>16380208
Not familiar with it in a gender theory context, but I've found to be a useful way to indicate the way that people help each other work through emotional difficulties that they would have a great deal of trouble working through on their own. I use it in a value neutral way.
For instance, I have told my mom that she's very good at doing emotional labour for people because she's resilient, a good listener, and has a lot of wisdom. Everyone in the family comes to her with their problems even if it's just to talk things out.

>>16379793
Ayo I saw this while high af and eating fruit loops on Rick and Morty.

>>16380333
Fruitcake

>>16380333
Emotional labor is voluntary, and it is usually performed by the person who has less power in the relationship. That is just as often the man as the woman, there are countless men who act as emotional sponges for women who disregard them, just as there are countless women who obsessively attempt to nurture emotionally unstable men who mistreat them.

>>16379779
She turns and looks a moment in the glass,
Hardly aware of her departed lover;
Her brain allows one half-formed thought to pass:
“Well now that’s done: and I’m glad it’s over.”
When lovely woman stoops to folly and
Paces about her room again, alone,
She smoothes her hair with automatic hand,
And puts spotify on the iphone

>>16379798
>ice cream
>my dick

>>16380402
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cyh5xK_v5-w

>>16379946

KIIDOOOO

*rasp intensifies*

KIIIIIIDOOOOOOO

MAYBE WE COULD TALK ABOUT IT LATER

>>16379946
i only they were right and trump was an actual fascist and not a "better than nothing" neocon

I was in love with this woman, then it went south. I was wrecked for a bit, then I recovered and now I don't care about her at all. During our stint, I envisioned a future with her and couldn't imagine life without her. Now she's just a memory and the pain has evolved into indifference. This has happened several times. The last time it happened was particularly eye opening. Now I understand the ephemerality of love and relationships and reject the idea of a soulmate or 'the one.'

>>16380171
Nah, she's about a 2 or 3 here. We have the most beautiful women in the world.

>>16379927
1 is fine in your 20s to travel with. 2 is great in your 30s because they'll do anything you want to avoid being 34 and single.

>>16379779
She's not wrong, though what she fails to realize is that it's just as bad, if not worse, for men.

>>16380333
it's a gay jewish female term that reduces human relationships to business contracts. modern women think giving attention to anyone outside themselves is "labor" that deserves some form of payment at the end of the transaction as if the warmth of human connection is not its own reward. Like true narcissists they cannot derive enjoyment out of regular social interactions unless the other party is feeding their ego in some way as payment for the narcissist's "emotional labor."

>>16380310
This. I've found being wealthy even comes into play with ONS for some reason.

>>16379793
>there's attraction and pragmatic reasons for spending extended amounts of time with the opposite sex
Right. Love.

>>16380531
>1 is fine in your 20s to travel with.
Except they're all insane Type A people who care merely about making lists and checking them off. If you want to see the world without experiencing a moment of it, then sure, they're great to travel with.

>>16379779
>Narcissistic if not sociopathic
How the fuck does that even work?

>>16379779
tag yourselves, I'm the:
>porn addict

>>16379946
Her name is Alison Stevenson, she is an absolute failure.

>>16379779
She's in her 20s. The guys she wants to date aren't settling down yet.

>>16380560
adding more descriptors makes you sound smart and observant, doesn't matter if you can use them in a sentence properly the midwit twatter dogbrains will still clap

>>16379779
Almost as if the system of "dating" is worse than finding someone through the person's family and through consultation with a priest just like how it was always supposed to be.
Instead the masses damage themselves by having premarital sex and looking for "love" which in actuality is just lust with extra layers.

>>16380519
>I was in love with this woman, then it went south. I was wrecked for a bit, then I recovered and now I don't care about her at all. During our stint, I envisioned a future with her and couldn't imagine life without her. Now she's just a memory and the pain has evolved into indifference.
all me

>This has happened several times. The last time it happened was particularly eye opening. Now I understand the ephemerality of love and relationships and reject the idea of a soulmate or 'the one.'
only happened once and i havent given up

>>16379799
Girls simply need to not have shit taste in cooking, cleaning, and being clean.
Being able to sing or dance is an added bonus for the upper tiers.

>>16380615
Try not to think of it as giving up. That implies you're missing out on something. It's more akin to making peace with reality. Cherish the time you spend with a woman that you love. And understand that she will be gone some day. And that's okay.

>>16380605
priests, extended families, communities, IRL social networks, those don't exist in the big anonymous urban bughive where every middle class college grad is being funneled into. but to be fair suburbia is pretty dead too if you can somehow pony up the down payment on a plastic McMansion

>>16380615
adding to my first reply
And even if you're bound together by adult life, the state of being in love, which is what you're really clinging too, not her, will erode.

>>16379793
Jimmies have been rustled. Good work.

>>16380627
>Try not to think of it as giving up. That implies you're missing out on something. It's more akin to making peace with reality.
nah you're just a sore loser

>>16379793
*burp*
Study science, Morty! Break the cycle!

>>16380627
time to get over her bro

>>16380653
I didn't mean to come off bitter. If anything, I'm a bit saddened by this. Not angry or resentful.

>>16380635
I don't disagree, but if I was American I'd much rather die alone having tried the old-fashioned avenues and coming up empty than try out "dating".
I'm in Russia(lived in America most of my life and got my degree there, still full blooded Russian subhuman tho) and it still falls into many of the traps that the west has fallen into but priests and extended families still exist and my chances of finding a wife like that are still prob tenfold an Americans.
I pray for you guys, maybe this falls coup might do you guys some good though I doubt it.

>>16379946
>Hole
The memes write themselves

>>16380672
yeah im sure Russia is in much better shape, never lived there exactly but in another similar second/third world type country previously where the social fabric had not been completely torn up by the effects of modernity so there was still some semblance of civic life

>>16380672
90% of dating in America is being in-shape and having a decent amount of money. The rest is largely annecodtal once you're past 24.

>>16379853
Kek

>>16380716
doesn't translate to quality partners tho

>>16380584
>Alison Stevenson
that is not Alison Stevenson
get ur eyes checked lmao

>>16379793

>>16380731
yeah she's that other vapid online thot, you know the one

>>16380716
Pretty sure you don't understand my main point, dating as a system for finding a wife or husband is flawed and shouldn't be practiced, even if there wasn't hypergamy.

>>16380740
>Will you fight? Or will you perish like a dog?
Cringe.

>>16379793
Oh shut up, retard. Even your statement resulted from electricity and chemicals. Love is as real as hate, and the hatred I feel for humanity is very real.

I want to smash womans face with sledgehammer than rape her still twitching body so fucking bad bros

>>16380743
It's not so long as you don't approach it with this attitude.

>>16379799
I'll have one boring normie gf please

>>16379779
>UMM SWEETY YOU CAN'T BE X, Y , Z, 1, 2, 3, 4, or 5 or I won't have sex with y-
Stfu don't give a shit not following your commands get fucked up the fucking ass nigger bitch.

>>16379799
Those are all the same girl, anon

>>16380179
Yes, anxiety is not an asset.

>>16379779
Everyone else is swiping left because of her attitude.

>>16379859
Based Butters show the impostor its place

>>16379799
Almost every single female that I've met has displayed insanity or has been insane.

>>16379853
How is the penultimate /x/?

>>16379946
Sounds like that poor girl has been giving a few too many gobblers

>>16380331
This is probably the post I agree the most with. Can probably fit every girl I've dated into one of those.

I would probably add narcissists incapable of actually caring about other people, masquerading it as being 'emotionally distant and cool' but that's probably item 1 anyways.

>>16380331
>-Very perky and superficially charming women who are agreeable and lovely but have no hobbies or passions besides the surface level social events like sports games, bar nights and parties.
my type of girl

tfw i dont fall into any of those categories

>>16380191
male emotional labor is normal behavior. we are protectors and providers...
women arent meant to be emotionally coddling some perpetual teenager full of anxiety and inadequacies who panics every time his girlfriend goes out into public without him. they arent even mentally prepared for that shit. more like their child than partner lol

>>16380179
that's why you lightly bully them
>see emotionally distant manipulator

>>16380179
bottom two should be switched. thot is cynnical libertarian

>>16380869
alternatively emotional labor can also be hand holding someone through their first relationship

>>16380179
(most) females literally can't escape the two right hand sides like males can, because they are inherently capitalist in nature. Social interaction is like a currency to them, everything they do vapid and vain. And this too carries over to right wing values, they ultimately want to be fucked or impregnated, and neither of those have anything to do with extra-personal beliefs that exist on the left hand side.

>>16380878
I need a girl to do this. Tired of being a virgin. How do I get one?

>>16380638
>jokes on them I was only pretending to be retarded

>>16380745
Newfag

>>16380519
>reject the idea
that she tended to abide in my immediate environment or even stretch of time was always a little suspect.

>>16380364
You see, normal people with healthy views towards life don't see relationships or marriages as brutal power struggles people are locked into. Find somebody, have a couple kids, and try to support each other, it's not "emotional labour", it's having a healthy relationship and caring about somebody.
What kind of fucked up post-capitalist looser do you have to be to start bringing economic theories of labour into what's really your most basic biological imperative to have a couple kids and live semi-securely with somebody. It's a sad way to see the world.

>>16380586
Those guys will be settling down with girls in their twenties though, just five years from now.

>>16380979
The basic biological imperative is the "have kids" part. It's the "live semi-securely with somebody" that fucks people up.
Women need to basically be drugged to be able to get them to want to be around their kids as much as they do,

>>16381070
>Women need to basically be drugged to be able to get them to want to be around their kids as much as they do,
No they don't. People have been having happy families and falling in love since basically the dawn of time, which is why it is a common trope present in every human culture.
You're the one who's wrong here, not the universe, not humanity, not women, not men, it's you.

>>16380519
> During our stint, I envisioned a future with her and couldn't imagine life without her. Now she's just a memory and the pain has evolved into indifference.

This is what love is. It's intense but conditional, temporary and not debilitating when it disappears.
Romantic hyperbole in media leads to this state where we see it as a magical, infinite thing.
It's like the connections you get in sitcoms. No group of friends I know is as large or as close as the cast members of Friends. No family as tight-knit as the cast of modern family.

People just don't want to sit and consume stories about lives as mundane as their own.

Everyone knows this about everything apart from romance for some reason.

>>16381074
> People have been having happy families and falling in love since basically the dawn of time

Divorce rates would suggest otherwise.
I don't know why you're coming at me with the last sentence. I would wager that I'm happier in my life and relationships than most people on this board.

>>16379779
I'm actually writing a manual for dating. I started doing pua two years ago and am quite successful with it. My coach was a very practical coach, who never read a book on pua, who doesn't think about theory. He just focuses on cold approach, small talk, dirty talk and things alike. But I wanted to systematize the whole thing. Most pua books focus on raising your value, which is great if you want to get laid. But if you want to build a long lasting healthy relationship, you need more than that. I'm working on the whole thing. Maybe I will get published soon, some of my students already want to buy it.

>>16379779
Modern Love and Dataclysm.
Two books basically about exactly that OP.

>>16379779
why are women so lacking in self awareness?

>>16381091
pua is kinda sociopathic

>>16381128
not at all, it's just behaving in a sexually attractive way.

>>16379779
all of that except for maybe the porn (which you can replace with social media and other means of instant gratification) you can apply to women too, probably to an even greater degree.

>>16381091
Manual is already here
https://marinetti-pua.edith.reisen/
You don`t need to write it.

>>16379799
Women are mould themselves to mirror you, idiot. They are clay. If a woman doesn't change herself for you unconsciously of her own accord it is your own damn fault for being genetic trash. Creating a checklist of traits and expecting them to turn up (prince charming, white steed, etc) is peak female mindset.

>>16381091
Please don't. We have enough of this shit already. The best PUA advice would be to just read something like the Bhagavad Gita.

When you figure out distance yourself from your egocentric nature, everything in life falls into place.

>>16381199
>Bhagavad Gita
I don't even care about PUA but fuck off schizo

>>16381180
Looks like a good read, but I can't read past 1st chapter. How I can read the whole thing?

>>16379779
This bitch.
yeah because the dating pool for guys is so much better

>>16381074
>People have been having happy families and falling in love since basically the dawn of time
Similarly, over the same period, people have been drugging themselves up.

>>16381091
Please go on. Do you recommend any other materials that could help with this in the meantime until your book?

I tried reading The Game once but thought it was stupid. I'm pretty laid back and low energy, i don't think obnoxiously peacocking and acting like some whimsical magician con man would work for me.

>>16379779
Every time someone complains about the "dating pool" it's a 6 trying to date 9s

Dating doesn't exist and love is dead.
There are only idols and otaku, onlyfans and incels, whores and johns. All human relationships are now mediated through a third party payment system.

>>16379779
>Complains about "performing emotional labor" and then complains about sociopaths
Why are they like this?

>>16379779
Does anybody here have screenshots from that guy that got laid by praising brothers karamazov on tinder? Maybe op can learn from that

>>16381246
well, she does have a point. not that men have better options, but 20-25 years ago, the market was different. There was no easy access to porn to get addicted to, gym bro lifestyle was not the norm, the alienation and atomisation of society was not as much of a nightmare, emo culture was yet to be invented, and wokeness was a thing that was laughed at in democratic leaning media.

>never cared about girls, could see it was pointless
>attract girls, get blowies and make out with some chicks
>come into contact with crush from high school, work up the courage to go on some dates with her
>she strings me along when I see her irl all the while she ignores my messages and actively talks to my best friend while she ignores me
>break down multiple times about it, my friends witness this (yes I know I was a bitch)
>go back to just not caring again
>meet girl through friends, gorgeous, only had sex once
>she takes my virginity, basically falls in love with me
>I ghost her because "i just want to fuck" and I dunno
>that was probably me best chance of having a good quality gf, i have not had romantic relations with any women since unless I have paid for it

Isn't it funny how when we try so hard for something it escapes or grasp, then when we don't care anymore it sits in our lap, but by that point we've stopped caring?

Anyway thanks for reading my blog.

>>16379793
>>>/reddit/

>>16379853
First butterfly post that isn't complete garbage?

>>16379798

Funny women do exist, they're just rare. Behold!

>>16380179

Yep, don't make this mistake bros. It'll happen to you too.

>>16381282
>Isn't it funny how when we try so hard for something it escapes or grasp, then when we don't care anymore it sits in our lap, but by that point we've stopped caring?

Idk, me and women have been staying out of each other's way for the last 20 years. You are probably just better looking.

>>16381270
>20-25 years ago
Back then it was wife-beating hippies, whoring corporate schmucks, cocaine-addled lawyers, AIDS breeders, yada yada. Labels change, people stay the same.

>>16381244
There is no one way to do pua. You can look at pua masters and at surface glance they all act completely different from each other. But if you dig deeper, they play their cards according to certain principles, it's just their interpretations that differ.

The manual I'm writing is more of a collection of concepts. I break down it conceptually, so that every reader can interpret in their own way. Basically, at least as how I see it, relationship between men and women develop in three ways at the same time.
>1. economical
>2. intimate (sexual)
>3, emotional.
In each of them you have stages and you need to be aware where you at, to play your cards right.

By economical I mean, relationship of values. You need to have high value in her eyes. You do it in three ways.
>1. raising your value (by being funny, confident, strong, rich, flashy...),
>2.maintaining your value (passing shit tests, staying true to your principles/values),
>3.dropping her value (being sarcastic, ignoring, making fun of her).

there are four stages of econ/value relationship:
>1. unknown
>2. negative
>3. neutral
>4. curious
>5. positive

>>16381320
You may be better off, anon. You are saving yourself a lot of stress in the long run, but I understand it must feel like you are missing out and probably gets harder with time. Stay up, bro.

>>16381244
Sexual relationship develops by dirty talk and timely escalation. There are four ways to do it
>random dirty talk/thought
>misinterpretation
>implication
>direct talk

Basically, you need to warm up her to make her comfortable with idea of having sex with you. There are different stages too, but dirty talk kicks in only from "curous" stage, and at certain point you need to escalate.

>>16379779
good thing i'm not in the dating pool, heh...

>>16381244
Pua focuses on those two, and it works great if you want to get random ONS. But if you want to have a long lasting relationship you need to build a rapport. Unfortunately, building up emotional attachment works in opposite way to building up your "value". You build emotional connection by
>showing sympathy
>being attentive
>being supportive
>showing vulnerability/exposing your weakness

As you can see, all of these things actually drops your value or/and raises her value. You need balance it in such a way that you don't drop your "value" to low, buy overdoing emotional things. Imo, emotional connection should kick in only at "positive" stage. And even then timing should be right. In my book, there are only two "right times" when you should do it:
>1. when she does it
>2. when she feels low

Because in both cases your "value" stays unaffected in her eyes.

Basically, that's it. I'm going deeper in my manual obviously. I actually started working on these things because I realized there were women that I couldn't fuck without building up emotional connection. And those women actually are good, human ones. Nice, conservative, honest girls. Without exaggeration, I can easily get laid every other day with a new girl, but certain girls require more effort and time, just because building emotional connection requires more time and effort.

The Game is a good book. You might think it's stupid, but it works, read it one more time and apply what you learn. Other good pua books are Models, The Rational Male, The Mystery Method... No matter what you read, practicing is important. Go out and apply what you learn. That's the only way you can get better.

>>16381400
it all seems so hard. why shouldn't i just jerk off instead?

>>16381497
If you're serious, seek help.
If you're joking, it's amusing.

>>16381526
women make me miserable. having to listen to them talk makes me miserable. having to pretend that i care about them beyond the wet hole makes me miserable. merely being in their presence makes me miserable and fills me with dread.

>>16379946
is it bad that i would still do it?

>>16379946
>>16380233
>https://streamable.com/pghx8s
loll she's cute and funny. there's obvious irony here r u guys rlly this dumb

>>16379946
I want her to step on my face and call me an infantile commie that doesn't care about brown bodies

>>16380208
>being so emotionally unintelligent you think emotional labour is a meme

You're on the spectrum aren't you, anon?

>>16380191
>my personal experience with emotionally immature women means every woman ever is emotionally immature

Why are you guys all so stupid? Don't you read?

>wtf men arent perfect

>>16380756
If you really wanted to do it, you would already have done it.
Sledgehammers are not expensive and women are pretty much everywhere.

>>16381603
Calm down roast

>>16381603
I think most men just think that actively choosing to do something, then complaining about "having" to do it, is a little retarded.

>>16381544
What you mean when you say they make you miserable.

For me it's been:

>damaged but dependable, politically engaged over-achiever (but frigid)
>manipulative narcissistic psychopathic Korean (incredible in the sack though)
>wildly unstable virgin with fake tits
>fascist Spanish girl with mood swings
>kind and somewhat servile Chinese girl (but boring NPC bugwoman)
>borderline schizophrenic teen who looked younger than she was, cheated on me when we on holiday together. small and ripped but with a cavernous vagina. I think she's on a sugar daddy site now.
>cool, kind, stable, but kind of lame afro-american
>supportive and fun to hang out with, but NPC vibes and bad teeth
>alternative and engaging arty, kind of dumb though
>deeply unpleasant and demanding older Korean woman who turned out to still be on a ton of dating apps
>really fun, intelligent, articulate, sporty and arty Cypriot
>intelligent, charismatic, charming, kind, traditional but open-minded, driven and disciplined, well-read, genuine and loving Russian woman. I was an idiot to break up with her.

Basically, I think these bullshit categories are a waste of time. You're not going to reduce the diversity of human expression and personality into a five-point list.

men and women hate each other but they just can't keep their hands off each other!

>>16381636
I dont want to go to jail

>>16380745
There's this place called reddit, I heard people like you might like it.

Byung Chul Han - The agony of Eros. Short and to the point, i enjoy his horizontal delivery. u may enjoy his other works too

>>16380950
>>16381788
I have replied 'cringe' to that image every time I have seen it. I don't even disagree with it. It is just embarrassing.

>>16379779
>I want to understand love in the age of Tinder.
It's a critically endangered species because "dating apps" are hookup apps and the current economy will remain individualist and gig based for the indefinite future (which strongly punishes trying to settle down in one place). Marriage and monogamy will be an alien concept in 50 years or so, we'll have soft eugenics through gene editing and most women only having kids through carefully picked sperm donors. Only rural and religious communities will still have monogamous relationships and it will be considered strange by most people.

>>16381684
It comes with the realisation that they have the same legal rights that you do.

>>16380208
Emotional labor started as a union thing to address the toll of pretending to be happy no matter what as a cashier, teacher, etc. Then some narcissist liberals appropriated it as a way to analyze personal relationships through market ideology.

>>16381291
>First butterfly post that isn't complete garbage?
No, it happens on the reg

>>16382011
Even a broken watch is right twice a day.

>>16381603
>emotional intelligence
another meme

>>16382056
more like twice a lifetime
i.e. once every 15 years

>>16381732
eternally based boomer reductionist

>>16379946
God, fucking insufferable how these retards call Trump a fascist when Bush, Nixon, and Reagan were far worse republicans than Trump’s retardation. These faggots don’t even know how to define fascism. So tired

How do I become affectionate lads? It's all my gf complains about. Came from a pretty cold family so it's hard man

>>16379799
Can literally fix all of that with a strong (back)hand.

>>16380805
Women are insane by default. In ancient Chinese the “chaos” part of Yinyang is female. The Greeks portrayed the Furies who tormented mankind as primordial and female for a reason. Countless cultures portray women as closer to nature and nature as something wild and unpredictable to be tamed. The men who think otherwise also think nature has some kind of “balance” going when in reality we’re in our sixth known mass extinction.

>>16380331
I’ve met a girl that is interesting and attractive. But I’m too much of a sperg to interact with her. At first I was very natural because I thought she was another qt but then we chatted and found out she’s actually pretty cool and now I’m too aware of myself to come up with anything to keep up

>>16379946
She's obviously self-aware and pretty funny imo

Also
>Hole
Jej

>>16379779
The Tactical Guide to Women. Changed my four year relationship and made it even better.

>>16381198
Complete truth here anons. My gf began as a normie but has developed to have traits similar to mine over several years. The key is to always show, either explicitly or implicitly, that you WANT her as a gf but you do not NEED her as a gf. If she doesn't accustom, she's the wrong one.

noncel thread

>>16379779
>why isn't every guy Chris Reeves Clark Kent?
>>16379799
>why isn't every girl an Eastern Orthodox peasant wife with the body of an anime girl?
If you meet an asshole in the morning, you met an asshole, if you meet an asshole in the morning, lunch, and night, you're the asshole.

>>16379946
Those tits Jesus Christ I’m so horny rn

>>16382354
based

>>16379779
The book of pook

>>16382186
kek

>>16379799
These days “boring normie girl” also has 30+ bodies.

>>16380741
Dash?

>>16381198
This is actually true.
I've been with my girlfriend for 8 years and sometimes the stuff that comes out her mouth these days is as if I'd put the words there myself.
It gives me a sense of pride, like raising a child.

>>16381198
Have met so many girls whose 'interesting and strong personality' is just a copycat of one of their exes, it's kinda sad

>>16380535
>modern women think giving attention to anyone outside themselves is "labor"
I can definitely appreciate that a lot of young women who are heavily into social justice and feminism have this attitude. It's really quite sad and pathetic. I find it utterly contemptible and incredibly harmful to our culture.

>>16382283
Yeah you're right, I love defending Trump even though I'm super smart and acknowledge that he's an immoral retard whose supporters want an excuse to kill everybody. The people over-applying the term "fascist" when insulting him are definitely the bigger problem, and the one I prefer to post about online.

>>16381720

>tfw no Russian gf

>>16381544
>having to pretend that i care about them beyond the wet hole makes me miserable
Honestly, this. The greatest triumph women ever won was changing the rules of the game so that men have to pretend to be interested in them as people when, for most of them, that's the least interesting thing about them. There are exceptions, but most women are boring as hell, have nothing interesting to say, and offer nothing of value to the world beyond their womanhood. I guess the same is true of most men, but it really seems that women of my generation (millennial) don't even consider the possibility that they should humour men to the extent that men seem to have to humour women.
It's like, the ultimate female fantasy is to be considered the most interesting thing in all creation, just by virtue of being female.

>>16381720
>virgin with fake tits
This one is the most in want of explanation.

>>16382682
>whose supporters want an excuse to kill everybody.
can you post proof? And an example of trump supporters genociding everyone?

>>16380286
"Sensitive" narcissistic gymbro for me. I haven't been a porn addict ever since my sex drive disappeared on me.

>>16382784
that post was clearly satire

>>16382784
Not wanting illegals is literally genocide I guess

>>16379779
Literally every one of these is me.

>>16380331
>Nothing you do is right but everything you don't do is wrong and they're only ever going to be a sinking ship
kek many such cases

>>16380775
lmao yes, how did you know? I was in fact referring to the same woman

>>16382739
Kek this reminds me of Mark Normand. He has a joke on how women spend all their time sexing themselves up but when a guy smashes and leaves they get emotional.
>Why are you so mad? You advertised yourself as such and have 0 stories/jokes/personality. I competed against 5 guys at the bar and out charmed them all. Now it's your turn to make me stay.

>>16379839
Wrong, and I am the proof

I'm currently reading Models by Mark Manson. It's been pretty eye opening so far. I see it getting mentioned a lot on /adv/. I recommend it

>>16382885
Great. Now go put it into practice and watch yourself fail. Film it for us to laugh at.

>>16379946
Unironically looks like she might be fun to hangout with

>>16382682
yeah i mean some fucking frogposters on an anime imageboard represent a bigger existential threat than the people responsible for endless wars in the middle east you stupid war criminal rehabilitating faggot nigger

I just had an insigth that women cannot be asexual.
Women love sex and love to desire sex.

Men love sex but they do not love much nor dislike much the desire for sex. In fact the desire for sex is more like an hindrance and a thing to eject, precisely by wanking and ejaculation that is the pinnacle of fucking a slag.
men still despise not loving sex, since it removes the most effective mechanism of valuation that they have, which leads them to the usual mockery of being shagless didlos remaingin on the shelf, being baby dicks and being asexual.
Men despise asexuality in men since it shows them to be far less dominant than the story they plays in their heads

Women despise asexuality in men, since the few asexual men (very few are handsome) no longer acknowledge women for sex nor for companionship. Some asexual men claim to still want a gf just to cuddle, but that's already a baby-level sex and we are still in the situation of validation (and the gf still wants sex anyway sooner or later) and once they have sex with a girl they love they see sex is not so bad.

Women despise asexuality in women, precisely because women live on sex while their hate of their body for menstruating leads them to take pills which kills their desire for sex (but indeed kills their menstruation). They hate their life since through their own body, they acknowledge in their intimacy that they cannot win on both accounts: either have a comfy life or have an erotic life.

>>16382127
incel logic:

>all human intelligence is measured by iq
>that's a FACT
>psychology is a pseudoscience
>therefore creativity, empathy, and communication must derive from iq

meanwhile...

>i don't get why girls don't like me
>I have an iq in the top ten percentile
>so I must be better and more intelligent than them in every way
>but when I try and talk to them they look at me like I'm stupid and whisper something about that jewish meme disease 'autism'
>but the jokes on them because I'm a smart STEM major
>my intro to evolutionary biology class taught me that girls are basically just beasts with no impulse control
>they must not like me because I have a recessive chin and can only grow a patchy beard
>yeah, my friends are always alluding to this, so it must be true
>dumb chads
>well, I say friends, but really I just mean the small circle of anonymous internet users I spend all my spare time sharing porn links with
>but they're always right
>I mean apart from whenever I post literally anything and someone responds to it calling me an idiot or a faggot
>but yeah girls are the stupid reductionist ones
>dumb sloots

>>16382975
Who are you quoting?

>>16383009
>what's satire

Seriously
DOES NO ONE ON THIS FUCKING BOARD READ?!

>>16380474
Lucky for all of us we skipped the butchery of fascism and went straight for the economic mismanagement and decay.

>>16380331
>Very perky and superficially charming women who are agreeable and lovely but have no hobbies or passions besides the surface level social events like sports games, bar nights and parties.
Nothing wrong with this desu. What, are you expecting depth from women?

>>16380286
Emotionally distant, but to be fair I'm emotionally distant from myself, too.

>>16383037
Who are you satirizing?

>>16383080
The incel boogeyman living under his bed I would assume

>>16383037
M8, if you're writing satire and noone gets that it's satire, maybe you're just not very good at writing it?

>>16379779
>thinking finding a partner means just fiding one that's perfect for you from the beginning and not something you two need to work on
>"dating" and not courtship
>premarital sex
Do modern people really?

>>16383080
omg

read the first line of the post
or read between the lines of the rest
or look at the image
or think about the context of what you're reading--the fact it's greentexted, the thread it's in, the website it's on
think about the norms and stereotypes associated with this context
i.e. use your b-r-a-i-n

it's not subtle so stop pretending to be dumb just because the post touches a nerve lmao

>>16379779
>>16379793
>look, you're a bag made of skin filled with chemicals and stuff. there's no love
The romance is in the children production lead up, the love is in the product.

>>16382972
>persistent itch that can at least be scratched vs
>gnawing infant shaped void

>>16383207
>norms and stereotypes associated with this context
Source?

>>16379861
It’s a pretty good one desu

>>16379799
- Used-up whore with a 30+ body count
- Insane girl with daddy issues and disorders and a 30+ body count
- Boring normie girl with shit taste in everything and a 30+ body count
- Manipulative slut who would cheat since day 1 to grind her 30+ body count
- Leftist SJW girl who favors niggers and degeneracy and has a 30+ body count

>>16379793
>le science solves yet again!

>>16380286
Coooooooomm

>>16380286
I'm not any of those but i'm also not in the dating pool

Society is fucked.

>>16383037
look, I get that you're trying, and that's good, but really - sometimes satire isn't for you. Too heavy handed and lacking in actual humour. Are you a woman per chance?

>>16382876
use grindr

>>16379799
Whores! Whores and whores!

If there ever was a good time to reject your carnal desires and pursue a higher purpose, it's now.

>>16383422
Do you have the one where someone put Eggman on a female Tinder profile and he (as a she) got many matches? Kek

Life of a 21st century femoid
20s: cock carousel
>30s: depression and suicide

>>16383430
jesus.... san francisco? but he could've had better pictures - second one looks like psycho. but, still. crazy.

>>16383412
>Are you a woman per chance?

lol you're right. You've just shown me how satire should be done with this response. You nailed it

>>16383405
isnt this confounded by the fact that couples who met in earlier years will have been together looking than couples that met in like 2019, so you're comparing serious relationships and nonserious ones? or in other words graphing it like this would make it seem like there was an increasing number of nonserious relationships (including 'met online') even if the behaviour had stayed the same?

>>16379793
>Love is just chemicals in your brain!
Wubba lubba dub dub!!!

Pic related is what people calling you an incel look like.
Mentally healthy people do not feel hatred towards incels, only compassion.

>>16383405
>family

>yfw almost 30% of boomers are products of incest

>>16379779
>Emotionally distant manipulator
Ha! It's worked so far, sorry bitches.

>>16383456
I'm sure that's a factor you have to take into account. It also seems to be true that nowadays more and more people look at relationships and sex as a casual thing. Whichever way you look at it, the numbers don't mean anything good.

>>16383430
if he'd just gone with the first and third pictures he'd have got significantly more matches

throw in a joke and he'd have got even more

it's really not that hard, guys

Just make jokes bro, be funny

>>16379779
Time to date the philosophically capitalist lassie.

>>16383467
>Mentally healthy people do not feel hatred towards incels, only compassion.

lmao cope more

why are incels so delusional

It's really not that hard to get laid on the dating apps, just be direct and interesting
(I'm not attractive either)

>>16383510
Irrationally hating virgins is as dumb as irrationally hating any other group

Remember that white kid who was thrown over the balcony and killed by that black gorilla? The murder was an incel.
You're lucky if you're white.
>source
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/man-threw-child-mall-of-america-angry-women_n_5cb5bbd5e4b098b9a2da2fe1

When did /lit/ lose their virginity?

>>16380543
Women are physically attracted to money/status.

>>16383542
im 22 and a virgin

>>16380331
>Girls that claim to have a lot of interests that they never indulge, usually the biggest mental blueballers of all of them
Finally someone who can put my pain into words.

>>16379793
>and then he turned into a pickle....A PICKLE!!!

Why do you feel so entitled to sex? You seem obsessed with sex! It's like you can't see past the most basic ugly instincts. Also, if you've never had sex you're a creepy loser and no one wants to have anything to do with you. Haven't put your dick in a hole past 25? Forget about a relationship.

>>16383542
At 22, Just stopped being a sperg about women and decided to be outgoing. (being told youre attractive helps tho)

>>16383542
Freshman year uni. This was the year I discovered the effects of liquid confidence.

Love is real. Unfortunately, it's for Chad only.

Wanna perform a fun experiment yourself? Go to twitter and search for "short men". Share your results.

Want your girlfriend to be a virgin just like you? TOXIC MISOGYNISTIC INCEL!!! KILL YOURSELF FREAK

>>16379799
the trick is find a ugly girl with a big rack

>>16381199

profoundly based. pic related

>>16383632
based and nothingpilled

>>16380615
i had oneitis for 8 years, anon, but the more i got to know her, the more i started to notice a small voice in the back of my head. it was whispering late at nights, or when i was alone with my thoughts, and it took a while to understand what it was saying. but i was aware of it, suppressed in the back of my mind.

then one day i was chatting with her on the phone while smoking weed, and as i got high, the voice in my head became clear. it shouted at me in anger over the fact that i was allowing her to walk over me, to use me, and to manipulate my love for her. it shoved me into reality, so i could see her for what she really was. she wasn't the perfect, lovable being i had made her in my mind. she was a very flawed, average person, and worse yet, my love for her was hurting me and making her into a shittier person.

the voice in the back of my mind became clear that night, and it was clear for a while after, allowing me to emotionally distance myself from her. over the following months, i cut contact with her, and moved on in life. i sometimes remember her now, and i feel a slight awkwardness at her memory, because a part of me is still enslaved to her. but that part is small, and it is no longer in control of me.

>in short: smoke some weed anon, while reflecting over this girl, and it might help you get over her

>>16379946
I want to convince her to dress up into a Nazi uniform and then peg me while I call her my "fascist dommy mommy" until she unironically becomes a fascist herself

>>16383675
Cringe but based

>>16383542
>tfw single digit percentile in something
Can i get a based?

>>16383542
>tfw 5% club
27 gang

>>16380740

>>16383562
Funniest shit I've ever heard.

>>16381282
>get blowies
>she takes my virginity later

>>16379946
I wish the alternative was a fascist.

>>16379793

>>16379799
>Boring normie girl with shit taste in everything
with proper investment, this is a 10/10

>>16383830
t. William Blakepilled

I am all these types of guys, that seems like a good a thing.

>>16379799
Came here for this.

>>16383830
Most girls don't really have hobbies the way men do. If you ask a girl about her hobbies she'll just tell you about whatever television series she's watching.

I humbly request you FAGGOTS who want to treat this place as a second /pol/ fuck off

>>16383439
Thats a blackpill

>>16384010
Fuck off /lit/ is an incel board
You don't belong here normalfag

>>16383603
>32
Showing undesirable girls going hard for slightly less than desirable guys doesn’t prove anything.

>>16383491
This. Men can't seem to nail how to sell themselves, even if they're handsome or succesful.

>>16384075
>literal child rapist
>slightly less than desirable

>>16379779
GOD I hate women

>>16383603
>that smile

>>16384046
>/lit/ being hung up on grinding groins
read Platon faggot

>>16380331
>Pseudo-independent women with troubled pasts and draining levels of dependency issues. Nothing you do is right but everything you don't do is wrong and they're only ever going to be a sinking ship

My part-time gf is the epitome of this. You sir, are a fucking prophet

Also, in a league of their own
>fatties

>>16381198
Y-you dont have to be r-rude anon

>>16381369
>>16381400
>>16381486
Thanks based pua anon

>>16383542
25

My tinder girl stopped replying and I spent all week thinking about her.

>>16383436
>>16383439

>>16383654
good man, she was not worth what you went through

>>16383542
16. I'm a failed normie

>>16384234
Happens all the time man. Just get as many tinder girls as you can.

>>16381369
>>16381400
>>16381486
PUAs are the ultimate simps, and even worse than incels. They pretend not to be simps (>b-but I don't fall for shit tests! But I don't give her attention!), and try to hide themselves behind a thin veil of machismo and Machiavellianism, but at the end of the day you're still desperate for pussy, you're just being more autistic and methodical about getting it. Bunch of oxygen thieves, neck yourselves.

>>16383405
What the sauce of this?

>>16383654
wtf
are you this guy?

>>16379779
God created women to serve men.

>>16379779
the mystery method

>>16384328
>PUA's are guys who take a methodical approach to maximize pussy
any more hot takes, anon? you don't have a podcast by any chance, do you?

>>16384136
>fatties
Take the chub pill anon.

>>16384344
https://web.stanford.edu/~mrosenfe/Rosenfeld_et_al_Disintermediating_Friends.pdf

>>16379946
This is basically every woman here in DC. Fuck this city. Almost everyone here is either a harpy, simp, or sodomite. Damn it all to hell.

>>16379946
Dont get me wrong she is a cunt who should be shot. But she makes a good point.

>Behind a great man there is always a great woman
I have high stardards so anything less than a tradcath virgin with strong principles is as good as a hooker.

>>16379799
>Boring normie girl with shit taste in everything
too real bros. i settled for one of these. but i think it was the right thing, all the other ones are crazy whores

>>16380519
Putting this in my next book.

>>16381948
Dystopian af.

>>16384456
Not sure if you're serious. If you are though, I'm glad my experiences have aided you in you're writing.

>>16383542
15

glad I missed the incel train desu

>>16379899
This is objectively true, not every potential lover needs to align with you totally and completely on everything, and more people should realize this instead of looking for the “perfect” girl who is just like them.You know who does align with you totally and completely? Men with autism. You’re gay

>>16384801
It's one thing to have unrealistic expectations about how similar a mate should be. But you do need *some* degree of chemistry. Let's not write off the idea entirely.

>>16383491
So he would have gotten 3 dates instead of 2 with 100k swipes? Kys for even enabling this trash

>>16382334
Talk to her about it you mong.
I dunno why you'd ask that sort of question in some shitty slide thread

>>16383542
>even if you lose your virginity later in life, you will never be able to experience teenage "forbidden love"
Why even bother

>>16381948
that sounds horrifying

>>16384846
There are experiences that everyone misses out on. It's no big deal.

>>16384347
Holy fuck, I remember you anon. This place is smaller than I thought. You screencapped my advice? I'm honored that it resonated with you.

Did you get over her?

>modern dating
No such thing.

>>16383629

>>16384347
>>16384909
It seems we have hit bump limit, so I'm afraid our ways will part again anon. In case you don't get the chance to answer, I will just assume that you too managed to free yourself. Maybe we will recognize each other again in some other sad thread one day.