/lit/ - Literature

chad doesn't read

>>16335981
Jack London’s The Iron Heel

You either are a Chad or you are not a Chad. There is no becoming

sayyid qutb

>>16335981

>>16335981
My diary desu

>>16335981
go to the gym faggot

I'm a Chad and I'm reading this now that the gyms are open again.

Honestly, how do I cope with the fact that I am not having sex despite being a guy in my 20s? I don’t think there is any ways to cope. Whenever I find a suitable coping mechanism, it lasts for about a couple of weeks, and then this shit feeling comes back again. Is there a way, anyone here found a proper way to cope?

>>16336039
go to a brothel. download tinder and fuck fatties. idk

>>16336039
I find that if I don't bother trying to talk to people I live quite happily, never being reminded of my alienation. It's a good life

>>16336039
>how do I cope with the fact I can't get pussy
just jerk off retard

>>16336016
I do but getting bit only takes you so far. didn't help much with autism

>>16335981
chad are defined through what women like

>>16336039
Reject sexual desire. Most people in relationships are unhappy with each other anyway, especially after a few years pass. Even sex addicts are depressed. What you're missing is just a different way to feel the same amount of emptiness.

>>16336060
hire a hooker then if cooming is so important for you

>>16336039
just have a sad wank

>>16336039
if you really wanted to have sex you'd have found a way to have it by now. maybe you don't care that much about it and just think you do because you spend so much time here around wannabe normie incels

>>16336057
>>16336071
Whenever I’m feeling like shit this just makes it worse, so definitely not. If you are able to overcome feelings of sexual inferiority by wanking off then you probably really are inferior

I'm writing it, anon. It will be done eventually. Hold tight.

>>16335992
This book is terrible.

The answer is Zorba the Greek. Its always Zorba the Greek. Read the book and see yourself in the narrator and like him aspire to be less smooth handed and more like Zorba.

I think the best state of being is one that marries erudition with experience, so we should strive to synthesize narrator and zorba. But on this board I would imagine the vast majority are too much like the narrator, so follow him in his journey of fascination with Zorba.

If you want the shitty version I guess there's also /fitlit/.

>>16336065
>Most people in relationships are unhappy with each other anyway

Because they're fucking losers who don't care about their girl lmao, they get too comfortable.
I've been dating my girl for 7 years and I put in the work year in and year out for our relationship to be more than just boring comfort seeking relationship
You'd be surprised by the amount of people who get a girl and then start completely ignoring her

>>16335981
You niggas dont understand that no one wants to fuck a loser whether its a male or female.No one with more than 2 brain cells would want to associate with someone who has nothing going in his 20s. So stop whining and do something with your life.
Lift, get a good job, some nice clothes, looksmax, get your own place, talk with friends or hang out more
The same way you wouldnt want a loser for your wife, the same way a woman doesnt want a pathetic human being for her man

>>16336039
Who cares about sex?
I want intimacy
I want someone to care about me and do little things that seem insignificant but show that the other person cares about me and pays attention to what makes me happy
And vice versa
What I can't cope with is that at the ripe age of 23, I've never had a real friend and still don't, I never hung out with kids of my age at any point during my childhood and never had personality-forming stupid fun adventurous experiences as a young teen, I never fell in love, never went on a date, never tried awkwardly to hit up on a girl only for it to suddenly result in success
never had a normal life
All I did was play video games every day of every week of every year

And now I'm essentially turning into a pedophile: I am not attracted to women my age, they are disgusting hags, I'm only enfatuated by young girls because in my head I still crave that teenage romance that I never had, in my head I still myself as a kid and I NEVER GROW UP

Is this how people become pedophiles? I'm sick in the head

>>16336852
Fuck that sounds exhausting... I'm already so tired.

>>16337077
Yeah it really do be like that

>>16335981
real literature aka shakespeare

>>16336039
literally get on tinder and use it for practice. i learned to play the game and developed algorithms in my head to ensure a smooth data and maximize the probability of coochie.

you need to learn to be a sociopath

>>16337077
I am 21 one right now and I can say that my experience so far has been roughly similar. I have not been that alienated all my life, because I had friends in primary school and had fun, but after the age of 13 or so, when all my friends and girls of the same age began to form romantic relationships, even sexual, I began to fall off the pace and became isolated. I wouldn’t say it was because of my looks, or personality, my puberty just didn’t hit until 15-16, and I couldn’t cope with the fact that I couldn’t take part in the mating ritual despite having sexual fantasies from a very young age(I got in trouble in kindergarten when I was five years old because I was constantly touching the boobs and trying to stuff my head inside the butt of one of the kindergarten female tutors who to my recalling was quite attractive). In my country people also get easily isolated, social bonds are very fragile, and that’s also apparent in the relations of teens.

And despite the fact that I have been through puberty already, I still look very young, like a 16-years old or so, and the only women who look at me in the streets or the bus, are mainly girls around the age of 12-14 (in Tinder I didn’t get almost any matches when I tried it once). And because of this my taste of women has obviously became more towards young teens, and despite that not being pedophilic in any way (they have hit puberty and it’s clearly visible from the chests and butts), it’s still illegal. So basically the reason I can’t get no intimacy is the state and its laws, I am like a homosexual living in an islamic country. I just wish I was gay, everything would be so much easier.

>>16336018
Isn't bodybuilding a meme that just puts form before function?

>>16337258
>I just wish I was gay
You can make yourself gay
Start with cute trannies

Don't though

>>16336039
Start meditating and stop masturbating. Eventually you develop the ability to sublimate your sexual desires into magical energy. I manifested my first wife this way.

>>16336039
Stop valuing sex. Or start having sex with people.

>>16337861
>first wife
how many wives have you had, anon?

>>16335988
>>16336055
>>16336099
>>16337077
>>16337099
Dubs

>>16336039
Buddhism. Your sexual desire is causing you suffering. Why do you constantly hang on to something that is causing such a state?

>>16338119
But is it actually possible to get rid of it? It’s probably the only thing that isn’t reducible to some other activity which would fulfill the base desire.

>>16335988
>>16336055
>>16336099
>>16337077
>>16337099
Dubs :)

>>16335981
No more Mr nice guy of Robert Glover.

>>16335981
Fiction
not being a chad means you had a poor upbringing with weak or non existant father figure to show you how to be a man.
Read fiction, coming of age stories, how a boy grows up to be a man. To be fair there aren't many good stories like that, read fiction that has man as protagonist with first person pov, you must avoid any sjw trash literature, women authors etc, avoid anything that is more philosophical than story or character based (in your current state philosophy will not be useful).

Confessions by Saint Augustine

>>16336016
Chad doesn't go to Gyms. He has his own.

>>16335981
No contest. Though actually applying it and integrating it's virtue into your personhood takes a profound effort. Nothing comes automatic.

>>16337861
This is the power of Evola

>>16335981
wilhelm meister's apprenticeship

>>16338299

chads don't read.

>>16338480
no, gymcel autists have home gyms

>>16338486
Heartless cunt.

>>16337091
Yeah well, relationships can be exhausting bucko. If you want comfort your relationship will end in degeneracy. Make sure the girl is worth it

>>16338977
>Make sure the girl is worth it
That's the problem

>>16338966
The most potent benevolence is only ever practiced with those with developed egos.

>>16337077
I can relate

>>16336039
>Am not having
Are you trying? If not there might be something else about your life bugging you

>>16337077
Kill yourself maybe if you’re a pedo?

>>16336012
unironically this

>>16335981

Being Chad has nothing to do with reading, or about looks, or about working out. It's about respecting women. Always respect your opponent, in and out of the ring. Never punch below the belt. No biting (unless she bites first). Clean knockouts only.

>>16335981
Don't read anything, just do chad shit and you'll get there in no time. Essentially just fake it till you make it. It's not that hard desu

>>16337077
>All I did was play video games every day of every week of every year

This is one of the leading causes right there. Modern entertainment alienates people. There was a time where playing videogames too often was rightfully shamed as a waste of time. Reject alienation, embrace the Real.

>>16339328
This. The weak cannot be merciful.

>>16336039
i'm a 1.82 skinny balding mutt. I have no problem getting pussy and shouldn't you too. Women are not that picky in regards to appereance. Just approach women on the street like a normal human being would do

>>16335981
The young sheldon synopsis

>>16336083
Stop wanking to porn, you'll stop feeling like shit post-nut if you only use your imagination to coom.

Give women pumkin spice latte

consider a career in criminology

>>16340059
what difference does it make? Is there studies or theory concerning this question?

>>16336039
As a 23 year old virgin, my copies are twofold: first, I tell myself that when I visit Siberia I will find a decent дeвyшкy in the forests, she will marry me, and I will live in Russia. Second, I tell myself that, even if the first doesn’t work, I can still become a wizard. I honestly believe I will get some sort of powers if I make it to 30 without sex. And that’s probably what is going to happen. There is a third possibility, which is that civilisation collapses, I survive, and I become a source of stability for a post-apocalyptic woman(or women lmao).

>>16336138
you have one chance to tell me what's wrong with it
yes, i've read it. I thought /lit/ would favor it but they're just as bad as reddit or Tumblr with their "JP bad" nonsense. Say something critical about it.

>>16340136
*copes*
Not copies

>>16335981

chad does not desire to be chad much like tree does not desire to be tree. it just is. it know nothing else, capable of nothing else

>>16340146
I don't like cats

>>16340136
Unbelievably based, if the third possibility comes true I humbly ask that I may join your warrior band.

>>16340415
I will accept the best as friends, and the not so great so long as they swear fealty. But let’s not kid ourselves; I’ll be among the first to perish

>>16335981
Sun and Steel by Yukio Mishima. He went from a skinny incel into a chad in his mid twenties.

>>16335981
That's not really one of the things reading can do for you. The textbook for a high-earning field, maybe.

>>16338129
I'm not the person you're replying to, this is my understanding of the Dhamma, I'm still learning though so please correct me if I'm wrong. Unless you get really deep into meditation, you probably aren't going to ever be able to overcome your body's natural instinct to crave intimacy within this lifetime. That's ok, there are plenty of lay buddhists out there who don't go all in. When you feel these feelings/cravings/etc, you have to be willing to let them go, acknowledge them for what they are, and move on. It's not like flipping a switch, there are hills and valleys.

will reading ever give me the feeling of holding a warm hand on a rainy day?

>>16341256
Never, you will always be a /lit/cel

The Bible.

>>16335981
Start with the geeks.

>>16335981
/fit/

>>16335981
Don Quijote

>>16335988
Checked

>read the back of a whey protien jug.
Get fit.

>>16340136
Are you me?

you never can, the thing with personalities is that they are unchangeable after a certain age, very small changes could be made and big changes could be induced by traumatic experiences but even then you still stay true to your core.
if you really try you can be a pseudo chad if you workout to build confidence and you can try to adopt the mindset but you'll be like a ticking clock, waiting to be reminded of who you are

>>16335986
> Chad doesn't need to read
Ftfy

>>16336046
careful I ended up marrying a fattie from tinder

>>16343217
Nobody needs to know that. Gross.

If you get rejected by a 1000 girls you should be legally allowed to rape.

>>16343251
conversely, if you date 1000 girls you are legally allowed to be raped?

>>16335981
Tony Robbins Awaken the Giant Within

>>16343103
It’s possible. Only so many archetypes are allowed to manifest in this era

>>16336039
>Honestly, how do I cope with the fact that I am not having sex despite being a guy in my 20s?
Stop obsessing over wet holes, fag

t. virgin in my 20s

>>16339508
Yeah, I remember this weird shift maybe around 2010 when my parents and my friends parents as well just seemed to stop caring if we spent our entire days playing video games or surfing the net. My dad used to rage if I spent the entire day on the PC. But then eventually it became normal. That became a normal thing for kids to do. So they stopped caring, and now they do it too to some extent.

>>16337061
>The same way you wouldnt want a loser for your wife

That's exactly what I want though. A girl with no or very few friends who just focuses on our relationship and her own hobbies would be perfect.

My brother and his roommate both live with their gfs. The roommate and his girlfriend have the perfect relationship IMO. They basically hang out at night but besides that they're doing their own stuff, even when they're both at home.
Meanwhile, my bro and his gf are constantly clung to each other. She's always bugging him to pay attention to her and to go out and do things. Gotta go shopping, lets go out to eat, lets drive 2 hours to go do X etc etc. That kind of relationship would make my KMS.

I just want a boring nerd gf but idk where to find them

>>16337077
Stop crying. I have to cope with the same shit but I'm 28. Uni was hell. At least I got a degree.

>>16335986
FPBP. Why is this thread still alive?

>>16343251
>if you're a worthless piece of shit you deserve extra rights
Wouldn't it make more sense to lock someone like that up?

>>16343251
>If you get rejected by a 1000 girls you should kys.
ftfy

>>16337061
>You niggas dont understand that no one wants to fuck a loser whether its a male or female.
this is complete horseshit cope. i've known plenty of people who fucked losers or were losers who were still getting sex.
you can easily find a billion stories of girls having relationships with complete losers who have nothing going for them, and then whining about it to their friends or family or whatever the fuck. people are fucking stupid and 90% of the time won't look at a person or their future prospects objectively when dating them. yes, even all the way up to their 30s

>>16344181
Maybe we should try to find one that is more interesting.

>>16335981
Søren Kierkegaard will help you. The knight of faith is the truest chad in this world, his faith makes him stand tall among the weak and godless.

>>16335991
holy and based

>>16335981
cultivate a strong personality over time instead of asking for one online, idiot.

>>16337061
>The same way you wouldnt want a loser for your wife,
See this is how we know you're larping and have swallowed the absolute equality pill dished out by sjws. Men and women are not equal. Women won't take a loser for a husband, men will be queuing up at the door to get a girl that is quiet and not a challenge to them. That's how it works.
>>16345482
Almost a good post, but it depends what you're calling "loser". If you figure a person with a blue collar job is a loser then you're a tosspot but you're right. If you mean someone with no friends and no game then girls won't be interested in them.

>>16337427
Yeah, and chad's don't bodybuild. Almost all bodybuilders are total fucking nerds who log what they eat and spend a bunch of time at the gym every day. Most keep "diaries" with their lifts and PRs

source: I lift a lot.

>>16337077
bruh you need therapy

>>16335981
You certainly don't become a chad by reading. Get a life, start hitting the gym, and work on your social skills.

>>16348830
>”yeah bro, I just do like 5 sets of 10 squats
>”what weight? Haha, I unno, whatever I feel like today”

I hate them so much.

>>16337077
>i still crave teens
>I'm essentially a pedophile
based retard spooked by 20th century feminist propaganda

>>16342343
'Tis true

>>16335981
Have sex

>>16335986
>chad doesn't read

Cope harder incel

Plenty of chads are/were very literate

>>16337427
>that roid scalp

wew

>>16351005
chad doesn't blow his head off

>>16351040
He does when his body is body starts becoming too old and frail fuck fuck shit up, drink and fuck bitches and fate gives him literal Alzheimer's

Offing yourself at this point is basically giving God the middle finger and quitting on your own terms

>>16336039
Start with the Introduction to the Study of the Hindu Doctrines

>>16335981
Read anything just keep in mind that porn is the devil.

The rational male rollo

>>16335992
Back in the hospital again-go Keto!!!

>>16337061
>no one wants to fuck a loser whether its a male or female
are you retarded?
1. men don't care about female accomplishments
2. women fuck broke drug addicted losers all the time

>>16336039
focus on yourself first and set long-term goals for yourself that don't have to include getting a relationship, and just go and start working on those goals. youll be surprised what will happen

>>16340296
What about a boisterous cat that behave more like a dog trapped in a cat's body?

>>16335981
my journal senpai

>>16337861
As in you magicked up a wife out of pure jizzum? A literal semon demon? Are you sure this really happened and you aren't confusing your own life with something from Naked Lunch? How is your rumpus room?

>>16335981
The text messages from all the bitches that want your dick.

HORY SHET

>>>/his/9444444

HORY SHET

>>>/his/9444444

HORY SHET

>>>/his/9444444

>>16335992

>>16335981
God Is Not Great
by Christopher Hitchens

While this thread is still alive let me be an idiot (im ETL so dont bully)

In these threads theres always someone asking how to get a gf and in response some on will post a short self improvement routine (not hating on exercise routines theyre cool), a routine based on changing the perception the worls has of you so that you can attract women, its always a slight variation of the same thing but the transformation it asks of you is always the same. I have not spend much time considering the merits of that change in lifestyle not have I really tried but id rather be allone for the rest of my life than attempt to change to such a radical degree. I believe that way of living to be inherently shallow it is a reflection of a person who doesnt exist and most likely never will, I do not want to forgo my 19 years of life, everything I am ande everything I can be for the sake of tricking someone into falling in love with a fake persona. Being in a relationship with someone who is in love with an idealised of me does not seem fulfilling to me, as I would never be able to get over the fact that they do not like the real me only the fake person I must work hard to project into the world, I do not want to be with someone who is only interested in someone who isnt me and likely never will be. I do not want to have to go through a fake “improvement” to get a girl, what I want is to improve with a girl.

Having to go through that generic 4chan improvement proess would go against who I am and what I believe in, I am a guy who get some sort of sick pleasure out of being pushed down by society as it gives an excuse, a justification to push back harder in attempt to destroy a society that goes against my beliefs. It might be cope, but at the end of the day Im too important to myself to discard who I am in order to get a girl, id much rather stay alone and see what good I can do to world.

>>16337077
>And now I'm essentially turning into a pedophile: I am not attracted to women my age, they are disgusting hags, I'm only enfatuated by young girls because in my head I still crave that teenage romance that I never had, in my head I still myself as a kid and I NEVER GROW UP
that hits way too close to home. I caught myself being attracted to 16~18 girls on the street. Even my coworkers pointed it out, but laughed that off. I just never stopped seeing them as peers. T. 26yo kissless.

>>16340119
I find masturbating to thoughts only gives me more much intense orgasms. Sometimes when I watch porn, I'm disappointed because my orgasm was just ok and also because watching whores after I nutted make me disgusted. After I nut to my own thoughts, my mind is more clear and I feel zero guilt. I simply go on with what I was doing before. Eventually, I just stopped masturbating entirely. Don't think it would be possible without giving up porn.

>>16353571
Most utterly fucking based post in this thread. I personally believe the same.

>>16337061
t. self fulfilling prophecy

>>16337258
>>16337801
Of you were gay you’d just be me, I’m basically the guy >>16337077 except I never had any of these experiences or social bonds or friends and instead of young girls I just fetishize friendships with The cool jock types I could never be like and fantasize just sitting beside them and making casual contact with my big jock muscles I just naturally cultivated (imagining being like the big guy in >>16337427 is my kink)

>>16340159
fuck yeah

>>16337077
seems like you need urgent therapy

>>16353571
Just lift faggot

>>16353571
>what I want is to improve with a girl
Forget it, that's not how female brains work

>>16335992
Read Jordanetics instead

>>16339508
Maybe the problem is the people who play too much and not the medium.....

>>16338966
Fucking looters I swear.

>>16337077
Do not reject your long desire for Jesus Christ and Plato, you will get there one day, if you try.

>>16340146
It's cringecore selfhelp for manchildren who need a pat on the head to keep from becoming absolute piles of shit.
One of the most embarrassing books ever written imho.

the problem with these threads is how do we know it's not just the blind leading the blind

>>16353571
Anons never understand that society has evolved to the point of providing for dysgenic losers who offer nothing of value, whether inherent or produced by labor. Valuing the sense of "self" that any anon in their mid 20s has come to achieve is arrogant in the sense that their fragile (easily offended at the idea they are not developed), entitled (that they deserve life without effort and suffering) EGO and self are going to be inert.
BULLSHIT, change is the only constant and to think that ones autistic behaviors and whims represent their "soul" is a deeply flawed philosophy that will only impede self improvement and growth.

>Having to go through that generic 4chan improvement proess would go against who I am and what I believe in, I am a guy who get some sort of sick pleasure out of being pushed down by society as it gives an excuse, a justification to push back harder in attempt to destroy a society that goes against my beliefs. It might be cope, but at the end of the day Im too important to myself to discard who I am in order to get a girl, id much rather stay alone and see what good I can do to world.
This is defeatism and narcissism "The world is wrong not me." You're abandoning self-reflection and self-awareness, or you might have never possessed either in the first place, something commonplace with autism. These are two traits that mediate one against society, and seek to bridge the gap between self and other.

The "real you" is bullshit as well, something autists obsess over. Neurotypical people have many different personas and act differently per the situation and surroundings. For elabration, I'd read the wikipedia page of Dramaturgy. On a finishing note--because I'm not going to dedicate time and effort into a charity post which will be pridefully ignored by deliberate paupers; 19 years of your life is 1/5 or 1/4th of your life. Imagine the change you've had in the past 2 years, 5 years, 10 years. In your time of youth, one must embrace change as a constant otherwise you will stagnate and wither away.

Social dynamics for autists, (inferring you're autistic because 1. you post like a -cel of some sort 2. you dislike change 3. you are searching for genuineness and authenticity in human relationships when they are anything but.) is trials upon trials of error and miscalculation. Mistakes must be repeatedly made and learned from in order to evolve. I like the analogy of man being born blindfolded in a forest filled with trees, and as he ages it is slowly removed. Autists are forced to stumble and feel by touch, and maneuver the forest of human behavior, memorizing only what he stumbles into. The blindfold is never removed, but a constructed forest in his mind filled with trees he's stumbled into and around, ables him to navigate.

>>16353571
very very based

>>16356248
This is thread isnt dead yet?
nice

Thanks for the long response

Im an arrogant idiot with little self-awareness but its this "autism" that's allowed me to cope with some really big problems I experienced when I was younger (unrelated to my original post)
My tremendous sense of entitlement is probably defeatist and narcissist as you say, but its done a lot for me, allowing me to always smile and keep pushing forward, and at the same time fuelling my spiritual development

Ill read up on dramaturgy

>>16336018
No. Mike Mentzer's Heavy Duty training is the way to go.

>>16336852
There is such a thing as (long-term) sexual incompability, and most couples suffer from it. I'm glad you don't, but it's not as simple as "just care lmao. Many men and women do, and they're still sexually unsatisfied, whether they allow themselves to admit it or don't. The best sex I've had was in the 1st year of FWB kind of things or relationships. Everything after that is a (hopefully mutual) struggle to try and spice things up. A lucky few like you find their perfect match by sexuality and personality, the rest of us struggle in either or both.

>>16335987
Literally the worst possible book you could have picked.

>>16335981
Read that's useful for you & interesting for you. That way, you can be a chad without people's validation.

>>16355854
Why is half of the book is just quoting comments from his youtube videos?

>>16353571
cel

>>16336083
Because you are a literal retard that subscribes to judeo christian notions of morality and 18th century romanticism.

>>16336039
Convert to Catholicism and learn to quell your desire for lust, which is undoubtedly holding you back.

>>16338933
then i must be a gymcel. at the same time, i slay all the poons.
>>16339481
have a (you) for being so correct, but I have all of these things.

>>16336039
Follow the noble eightfold path