/lit/ - Literature

Six month when you’re still deeply in love is nothing. It may take a year or more. Try to work past it though. See other people. Fall in love with yourself. (Or perhaps I’m projecting myself? If there was a reason given, some flaw, certainly resolve that. I wasn’t given any such instructions)

>>15456296
Hang in there, anon. Read some bukowski. Wallow in it. Then read some light and happy stuff... bill Bryson is good. Then get back into your normal groove and read Ulysses and cry because you're bloom. Dont worry, I'm bloom, too

>>15456296
Nietzsche. Learn to love your fate.

Anna Karina

>>15456296
That video is supposed to show us something desirable? She looks like a complete pain in the ass, and so does he.

I'm about 1 year past a crushing breakup and it's not so bad anymore. For me it was about 8 months before it really subsided. I still have no desire to date again, but it's not because I'm pining still.

The thing that helped the most was just coming to realize, and truly internalize, that she was an imperfect human like me, and that there are many more of her out there for me.

>>15456296
As a 30 yo incel, I'm jealous .

>>15456567
I've checked out Bryson's 1991 travelogue. Neither Here nor There: Travels in Europe.

Although entertaining, his writing feels dated and he regurgitates the same stereotypes for every Euro country in that book. Quite a let down desu.

I will check out bukowski. Thanks

Any books on how to breakup with someone? I'm too pussy

>>15456973
well the webm is titled "thiswillneverbeyou" so I guess we're supposed to envy their relationship, but like you said they both look annoying. that bug lady is ugly and shapeless so no one could possibly desire her sexually; while the guy is a subhuman nonwhite who spends his free time making meme videos, so no man would want to be him. i don't really get what the point is.

>>15458376
Keep reminding yourself of how miserable you'll be if you continue to avoid ending the relationship. Just man up and do it. If you really can't find the courage then maybe have a few drinks beforehand, but not so many that you end up just banging her. If you REALLY really can't find the courage then you could just break up via text message. This is generally considered rude and cowardly but it's better than letting yourself be tortured by a miserable relationship.

>>15458387
You sound like a fun guy

>>15458433
you sound like you're the guy in that video

>>15458433
Imagine wanting to be a "fun" guy lmao, sounds gay as fuck desutbh senpai

>>15458387
Reading replies like these is a good reminder that I should spend less time on this board.

Thank you for that inadvertent reminder

>>15456973
>supposed to show us something desirable?
some people are controlled by the thought of pussy, and think that having a pussy with you will look like the webm in question. Is it the result of never having achieved anything in life of having no troubles or struggles growing up? I believe so.

>>15458475
spend more time on r*ddit, where you belong

I see that some little boy with no life experience is writing again. If you had gone through a so-called breakdown even once in your lifetime, then one would grant some empathy. You fucking momma's little boys whose worst experience is when your gf left...

>>15458515
Nobody here is asking you about your beliefs anon. But since we’re at it let me have a go. I believe your need to share your shallow opinions on this cambodian basketweaving forum stem from the fact that you’re an autistic euro that has alienated most of his childhood friends and you come here to share your platitudes about weemin and infer who achieved what in life (i mean come on now) because your mom and dad just dont care to listen to you. How far off am I? Spare me the obligatory >projection comment. You reek of misguided superiority.

>>15456296
find a new chick and don't spend too much time alone thinking about it.

t. dumbass who broke up with his gf for superficial reasons

>>15458467
You get what you truly want, you're a goblin because you love being a goblin and it was your choice to become this monstrosity

>>15458761
Ah sure thing big man. Heartbreak aint shit right. Nothing measures up to that second tour in ‘Nam when you had to wade in the mud and amputate your foot amirite. How about you drink your pabst and shhh for now.

>>15458875
holy mother of BASED

>>15458421
I'll probably end up doing what I do with all my previous relationships. Be complacent and incredibly obviously uninterested in what they say, but when they ask what's wrong, I say nothing. They then get tired of me and cheat on me and breakup with me

just broke up with pic related
how do i get her back?

>>15459459
a dozen Krispy Kreme

>>15456296
i will execute one hostage every hour until i get a cute tomboy gf

>>15459459
lmao bro no. Get healthy and stop being with her, and find a hot girl

>>15456973
I don't get it either. I'd rather remain alone than be in a relationship like that.

>>15459448
>Mom! Mom!!
>I said it! I said it again! The funny word

>>15459459
you can do better than that.

>>15456973
>She

>>15458363
>Although entertaining
That's all you'll need. You don't need quality, you need absorbing distractions

>>15456296
What do you mean by getting past?

>>15458387
holy shit wtf

>>15456296
Women are literally interchangeable for the most part, get over it

It's an opportunity to go to the root of why it even hurts.

In my experience, pains like these are windows to discovering what self identity I was attached to and question why even.

>>15456296
TBK really helped me after my gf broke up with me a few years back.