/lit/ - Literature

I have a librarian gf with two degrees, English and Library Science... We talk about books.

>>14881529
>Library Science
wtf is the "science" part of library science?
Do librarians just tag stuff to make it easier for others to find?

Russian
pic related

>>14881518
>What kind of gf is the most /lit/?
Cunny GF

>>14881560
wtf is the science part of economics?

>>14881518
No gf is the most /lit/ gf

Norf

>>14881529
Mine is getting her master's in philosophy next year, wanna trade?

Northern English

>>14881573
She looks a bit young, anon.

*laughs in misophilic*

>>14881518
I’m Turkish and Turanism is not /lit/

>>14881676
Do you not know what cunny is?

>>14881624
I want to believe you but the majority of girls around here are either turbosluts, horsegirls or 'shy' girls with a tinder. If anything the best girls who live here aren't English.

>>14881574
All of the math and statistics? Have you ever taken an economics course? Not saying it’s a hard science but it is a science.

>>14881560
It’s a bit like specialized IT. Quite a lot goes into how library records are kept and obviously you have cases like very old or rare books in which case, there’s specific procedures that have to be performed.

One who loves and cares for you and supports you in all your ventures. Does anal.

>>14881518
>Light skinned hispanic/jewish.
>brunette
>large brown eyes
>small breast
>Atheist, but rather traditional
>good taste in literature and cinema
>little interest in sex
>believes AHS is unwatchable garbage

>>14881866
>/lit/ gf
>not the extreme anthropomorphic personification of a fetish

>>14881518
One who doesn't read, doesn't talk, and is always pretty.

>pale skinned
>petite
>glasses
>around 30 but looks 16
>literature teacher
>soft voice
>incredibly cute face
>good taste in music
>lives alone in a department with her cat
>talks about books with me after class
I miss her

>>14881518
PUTA

>>14881518
add:
>must be able to climb over a fence
no exciting literary adventures without (and also excludes unfit and/or crumbly ones)

>>14881518
Good choice but turkish women were made for turkish men (kara boga)

>hispanic
>light skin
>big butt
>thick thighs
>wants to make babies
>cooks
>lets me do the thinking
>doesnt read, or if she does, reads whatever dumb shit women like

You are all destined for unhappiness

>>14882568
t. fat

>Jewish
Weak bait

>>14881518
>Blonde
>Blue eyed
>5’8 or taller
>120+ IQ
>Healthy constitution
>Natural athleticism

It’d all about setting your children up for success, that is all

>>14882584
Not fat in the slightest, I'm built like Donatello's David. It is pathetic to have these dumbass lists of mostly superficial traits for your imagined ideal "/lit/" gf. Especially when it's stuff like, "I want a thicc and stupid Mexican broad who cooks." Seriously, do you think you'd be happy in that relationship for any real amount of time?

>>14882695
>I'm built like Donatello's David
including the penis

>>14882695
skinny cunt

>ginger
>really short
>green eyes
>I'm actually in love with her and can talk to her about things that interest me

>>14883587
has to be out there somewhere....

If this board is any indication, the "most lit gf" would be an overweight 40-something schoolteacher who's never been laid and has "reading is radical" & "book nerd" bumper stickers.
But let's be real, this is a "what is your ideal gf" thread, so let's stick with that.

>>14881518
Chinese banker gf that has never heard of literature, any western writer, the only books she knows is top 10 Amazon best-selling business books, does not give a single fuck about anything other than resource hoarding, eating gnarly Chinese "food" and getting her unshaved pussy licked

>>14881518
>>small breasts
True. The Republic of Smalltitistan is a goldmine.

>>14881518
Cynical, jaded 35 year old with a little bit of a belly and huge knockers. Has no interest in literature, loves watching The Office on Netflix. Is so shell-schocked from shitty financial choices and partying that shes glad your mediocre nerdy, anxious ass is around. Since you know 5 just like her, she is willing to satisfy your very tame fantasies so you stick around

>>14881529
/thread/ I guess.
Doesn't get much more /lit/ than that.

>>14881808
Take a seat over >>>/tv/

>>14882552
fucking based

>>14883587
This girl exists and is a close friend of mine
The catch is that I know her because she’s been dating one of my best friends for 5 years

My ex is in med school and more well-read in literature than I am, and I majored in it
I taught her philosophy though, which was my other major

I fucking miss the undergrad years

This is the pinnacle of /lit/ gf

>>14884667
>5/10 thot feels the need to seek attention

>>14881958

>Around 30 but looks 16

This and only this

>>14884690
>5/10
mate, 3/10 at best

>>14884690
>>14884804
shit taste, plebs. 7.5/10 at least.

>>14881518
It's most /lit/ to have no gf, to spend more time reading books.

>>14881518
As a mutt I would have to say the Eurasian woman is the most lit for me. Why yes I am based. Sieg heil motherfuckers

>>14881518
My literature gf is Satoko from Spring Sniw. Pic related- how I imagine her.

>>14881518
only on /lit/ will someone ask this and answer with a bunch of hyperspecific ethnicities instead of, like, character traits or subcultures. nazi weirdos

>>14885123
> instead of, like, character traits or subcultures
who gives a fuck lmao, there are men for that. but if a bitch is ugly, then all her character traits and subcultures dont matter.

>>14885123
>uses nazi as an insult
You really have to go back.

>>14885143
to where? how isolated are you to think using "nazi" as an insult isn't something like over 90% of the world population does

>>14885149
imagine thinking that lmao stupid nigger.

>>14885149
laughably eurocentric perspective

>>14881866
My current girlfriend is a dark-redheaded hispanic, tiny breasts and a mild bum. Large, disneyesque brown eyes, a somewhat roman nose; she’s an atheist but wishes she would be catholic, she’s enamoured with Audrey Hepburn / princess aesthetic. Fine taste in cinema but she doesn’t really touch books. Only issue I feel is she does like to party like many of our peers; therefore she’s kissed maybe twenty others, she’s only had sex with her prior long term boyfriend and myself.

>>14885162
nah, with the rise of euro nationalism, more like seattle basedgoy nintendo switch vasectomy redditman perspective

>>14885173
>therefore she’s kissed maybe twenty others, she’s only had sex with her prior long term boyfriend and myself.
anon I...

>>14881817
I love how people think that hard mathy stuff makes a discipline "objective" or "important."

>>14885149
>implying that the average Indian, African, or Asian knows or cares who Hitler was

>>14885177
It’s my major insecurity, however I’ve also kissed around 20 others. It’s just odd.

The most /lit/ gf is one who has a better talent writing than you, but she devotes herself to helping your career and it's not until years after both of your deaths that people realize she squander her talents on you.

>>14885219
How do you feel knowing that some other guy filled her vagina up with his cum? And when we you kiss her, you are kissing the lips that touched another man’s penis. And that women always have a deep feeling of love and longing for their first lover.

>>14885162
someone's vastly underestimating the infamy of fascism. like, what, you think communist parties in east asia have nothing to say about nazism?

>>14885175
delusional

>>14881518
https://discord.gg/SCXq7KE

>>14885281
They dont give a shit lmao. The Chinese throw Muslim ethnics in concentration camps and the Indians think of Hitler as an impressive leader

>>14885293
i can tell your perspective is very informed by international awareness and political science and not, like, 2 headlines you've read

>>14885320
not to mention Muslims literally expel Jews from their countries you think they give a single fuck about 'antisemitism'? absolutely lmao at your entire worldview

She needs to be a capitalist first and foremost.

>>14885281
What do "communist parties" have to do with anything? A few well-read intellectuals with a global perspective might have an opinion on the Nazis but to be honest they have bigger fish to fry right now. A war that happened in Europe nearly a hundred years ago is like ancient history to them.

>>14885320
You can't deny that the Indians have a different perspective on Hitler. Pic related, a revered independence leader having a friendly chat with the Reichsführer SS.

>>14885266
C’est la vie. I cannot erase the past but I’ve spoken with her about how uncomfortable it makes me feel and she has always made it a priority to assure me. Once she sat on my lap and whispered, in our language: “Look at my toes, now look at my hair: from there to there everything is yours. I love you”
i can live with a burden like this

>>14885397
>Look at my toes, now look at my hair: from there to there everything is yours. I love you
You know she said that to her previous guy? Lmao

>>14885266
Everyone makes mistakes.

It's normal to think in those terms you laid out, but it's not healthy, for rarely will you ever find a single woman who has never been in a relationship before and has the emotional maturity to handle one with you now. Extremely rare. Haven't seen one.

If she's able to move on and be happy with you, it's essentially because something in you surpasses her previous mate in a big enough way.

So BLAST her pussy with CUM until the tiniest traces of the previous WEAKLING are GONE. This bitch yours now.

>>14885421
>Haven't seen one.
Because you rarely leave the house. Glad you settled with your whore though.

>>14885424
Not the guy you were talking to.
I actually am not in a relationship. Left the dating game a long time ago. Not worth it for me.
But I was defending the other guy.
I think expecting to find a woman who'll be able to have a fulfilling relationship with you forever and has never been with someone else before is, for most people, sadly, only an unacheivable fantasy.

>>14881815
I think that applies to everywhere. Is there any place in the world where the majority are actually cultured and decent? The sky is blue everywhere. One should rather have his eye on the rare exception.

>>14885397
That is so fucking lame. I would beat her for saying something so stupid and pathetic

>>14885420
>>14885432
I don’t know guys, I really do believe her. I just want to fuck her in peace but my doubt is, in varying levels, always present. It mustn’t be that I could only feel wholly confident with a virgin, no?

>>14885430
Then nothing is better; seems like you realized that also.

>>14885443
You feel insecure because she is literal used goods. Everything you do with her, she already did with another guy.

>>14885448
But then what? My love for her is futile and everything we do is invalid? It’s not as if our relationship has somehow not bee genuine just because she fucked some guy a few years back.

>>14885455
You are trying to rationalize your self out of this. The fact is, and you know this - your intuition is telling you, is that she is used up.

She had another guys dick in her. He came coomed in her. He felt and kissed every inch of her.

You are just guy number two no matter what you do.

>>14885470
Does this logic go the other way around as well?
If he breaks up with her eventually, can another woman be truly happy with him or is he used goods too?
His dick has been in another vagina.

With this mentality, no man or woman can ever be happy with someone after they fucked up their first relationship.

>>14885480
Read more Weininger. Women are the ones who are sculpted by men, not the other way around.

>>14885480
>no man or woman can ever be happy with someone after they fucked up their first relationship.
Yes.

>>14885455
Keep in mind the very anonymous nature of 4chan which is what makes so great is also its biggest weakness. There are people on this very board whom you would not even bother to reply to in real life, yet their anonymity gives them permission to say whatever they wish. Is it too unbelievable if the posters telling you these are neet, out of shape, "christians", who only envy you a bit too much? Perhaps, perhaps not. But please don't let your insecurity and the envy of others make you lose something that you will later regret.

>>14885492
Pure projection

>>14885498
I'm sure it is. :)

>>14885483
There it is.
Pure regurgitated ideology written by a kike 100+ hundred years ago who killed himself at 23.

>>14885502
>kike
Hitler even loved his work.

>>14885173
>Only issue I feel is she does like to party like many of our peers; therefore she’s kissed maybe twenty others, she’s only had sex with her prior long term boyfriend and myself.
Oh anon, sorry to inform you...

>>14884667
lmao that shit is so hot but fucking disgusting too

>>14885492
That's kind of the entire point of 4chan though. The out of shape neet christian could say something that makes more sense than a person you deeply trust, you have nothing to judge their contribution on other than the post they made.

Trusting the general opinions of 4chan is obviously fucking retarded, but you're supposed to look at any individual post and judge it on its merits.

>>14885507
Yeah, it's no secret Hitler was a hypocrite and a sell-out. Look up "mischling."
Also Weininger had such a level of self-doubt and Judaism in his life that he ultimately collapsed into destructive self-hatred at the end of his life. Truly a role model to read from.

>>14885526
None of this is a critique of his ideas; I only see personal attacks.

>>14881573
her tits are so big now, blessed girl

>>14881624
Who is this

>>14885536
The Atomwaffen girl that got a swastika carved into her ass. She lives in Canada now I think.

>>14885525
I would agree most of the times (I am here after all), but in this case they are playing on his greatest insecurity. Issues like this tend to make one lose the reigns of reason. I thought maybe a reminder might help him.

>>14885537
What

>>14885542
I mean, he has this insecurity for a reason.

>>14881958
welp this thread has officially supplemented my depression

>>14885529
In the case of Jewish people, especially suicidally unstable ones who use pseudo-scientific ultra-idealistic retarded theories of sexual dynamics as a coping mechanism, personal attacks are perhaps the most perfectly valid way of shutting down their retarded kikery and incel propaganda.
something something jews not even once

>>14885546
Yesterday I went to my dentist what he was doing was causing me pain. On one hand, I thought, I was having pain for a reason and I shouldn't have come. On the other, when he was finished, I was pleased that I did. Our natural tendencies work well in general, but in themselves they don't show the truth of anything.

>>14885562
Not an argument

>>14885569
fucking BASED

>>14885569
Maximum cope posting

>>14885571
Actually yes an argument and the only one you need.

>>14885578
You failed to refute any of his arguments, also, back to /pol/

>>14885577
Cope for what? I don't even have a gf. If anything, I should larp as a tradcath just like you if I wanted to cope. It seems to rather that you are coping when you accuse me of cope.

>>14885587
I’m not a catholic

>>14885219
I've found, in my own search for love, that I have no desire greater, nothing that I long for more than to own and to be owned. To find that person and not be able to own them fully, to know that all that they are is not yours, that part of her has been given away. It hurts, there is a security that you can never have. Your feeling is the opposite of odd, both you and her have lost something.

>>14885593
Based

>>14885580
What arguments?
His entire philosophy regarding sexuality comes from his primitive ape bias that makes him want to be an alpha fucking all the virgins, which was designed evolutionarily for a system of sexual dynamics that have been abolished by 6,000 years of societal development.

His way of thinking is in no way relevant to people wishing to engage in current relationships, it only satisfies the part of his brain that makes him want to use pointed rocks to hunt for the tribe and get all the pussy so future generations only have the best genes to use better pointed rocks to hunt better food for the tribe.

No arguments, just underlying evolutionary biases in the brain all the way down.

this board is filled with clowns.
women should neither read nor have a 'profession.' and they ought to cook real good. simple as.

>>14885613
>His entire philosophy regarding sexuality comes from his primitive ape bias that makes him want to be an alpha fucking all the virgins, which was designed evolutionarily for a system of sexual dynamics that have been abolished by 6,000 years of societal development.
You are thinking of the wrong guy. Weininger never talked about apes, you idiot.

>>14885637
>actually the ape never talked about apes so he didn't think like one
wow

>>14885443
she belongs to another man—possibly several. the feeling of his cock is more strongly imprinted in her mind than your. every sexual experience reminds her of it as the source of her pleasure.

>>14885642
Wtf are you going off about?

>>14885455
imagine having been deluded into accepting the gay corporate jew concept of 'love.'

>>14885650
>corporate concepts
I fucking hate how this is true. It used to be that poets and philosophers were the legislators of culture, so everything was so authentic and full of soul. But now...

>>14885647
You don't understand where your own thoughts about sexuality originated from, evolutionarily. And yet try to argue about sexual philosophy on the internet.
Massive brainlet.

>>14885654
You are just spouting off none sense like a lunatic. Weininger derived his arguments about sex from metaphysics.

>>14885613
>>14885593

>>14885662
Based and Weininger-pilled

>>14885661
HAHAHAhahaHAHAAH

>>14885613
how embarrassing. if there is nothing wrong with other men using her before you, there is no good argument against other men using her now—because were so much more 'developed.'

>>14885670
Cringe

>>14885671
Yes there is.
She doesn't want other men using her now.
Simple as that.

>>14885677
>She doesn't want other men using her now.
As far as you know.

Imagine calling other people “brainwashed by Jews” but you are literally with a ““”reformed”””whore.

>>14885653
to expend, proper love, in the romantic sense, is built over time through working together in your respective roles to have a functional and fulfilling marriage. if you do not fit this description then you should questing whether what you feel is love or some fleeting infatuation ruling due to lack of discipline or clarity.

>>14885677
so as soon as she want chad's cock there is nothing wrong with chad fucking her, regardless of her relationship with you—because that kind of thing is alright when we're so socially developed. holy fucking cuck. you deserve ever drop of cum other men deposit in her personal file.

I fucking hate girls so much. What the hell is wrong with them? I was waiting at the bus stop today, minding my own business, when two girls walk by. They're kinda far off, but I can see them pointing and laughing and whispering. They get closer and wave. I try to ignore them. They say "hello" and "how are you" and I still ignore them, despite the fact that they are like 3 feet away from me. They say "have a nice day" and walk off in uproarious laughter. Literally what the hell did I do? Am I ugly or something? It seems to me that women falsely equate ugliness with evilness, and attack anyone who isn't handsome.

>>14885683
this is a good post

>>14885680
You can call me paranoid about Jews, but you're paranoid about all women around you.

>>14885492
Thanks anon, I’ll definitely not stop loving a woman because of what the online mongolian basket weaving guild says. It still ails me though.

>>14885689
Not my argument.
I said there's a good argument for no other men to "use" her now. She doesn't want them to use her.
That's far from saying she should be "used" if she wanted to.

If she prefered someone else, she could fuck off and go with him, but as long as she only wants me, I'll stay with her.
If I love her enough to want to be with her, I'll trust that she'll be honest about these things.

>>14885421
>Everyone makes mistakes
they don't though. it isn't a 'mistake' to do something you can easily and clearly know is not a good idea. it's blatant, willful disregard for the effects it will have on you and future relationships. nothing could be easier than not getting fucked by a succession of men.

>>14885690
They liked you

>>14885692
Yikes; projecting much?

>>14885700
She does want other men, and probably fucks them behind your back.

>>14885703
>"projecting much?"
>proceeds to prove my point next thing he says

>>14885703
>They liked you
you're insane, man. no one's ever liked me. besides, what kind of way to show it is that? i've been pretty depressed for a while now but this actually made me suicidal. it's the first time in weeks someone has talked to me and it was harassment

>>14885706
Ok

>>14885711
Women are weird and get super giggly when they are around a guy they like. Next time it happens, just say hello.

>>14885711
They came up to you and tried to talk with you.
How is that harassment?
They probably did like you. You just couldn't even conceive of the idea because of your massive insecurity about your looks.

>>14885700
absolutely retarded, the idea that she would like to is inherent contextually. the entire dissection is about voluntary sexual choices not rape. if this semantic jew nonsense is all you have one has to wonder why you would even bother to reply other than coping.
>If she prefered someone else, she could fuck off and go with him, but as long as she only wants me, I'll stay with her.
well i was right about the cope. what kind of a i have seen literal cuckolds who are more possessive, normal than this where the woman needs permission to be with a specific man. you're fine with her just fucking off on a whim to get pounded by someone else once she feels like so. but that is okay, because only 'apes' are bothered by sharing, apparently.
>If I love her enough to want to be with her, I'll trust that she'll be honest about these things.
t. wife fucking around
you don't love her and she does not love you.

>>14885716
>Women are weird and get super giggly when they are around a guy they like. Next time it happens, just say hello.
no way. I could sense the sarcasm in their voices. they despised me. also, what are the chances that after 19 years of being despised someone suddenly wants to have a friendly talk?
>>14885726
no, they kept walking. they had no intention of stopping to talk.

>>14881529
Mine never touch a book in her life, and she thinks that i'm intellectual superior only for read

>>14885733
>what are the chances that after 19 years of being despised
Listen here sonny you are barely out of short pants. You are still a kid. I know people who have worked in the same office building for longer than you've been alive. You have plenty of time to shake all this robot 9000 nonsense out of your head and get your life in order.

>>14885173
>herefore she’s kissed maybe twenty others, she’s only had sex with her prior long term boyfriend and myself.
yikes she has had miles of dick

>>14882552
this

>>14885751
I want to rape that girl.

>>14885690
>girls talking to you
Living the dream

>>14882931
Lol

>>14885759
too old to be worth the effort

>>14882931
BASED AND UNDERRATED

>>14885774
How old is she?

>>14882931
that is the norma appearance of the flaccid penis, being a coomer damages it and causes it to stop fully reverting back after each time.

>>14885536
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4fSL8lXSPqc

>tfw no norf gf

>>14885781
>t. tiny dick

>>14885732
I didn't mention sharing, and I'm not a cuckold of any kind.

If she doesn't prefer me over anyone else, clearly she doesn't want to be with me anymore so she will not. We break up and she goes with whoever she prefers. I'm not gonna obsess over the idea of being good enough for her like an insecure retard, constantly paranoid of her wanting to be with other people as if I didn't know already that I've done enough to deserve her.
If she doesn't want me, she's not good enough for me. Simple as that. She was not the right one so the relationship is over.

The fact that you can't possibly even fathom the idea of not owning a woman completely and call me a cuck for even suggesting that this mentality is primitive and retarded says more about you than about me.

Also you're just not a redemptionist and I am. Maybe because of my gnostic background. I consider everything in this world inherently impure and evil but seek for the little good in people that pushes them to improve.
No matter how many erroneous thought processes they've had in the past or lapses in judgement, I trust that most people want to learn, and if they recognize those past actions as mistakes, they wanna leave that stuff behind and be better.
I also trust people I love to tell me truth about what they consider mistakes.

If you disagree with any of that, then so be it.

>>14885787
>I'm not a cuckold of any kind
>his girl banged other guys
WEW

>>14885792
I love how you people just assume I have a girlfriend for some reason, as if at any point I claimed to have met anyone who was good enough or planned to.

>>14885795
OK DUDE

>>14885750
too late. i've given up. i'm a misanthrope now. i've even started writing cringy, edgy poetry
>>14885761
it's no dream. it's no fun being insulted. i'd rather go back to being ignored

>>14885787
more embarrassing cuck cope. you don't get to change the topics and you know exactly what you argued against. even now your trying to argue that it enlightened or some gay shit like that to have other men fuck your woman. there is no redemption for those who willingly fuck up and just happen to regret results of which they were always aware.

>>14885813

>there is no redemption for those who willingly fuck up and just happen to regret results of which they were always aware

Not necessarily willful as they weren't always aware. You assume everyone thinks of this in the same troglodyte paradigm.

>you don't get to change the topics and you know exactly what you argued against

Yeah I argue against being dominance-minded and possesive, as those are currently useless evolutionary biases and also a massive cope for underlying insecurities.
That's still the focus and it didn't change at any point.

>even now your trying to argue that it enlightened or some gay shit like that to have other men fuck your woman

Strawman. Never mentioned: enlightenment or other men "fucking "your" woman."
Also didn't change the subject, I brought up redemptionism merely to point out a secondary root for the same problem in your rationale.

At this point it is entirely clear you are too mentally ill to grasp any of what I say to you, so I'mma drop out of this conversation.
Have a great life.

>>14885798
>i've even started writing cringy, edgy poetry
No wonder they liked you; you discovered the secret. Women love goth guys. You don't even need to be good looking.

>>14885890
pls don't bully me. i've had enough.

>>14885901
I'm trying to help. How old are you?

>>14885903
19

>>14885912
I'm 22 and a kv (waiting for a girl I will spend my life with). You have nothing to worry about friend.

I've had girls ask me out before, and they are giggly like you described. They love the GOTH BVLLS.

>>14885634
are we going to ignore this enlightened post

>>14885945
I think women should rule over men.

>>14885945
Don't taint it with replies.
Let the wisdom flow in the wild silent winds.

>>14885917
> They love the GOTH BVLLS.
ok, so you are bullying me. whatever

>>14885957
Please, nibba.

Become a GOTH BVLL yourself!

>>14885784
i find the english accent entirely abhorrent
she is attractive though

Oh my. Does anyone happen to have the images of that qt hapa girl in front of her library that were posted months ago? That is my dream /lif/ gf...

>>14881518
Turkish girls are really cute

Too bad the only reading 99% of girls do is read Instagram captions.

>>14886818
They also read the tender goosepimple braille of my testicles with their tongues.

Too many people here posting what they would like it to be instead of the most true to life answer. The truth for better or for worse, is neurotic jewess who ruins your life.

>>14887151
HELLO BASED DEPARTMENT

>>14885173
>tiny breasts and likes Audrey Hepburn
>goes to college parties
bro she's got BPD and absolutely has been railed by many others, open your eyes

>>14885443
your insecurity has a rightful place, your subconscious knows she can never bond to you that legitimately, your gut is telling you this is a one night stand with a party girl that you prolonged on purpose as wishful thinking.

>>14885480
>With this mentality, no man or woman can ever be happy with someone after they fucked up their first relationship.
'as happy'
>Yes.
Remember the first time you climbed a tree? Felt fun, didn't it? What about the 5th time was it nearly as novel?

>>14887742
>Remember the first time you climbed a tree? Felt fun, didn't it? What about the 5th time was it nearly as novel?
I want to see these fags cope themselves out of this one.

If you didn’t deflower the girl, you are nothing special to her. Girls always remember and cherish their first guy.