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Whenever I encounter adversity and confrontation I instinctively retreat or freeze. I got shouted at by customer today and I just stood there and laughed nervously and stammered out some self deprecating comments. I didn't decide to do that I just went blank and acted on instinct.

Anything I could read that stops me being a weakling?

>> No.13302155 [DELETED] 

Just seek the Lord Jesus Christ and read the bible.

>> No.13302167

Reading won't help. Observe black women. They never take shit from anybody. It's about dignity and self respect. You don't have any.

>> No.13302204

>>13302167
But how do I internalize that to the point where I can do it on the spot?

>> No.13302224

>>13302155
The Bible's for faggots who can't cope with reality. Fuck off

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>>13302167
I've always (unironically) admired black women. Fearless creatures, won't take any shit. Very admirable.

>> No.13302244

>>13302149
Take a drug to increase aggression, like a low dose of kratom

>> No.13302250

A pussy is, warm, deep, and has a purpose.

>> No.13302263

>>13302250
anime pussy

>> No.13302266 [DELETED] 

>>13302250
>>13302263
Fuck off weeb faggots.

>> No.13302271
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>>13302266
delicious anime p*ssy

>> No.13302272

>>13302204
Whenever you're in a verbal confrontation do not loose your temper or flinch. Maintain eye contact and be mindful of your body posture. Don't talk too fast. Don't try to defend any accusations because if you do then you have lost the moral high ground. Instead deflect the blame unto them.

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>>13302271
Anime is for huge faggots. It's just like Christianity incels use it to cope with the fact that they can't get sex. And anime is for even bigger incels who can't find faith or sex.

>> No.13302280

>>13302224
Isn't that what OP is asking for?

>> No.13302285
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>>13302278
No

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>>13302285
Trust me I've been down the same rabbit hole as you. Anime is for the lowest of the low.

>> No.13302296

>>13302272
this. also speak slowly and directly, never raise your voice (unless you really, really have to), always maintain eye contact, never flinch

I was in the same position as you OP, used to get walked all over, it took years of despair and inner turmoil to harden me the fuck up and stop giving a shit about other people

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>>13302290
how did you get out?

>> No.13302299

>>13302149
Maybe you have a deeper problem and that's just a surface of the symptom. Get a theraphy.
Also next time >>>/adv/

>> No.13302302

>>13302278
What about Christ-Chan?

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>>13302298
Unironically via religion

>>13302302
Christards made her.

>> No.13302422

>>13302272
>Don't try to defend any accusations because if you do then you have lost the moral high ground
This. Make wild accusations. They don't have to stick, they just have to put the other party on the defense. Remember that "right and wrong" are irrelevant to an argument, which is a battle of wills and dominance. Don't ever answer questions unless you have an epic come back.

>> No.13302685

blood meridian

>> No.13302786

>>13302422
>Make wild accusations
Never implied.

>> No.13303295

>>13302786
What?

>> No.13304274

>>13303295
You heard

>> No.13304589

>>13302149
When i say no I feel guilty by Manuel J Smith. It is a book on assertiveness. It has examples and scripts on how to set boundaries with people in everyday life.