/lit/ - Literature

>>13139645
I do not care about your bird fucker people, go away.
Watch the Louis Theroux docu I guess

>>13139645
Wait, Heidi seriously wanted such a relationship? So they’re both degenerate scum.

the Quran

>>13139645
Polyamory is basically the woman saying she wants a license to cheat on you but she also doesn't want you to cheat but she's afraid of you leaving her so she simply intervenes in every attempt at the man getting sex from other people whilst cheating freely herself.

>>13139645
On the Origin of Species

>>13139780
this

was approached by a couple in an open relationship one time.

the dude definitely had no other prospects. she, on the other hand, was smoking'. I sort of felt bad for him.

but not really.

>>13139645
POWERFULL AND DEEP YOU GO GIRL METOO

She is correct but you are too far up your ass to see it. Open relationships require transparency and if Holly is whispering in Jared's cock every night telling him she only had feelings for him that means she's slowly grooming him to get ready to snatch him up from Heidi who was smart enough to see it miles away using her feminine intelligence so she shut it down.

Polyamory is what happens when modern society tells inherently childish, selfish, spoiled women that they can do whatever they want, that nothing matters and no one can ever judge them for being reckless self-serving hedonists with no values, but this comes into conflict with women's innate terror at being judged, especially as it manifests in collective social shaming among other women.

It's women attempting to squish two unreconcilable principles together: "I want to be daddy's little pretty princess and marry the king of the world on his white horse, I am the chaste perfect virgin admired by all for my modesty," on the one hand, and "I want to do whatever I want, I am the sole purpose of creation, I have no goals and no ambitions except to consume and be pampered and worshipped by as many inferior men as possible until the one true king of the world who deserves to deflower me arrives to take me (kind of rapey but not real rape you know? Like I want to know he wants me but not really be raped raped, does that make sense? Haha I mean I want to be roughed up and forced around against my will but only when it's something that I want and doesn't really hurt, I mean it can hurt a little lol but not a lot haha I'm a woman)" on the other.

The result is a hurricane, composed entirely of insanity and delusion, and impelled by childish, short-term desires and reactionary emotions. A woman "wants" polyamory in the sense that it offers the illusion of reconciling all these things. She can still be chaste and decent, because it was agreed to by the man (not very important) and (much more important) because it appears to be a vaguely acceptable arrangement in society's eyes - other people seem to be aware of it and okay with it. For a split second when she feels bad about being a disgusting whore, the woman in question can lean on this social ratification of her normalcy. By the time she leans on it too much and its lack of structural integrity becomes apparent, she has already flitted to another desire: the desire to be paid attention, to get fucked (not very important) by impressive and exciting men that trigger her emotions (much more important), to kill her boredom by allowing men to worship her with their affections for a few hours. Then the cycle renews, as she feels like a pathetic whore again, rightfully, and she needs to briefly lean on the rickety "N-no! I'm 'polyamorous', haven't you heard of it?!? It's a thing!! People do it!!!" structure again, just long enough to get her to her next fix of eatin' a musician's cum and thinking he'll like and respect her for it (hahaha).

>>13139645
Books on Polyamory

>>13139875
Looool pathetic attempt at dissecting society. You don't have the insight to do that brainlet. You're just suffering from this:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna%E2%80%93whore_complex

>>13139875
all of this but unironically

>>13139875
This is the most accurate answer.

>>13139919
Loooool ikr s m h doggo doge nice memes spicy dank Spongebob retweet

Posted from my iPhone

>>13139924
Have sex

>>13139645
Who are the people being discussed in this twitter grab and why should I care?

>>13139645
You shouldnt need a book to tell you that you enjoy sex and it's even better when you have some connection with the person. Don't ruin it with weird idealistic promises of what you're doing with your genitals for the rest of your life. Congratulations. You're polyamorous.

>>13139968
>ideals are weird

neoliberal pseudoleftists in a nutshell

>>13139645
Polyamory doesn't exist

>>13139875
based

>>13139937
That's ProJared's (now ex-)wife, who basically came out on twitter and said that he'd been a real dickwad in their relationship, which includes banging his friend Ross' ex-wife/girlfriend, Holly, behind her back. Also he's a pedo who sent pictures of his dick to minors.

>>13139875
You have a keen insight into the mind of modern women my good sir!

>>13139875
everyone knows this is true youre just not supposed to say it

>>13139645
Libido Dominandi

>>13139645
The Ethical Slut and More Than Two. Their criticism of Monogamy is pretty much flawless, but the Polyamorous thesis is not.

>>13139875
>kind of rapey but not real rape you know? Like I want to know he wants me but not really be raped raped, does that make sense? Haha I mean I want to be roughed up and forced around against my will but only when it's something that I want and doesn't really hurt, I mean it can hurt a little lol but not a lot haha I'm a woman

>>13139875
Based and Disgusted

>>13139875
>Only a woman thing
What a fag, guys should aim to be wanted by many and only give to one, just as much as women, retard. Seriously, have sex

>>13139875

If a woman ever asked me to open our relationship, I would break up with her on the spot, just because she asked me. The simple act of asking me that, of even bringing it up as a possibility, would tell me everything I needed to know about her worth as a partner. Not that any of that would ever happen lol

have sex (with other women)

>>13139875

>>13140658
Holy shit it all makes sense now!

/thread

>>13139875
>just long enough to get her to her next fix of eatin' a musician's cum and thinking he'll like and respect her for it (hahaha).
I would like and respect a woman for eating my cum, but only if she only ate my cum. If she ate anyone else's cum I couldn't do it.

>>13139875
Wow shaming women for having sex. Incel.

What motivates men to ask for polyamory? Where does it come from in them? Why are their definitions of loyalty and equality so perverted? Men are only loyal until their relationship with you gives them enough self-confidence to flirt with other girls. If men had the sexual capital that women did, monogamy would be a myth.

>>13141185
Roastie shoo

Kantian deontology strictly forbids polyamory. Read "the metaphysics of morals".

>>13139875
megabased

>>13141185
The man has someone else lined up he wants to bang but has to go through the polyamourus lie to do it without feeling guilty. >>13139875

It's cheating but trying to look and feel morally right at the same time.

>>13139875
absolutely fucking based
literally everyone knows this but is afraid to speak up

>>13141185
What kind of question is this?
I've never heard one of these stories involve the man asking to open the relationship, only the woman, and it makes sense.

>>13141629
>this anecdotal evidence confirms my worldview, why would you think something that doesn't?

>>13139875
Absolutely positively based.

>>13141643
Well, what solid evidence do you have to present that it is, in fact, the other way around as you implied?
I suppose I could say I've never seen frogs rain from the sky, but that too would be anecdotal evidence, and thus inadmissible in this court.

My older sister claims to be polyamorous. She currently has three boyfriends. I despise her gluttony and her sloth and her pride and her attention-seeking self-victimization but above all I hate it when she speaks to her little brother as if he considers her as a role model, her with her unemployment and her childish temper tantrums and her three boyfriends. A failed project of personhood, The one consort that seemed mature and self-realizing dumped her once she made it clear that she only wanted to move in with him, not find a job.

None of you have read a single book on polyamory, have you

The Art of War by Sun Tzu

ITT: Roasties gettin' toasty
fuck N I G G E R S

>>13139875
very true

>>13141508
Kant never once touched a pussy in his life. Go figure.

>>13142160
In all likelihood, neither did Nietzsche.

>>13141185
real 'men' don't ask for polyamory.
If your 'man' asks for polyamory, you're either too ugly to fuck or he's a complete psycho.

>>13142110
It seems like it's mostly incels being bitter about women, as usual.

>men who fuck around dindu nuffin, they good boys, it's the women who are nasty whores
Pathetic.

>>13139875
Imagine being this based

In all seriousness what would you guys do if your girlfriend asked to open your relationship? Assuming you didn't have anyone else that you could fuck in the moment.

>>13142218
Honestly? I'd assume she was already cheating on me and I'd remove myself from her life as quick as possible.

>>13142218
break up. it is a lose lose situation

>>13142210
Women always throw around this argument.
>Why do you call women whores when guys whore around too?
Yes. The men who fuck around are also whores. Women who fuck around are whores. No one is pointing a gun at your head, saying you need to fuck around.
You are accountable for your own actions.

Lol you guys don't hang out in poly communities. There are plenty of poly relationships where the man is fucking around all the time and the woman becomes the repressed stay at home one. Grim as fuck.

I have a friend like this. He is incredibly attractive (kinda feminine, curly hair, tall, thin, etc). Also extremely intense and charismatic His fiance is attractive too, but not on the same level. They're poly because a few years back he fell in love with someone else and basically demanded they go poly. He's since broken up with the person he fell in love with (it was a whole massive drama, said person was the fiance of his best friend who then became suicidal), but is still constantly dating new folk/having casual sex, while she still hasn't dated anyone else but him. I'm fairly sure she's only poly cause he forced it. She acts like it's fine, but idk, seems soul destroying to me.

Men can be assholes too you dinguses.

>>13142210
Because is a metaphysical reality that men and women are completely different from each other, fucking around as an animal is disguting either way because the people subject to that lose the reality of sex and its tantra, because the connection of their bodies is losely based on a fast and dorky one night stand.
A man who fucks around isnt an slut, only someone who is losing his time because what other men think about him would not radically change.
A woman who fucks around is a complete slut because the woman by being dominated by man derives her value of the desire of those men

>>13139875
Based and virginpilled

>>13142247
>hang out in poly communities
Who, outside of those who have let the tidal wave of modernity sweep over them and to be swept up in it (or to have willingly let themselves wash along) would ever "hang out" in a "poly community".

>>13142261
but why comment on them if you have no first-hand (or even in this case second-hand) experience. Relationships are complicated. This whole idea that every women has more social/sexual capital than men is gross victimisation, but it's also just not always true.

Hell, I myself am I guy who has been in one poly relationship, which ended because my partner became too insecure with me sleeping with other people (she suggested poly but didn't end up sleeping with anyone else - she had bpd and got super crazy attached). This happens the other way round too of course, I'm just saying it's not limited to women.

>>13142271
I didn't comment on it. I came into the thread, read it, and found your post to be the most egregious of all and the only one warranting of a reply, and only as such because you ought to have been disparaged for it.

>>13139875
>female agency r-r-REEEEEEEE

>>13139875
So you are saying polyamory is reproductively advantageous technique that women use, while the interest of men is exclusive access to a female?

>>13142357
Not really, more like you just wanted to implicitly make him feel bad.

>>13142218
If she asks you that then it means she's either already cheating on you and wants a post hoc way of justifying it, or she wants to cheat on you bad enough that she'd actually ask you if you'll let her do it. The latter of course entails that she already has her eye on whoever it is she wants to cheat on you with. Just asking the question, or even bringing it up in some suggestive way that indicates she wants you to get interested in it, would cause me to dump her ipso facto.

I think the problem with polyamory is that women in most cases have more social capital than men. They don't start from the same point, so it's an obvious disadvantage for men.

>>13142247
Why this post got no replies and this >>13139875 got 20+? This is why intelligent discussion can't be had on 4chin

>tfw fucking projared has a bigger dick than you

>>13142257
I don't really care about that, it's common sense.

But in a place like this where 99% of people are men (or boys, to be exact) we should do better than "women are whores reee". Boys already live in a bubble, because they fail to understand that women their age are simply much more attractive than they are, but that this won't last long and that women get old much faster.
If this site was 30+ people instead of late teens/early 20s incels we'd have an entirely different perspective on things and better quality posts.

>>13142414
If she complains about your small cock give her free leave to go fuck a dick that causes her pain

>>13142247
>You guys have no idea what you're talking about
>Everything you say about polyamory is correct except men do it too.

>>13142411
because the post was making a point that "guys can be assholes too",
we know this.
What is interesting however, is how exactly people defend themselves being assholes.
(pro-tip: polyamory is for assholes)

>>13142416
based expanded perspective posted

Low-key seems like kids with divorced parents pretending their love life isn't dysfunctional.

>>13139645
Evola: Mysteries of Love

>>13142416
Sort of.
Men/boys/etc. start to become incredibly misogynistic when they start to realise how little effort girls have to make in order to be validated as "good", around 18.
Older men will literally pay young women just for the chance to be around them.
Men have to spend time constantly improving themselves if they ever hope to achieve the same evaluation are women are given (even average looking ones).
Once men accumulate this wealth and bed a woman (not a whore who has given away her value) they start to enter their secondary misogynistic phase when they realise that women see themselves as men's equals despite the fact the most they changed about themselves was their make-up and table manners if you're lucky.

So you'd have men at 30-40 posting about how retarded it is that despite being at the peak of their attractiveness and career, women unironically think being a homemaker, straight off the cock-carousel is the same achievement-wise as being a successful entrepreneur as a man.
Then you have the 'born-again' christian women who pretend they're also virgins and pure despite spending their whole time in college getting plowed.
Feminism has managed to remove even the advantages of being an elderly man.

The best thing you can honestly do in this modern age is push accelerationism to the point where the wage gap can be re-introduced and the government falls prey to corporations and their tech.

>>13140610
>should aim
the state of degenerates

>>13139875
Sounds legit.

>>13142346
Why can't you retards even use wojaks right? This is the face that is mocking. Its not screetching anger. Its someone who's wife has a boyfriend seeing the new marvel trailer.