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Recommend me please some good books on dealing with anxiety, improving self-esteem and leaving with harmony with itself

>> No.12976304

Greek and roman philosophy may interest you especially stoicism and epicurism

>> No.12976310

>>12976175
Lacan - Ecrits

>> No.12976384
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>>12976304

>> No.12976471

Time and Being

>> No.12976497

>>12976175
I'm so fucking horny for art hoes. I want to fuck a coked-out tumblr hipster DIY aesthetic astrology thot in her lip gloss DSL mouth. I want to cum all over a girl with thick frame glasses and edge dyed bobcut bangs. Everytime I hear a THICK, waist-high-jean-clad braindead choker-wearing slutty wiccan minx say "yikes," "y'all," "big mood," "cancelled" or "this is a bop," I get an uncontrollable urge to run up to her and fondle her d cups and sweaty fat thighs. I want to pour my white olive oil onto their contoured cheeks and neotenous faces and rhinoplastized nose. I want to finger an art hoe through her jean overalls while pretending to be interested as she talks about van gogh and arctic monkeys and how david foster wallace fans suck and gilles deleuze and VICE news and 'union pool' in williamsburg and steven universe and homeopathy and saveur magazine and taking adderall to pass exams. I'M SO. FUCKING. HORNY.

>> No.12976620

>>12976497
Been there, done that: now seeking a wife.

>> No.12976820

>>12976175
literally just the tao te ching

>> No.12977304
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>>12976384
Naw, frog. He’s right.

>> No.12977831

i've found books unhelpful
Can anyone give me practical advice?
seeing a therapist this week

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>>12976497
Done that, their pussies stink

>> No.12977899

>>12977831
Unironically just stop caring bro

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>>12977831
Man, nothing will save you, you either overcome your trauma or sulk and seek an escape, no book, no drug, no therapist, there must be something that bothered you tremendously when you were a child that you brought into adult hood and youmade it your prime personality that made you do things you often regretted et cetera, read of course, but it won’t save you from this state, it will temporarily suppress those feelings and when you’re not stimulated by reading you’ll feel like you want to commit suicide, stop hauling guilt and anxiety around OP, I know you can, love you OP, happy sailing

>> No.12978089

>>12976497
been there done that for a couple years. they're all the same and all very boring and insufferable after the third or fourth girl

>> No.12978156

>>12976497
lmfao well done

>> No.12978944

Freud

>> No.12979064

>>12977831
Meditation, but if you don't do it properly it won't work.

>> No.12979090

>>12977885

Nice one, Punchy!

>> No.12979543

>>12976175
Matrix 3 - val valerian

>> No.12979613

>>12977304

Fuck off

>> No.12979757

>>12977304
Why Stirner?

>> No.12979819

camus

>> No.12980395

>>12976497
Lol nice

>> No.12980488

>>12976497
Wew

>> No.12980503

>>12977885

The good stink or the bad stink?

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>>12980503
Bad stink

>> No.12980684

>>12980503
heavenly stink

>> No.12980887

>>12976175
The Art of Not Giving a Fuck

>> No.12980914

>>12976497
Same

>>12977885
Gib pls

>> No.12980954

>>12976497
There done, been that.

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>>12980954
THAT BITCH MORE ATE UP THAN MY LUNCH

>> No.12981378

>>12979064
What type? TM seems like bullshit, as they expect you to pay money to learn how to speak to God..

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>>12976175
How can words change you?
Perspective is reality.
What can you change: perspective or reality?

>> No.12981625

>>12980503
>>12980503
armpit stank

>> No.12981644

>Olivia Barringer
Do I know you btw? Haven't spoken to her in years.

>> No.12981670

Stoics

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>>12978089
How do I bag art hoes? Honestly sometimes i feel too boomer-tier for them, but i really want to fuck them.
>t. 28 year old boomer

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>>12976175
>Rings
>Piercings
>Gaudy make-up
>Probably has tattoos
Ruined

>> No.12982102

>>12982075
what mode is this?

>> No.12982290

>>12977899
This is unironically what I did and I feel great

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>>12976175

>> No.12982341

>>12976497
What a fucking ride

>> No.12983281

Irving's "A Guide to the Good Life". Or just jump straight into Seneca's letters, whatever floats your boat.

>> No.12983410

>>12976175
god I wish that were me~

>> No.12983498

>>12983281
This

>> No.12983510

>>12977899
nihilist faggot
>>12982290
dont be a nihilist faggot

>> No.12983513

>>12981704
>i feel too boomer-tier for them
Embrace it, be an authoritative daddy. That's what they unironically love.

>> No.12983540

>>12983510
I am in no way a nihilist

>> No.12983556

>>12977831
Listen to the therapist and fucking do what he/she says and remember you’re responsible for how you think and feel. Realizing that it was my mind under my control helped me develop actual coping skills and made life go from unbearable to bearable and to finally having a genuine sense of direction and fulfillment.

>> No.12983562

Süskind's The pigeon

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>>12977304
Namefags are always a treat. Such subs

>> No.12984131

>>12981603
>HoW cAn WoRdS ChAnGe yOu?
Mysticfags are exhausting.

>> No.12984216

>>12976175
that house on the far left of the photo, i lived there from when i was 8 - 10 (i don't know the girl)

>> No.12984270

>>12980503
Quite pungent tbqhfam

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>>12981704
As long as you love yourself you can have sex whenever you like, with whomever you like, the key is realizing your partner might as well not exist.

You guys ever think about what it'd be like to be me? To love yourselves as much as I love myself?
It really is a different level of existence. I realized some time ago that I don't feel attraction to others. When I have sex I don't enjoy that person's body, I enjoy being observed by them, and observing myself performing. I'm quite simply, attracted to myself, and since I discovered this my life has been radically changed. It all turns into a spectacle about myself and for myself to watch.

I don't pretend to be a sociopath, faking grandiose mental illnesses is for slightly less mentally ill folks.
What I'm trying to say is than most people are always yearning for something exterior, and their lives are aimed towards seeking this something / someone. A life time in their own company has dulled down any sense of self love and admiration they could have for themselves, after all, they know the weakness that looms in their hearts better than anyone; in other words, they have rejected the role of the protagonist in their own lives, for they're obsessed with the concept of "the other".
But when you're like me, you already have the greatest thing you could possibly want, and you goal is to enjoy it, and preserve it, and enhance it.

in my experience, those who live in fear of failure experience disappointment threefold, for the first time when they imagine their future self, for the second time when they are going through the ordeal an it looms on them, and for the last time when their future self reminiscences about their past self.

Before we start, remember, art whores are human shaped stepping stones in your narcissistic pursuit, even if she could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch she is still worth nothing , with that said if you still whant to score for your pleasure:
The first thing to do with any woman you want to penetrate is assert a distance between you. Do not let her get close. Keep her at arm's length and only very rarely make it clear that you want and desire her. People in general (and women in particular), are arrogant and self centered, they DO NOT want to worship a human being other than themselves; they want an image, a reliable, powerful, consistent force that they can attach themselves to, shade themselves under, and live vicariously through. By being a cutesy idiot sending lengthy texts to her explaining your pleb-tier opinions you are begging for her validation and feedback, you are basically oblivious to the fact that this submissive, masochistic little cunt wants a sexual partner, or a boyfriend and not some entry-level "my first playground romance" cuckboy.

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>>12981704
>>12984295
Women enjoy the dynamic of tension and then relief, intimidation, the utter debasement of themselves in service of a man who represents brute force and who apparently gets as much of a kick out of choking her, destroying her dignity and violently using her body and forcing her to admit her utter inferiority as she does in allowing a guy to do that to her. Very few women are looking for some dumb nerdy nice dude with tenuous philosophical positions.

But there must be some initial spark, based on physical attractiveness or power-orientated competence to provide the initial impulse in her desire of you. Girls simply do not fall in love with you "over time", or feel indifferent towards you at first only to suddenly become overwhelmed by desire after overhearing you tell your buddy about how exiting was that video game tournament you watched last weekend. The initial phase of inter-gender attraction is the most important, and the way you conduct yourself at that stage sets the tone for any relationship you may have.

Be too distant and you risk her losing interest or judging you to be oblivious and / or capable of simply "ignoring" your own instincts. Be too forward and you are admitting that you are needy, non-repressive and indifferent to high-tension dating rituals that women love. You should assert your attraction by an exchange of glances alone. This tells her you notice her and feel strongly about her, but are at the same time aware of etiquette and too appreciative of the aesthetic ritual to simply ask her to let you use her hole You must tempt her and maintain the intensity between you two. Make her feel impatient with you for not simply grabbing her and taking what you want from her. Make her ashamed of her intense desire and physical yearning for you. Make her touch herself at the thought of you, make her want to fuck her dog just to get rid of this burning urge that you have kindled. Make her view any woman you talk to as the potential ruiner of her entire life.
And THEN, when her inner turmoil is at its summit, when the delusional self-aggrandizing image she holds of herself starts to crumble under the weight of her instinct that compels her to be bred, only then you will ram her with your cock, and from that point onward with the outer layer of her persona shed from existence, she will be forced to stare into her real self and admit herself a slut, and she will be less human for it.
With a single swift thrust of your hips, their entire lives up to that point validated; your meat rod falls upon them, striking their soft flesh like the whip of the very same Martin Luther during his daily session of self-flagellation, and much like the pain freed him from the guilt of his past sins, the pleasure of your instrument will quickly wipe away their feelings of self-loathing.

>> No.12984371

>>12984309
how can i learn this power?

>> No.12984375

>>12984295
>>12984309
lmao this is such bullshit

just be tall with a handsome face, that's all

>> No.12984502

>>12976175
Going on a brisk-paced 45min daily walk will do far more for your anxiety than any book

>> No.12984571

>>12977831
cold showers,
active lifestyle walking for atleast an hour or two a day
cut out processed sugar.
eat only meat and veg, no beans, no grains
allowing yourself to express your thoughts

>> No.12984755

>>12984309
I feel a new man. Like my eyes were closed but I could feel the warmth and the glow of the light on my eyelids. As if your observations were always there, but I didn't know I could access more of their light beyond the faint warmth. You've opened them for me, and now I'm afraid I can no longer be at peace with stumbling around.

>> No.12984915

>>12976497
white olive oil onto their contoured cheeks. beautiful.

>> No.12985091

>>12984375
I'm tall and have a handsome face but I'm still a virgin who has never had a girlfriend