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>>12646456
just jerk off, calm down, and delete your retarded thread

>>12646456
my diary desu
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8ASok9tBWc

>>12646456
Why do you hate it? Do you strive to be chaste, but find it difficult to achieve?

>>12646467
First recommend me a book about hating sexual desire.

Become asexual like me

>>12646475
I'm weird in that I have no actual desire to have sex with a woman but I find myself constantly giving way to masturbation and I can't stand it. I suppose I hate the fact that I have seemingly no control over the desire, the desire firmly places itself onto me and either I muster the will to ignore it, which is rare, or I succumb to it, more naturally. You could say it's just another part of human nature, as much as breathing or taking a shit, but there's something about it more akin to unintelligent animals that makes it so very lame. I'm trying to not masturbate as much, and I've been off of porn for a number of years. It's difficult.

>>12646456
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=coJjo3NmAEI

And pretty much everything else from the Hollaback Girl...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8tmCQUURiY

>>12646456
Late Tolstoy

>>12646477
Asexuality isn't a team you can just join.

>>12646467
retard try contributing something for the first time in your worthless existence nigger insect

Read Lacan

>>12646495
Serious question, if you
>have no actual desire to have sex with a woman
(and, I guess, man, too) what are your masturbatory fantasies about?

>>12646495
it's an easily attainable hit of dopamine(or whatever the fuck it is) that has no obvious consequences

This isn’t a bad thing, it’s natural.

Even outside of 4chan it’s natural. It’s called controlling your sexual urges, and it’s how you get laid oddly enough

>>12646572
I suppose I'm a sort of voyeur in that when I did watch porn it was only girls masturbating. And when I masturbate now its usually about a woman masturbating.

It's mentioned a few times in Lady Chatterley's Lover how ridiculous the act of sex is. I'm not sure if you'd be able to enjoy much of the book if you really hate sexual desire though.

>>12646607
sounds like you're gay

>>12646456
>>12646456
What's that book about the guy with a permanent erection that decides to make the best of it before he dies, which is related to the erection. Trying to remember that author, some spanish american critic rec it before he became a women and decided to write about the experience. He'd probably have some shit to say. Other than that I don't know, I only hate what other people hate about my sexual desire, and that's mostly just a fickle selectivity due to sexual confidence, (though strangely my anxiety has also made interacting difficult with beautiful people, especially cute girls).

>>12646456
This sad sordid tale right here oughta' do the job

>>12646456
Just stop wanking.

>>12646475
No OP
It's having no control. Not that I can't control myself but the fact that the sexual desire exists. Also it's animalistic and I hate that.

St. Augustine's Confessions.

>>12646456
Anything written by an Incel counts.

>>12646476
>>12646456
The Devil

>>12648520
This

And Confessions of a Mask

Isn't it also necessary to overcome any romantic desires if one wants to continuously surpress any sexual desire?

>>12646607
Girls masturbating is much more vulgar than what you imagine as a kid. This hasty flicking has no aesthetic to it. And the juices are messy too.

>>12646467
This actually strengthens the desire. Let's be honest here. It only satiates for a half hour at best, then it comes back with a vengeance, especially if you see any further stimuli. The only real solution to quell it is deliberate abstinence, not even permitting any sensory provocations or thoughts that would lead to arousal

>>12646467
>just drink salt water, trust me bro, it will take care of your thirst.

Manzoni hated his sexual desire and that's pretty perceivable in his works.

>>12646467
"Lust indulged became habit, and habit unresisted became necessity." — St. Augustine of Hippo