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any books on how to be more social?

>> No.11776109

>>11776101

STOP TALKING ABOUT ME I GIVE UP ILL VOTE FOR THE DEMOCRATS ALREADY JUST PLEASE STOP THE TORTURE

>> No.11776122

dont think that image would really describe anyone here

>> No.11776134

>>11776101
The only one that describes me is no social media. Try again fag

>> No.11776140

>>11776134
>>11776122
>"This image doesn't describe me just in case any of you were wondering, t-that's why I replied saying so!"
hmmmm

>> No.11776151

>>11776140
Um, no sweetie. I'm literally have sex with a blonde bombshell while I type this

>> No.11776155
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11776155

>>11776122
>>11776134
Yeah I have a few close friends but I generally don't like many other people or really give a shit about what's happening in mainstream culture so I'm not actively trying to "fit it" though I still have social anxiety moreso because I don't want to draw people attention or make them annoyed with me.

>> No.11776162

>>11776155
cute!

>> No.11776167

>>11776155
Cool! Nice anime picture btw! totally not cringe that an adult would save that on his computer!

>> No.11776194

>>11776101
I don't know who Tim Ferriss is and don't care about any podcasts, I generally don't like to talk to people (and when I do I initiate conversations), I don't browse reddit all day, I'm not always nice to people, and I have one close friend.

>> No.11776195

>>11776122
That image is literally me.

>> No.11776214

>>11776122
That image is literally everyone here except replace reddit with this shit hole

>> No.11776254

>>11776167
Based

>> No.11776255
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11776255

>>11776101
>how about books on taking the next step toward enlightenment?

>> No.11776260

someone make one of these images for NPCs

>> No.11776264

>>11776260
Forced meme

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11776269

>>11776260

>> No.11776274

>>11776269
anon

>> No.11776289

>>11776214
yeah well its missing the reading books part. Netflix could be substituted for it

>> No.11776292

>>11776255
yeah this one is more like it

>> No.11776311

>>11776155
>yeah, i have friends I talk to all the time but otherwise I'm a complete loner xD

>> No.11776375

>>11776101
this is me except when i get to know someone my anger comes out and i alienate them

>> No.11776385

>>11776375
this is me

>> No.11776403

>>11776255
Closer, but the plebbit part really has to go. And if anyone here eschews mainstream social media it's out of disdain for those on it rather than fear.

>> No.11776411

>>11776403
>it's out of disdain for those on it rather than fear.

C O P E
O
P
E

>> No.11776428

>>11776411
I don't see how anyone could be "afraid of" generic online noninteractions with normie zombies but feel free to pretend if it makes you happy.

>> No.11776435

>>11776101
Aside from the podcasts, I’m shaken by this image

>> No.11776450

>>11776428
it isnt a fear of the people (or "normie zombies" as you asocially put it) but its a fear of appearing weaker and more alone than you already are. joining facebook or instagram, for a loner, does nothing but make his struggle like a public spectacle, while saying youre "disgusted by it all" becomes a useful shield that protects your ego from criticisms both external and internal. whats so disgusting about social media? explain if ive assumed too much?

>> No.11776474

I read all of this in female voices vulturing me wanting, this always puts me on the assault

>> No.11776480

>>11776255
Now this makes me mad

>> No.11776495
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>>11776101

This fucking image.

>> No.11776496

>>11776450
>whats so disgusting about social media?
you are kidding right?

>> No.11776498

>>11776450
Your mistake is attributing a form of neuroticism that only exists in those who play the social game to those who don't.

It's never "they'll think less of me". That thought never occurs because the idea of being thought of at all doesn't apply. It's more along the lines of "they're so vapid they make me want to puke my guts out". Rather than maintaining any kind of air of superiority, it's more a matter of being fundamentally incompatible with society.

>> No.11776501

>>11776496
the only way i could say otherwise is if you are a middle aged woman or elderly man wanting to connect with family/old friends

>> No.11776511

>>11776501
what if i want to connect with friends in different states
it feels more casual than texting

>> No.11776520

>>11776511

Ro be perfectly candid, “friends” in different states arent your friends. They’re using you

>> No.11776540

>>11776511
id use whatsapp, but eeeeeh its a difficult thing to discuss cause they have evolved into EVERYTHING platforms, you can blog, vlog, twit, upload photos, send mails, chat, buy shit, share links, use it as an rss, get the news, watch videos, you can do everything you can do in the rest of the internet but in a single website controlled by a data-mining company, thats the main con it has

the second con is the way facebook used to work and how instagram works now, the selfie posting and like-dopamine mechanism,

third con is the effect in the psyche that the conscious editing of the outward image of your life

combine the two and you have an addictive dorian gray

fourth con is in microblogging platforms, twitter and the like, ive seen some people use it well, mostly tech security consultants using it to amplify links (doe politicians have used the same strategy and use it to build bubbles of communication between supporters, so i dunno what to tell it), and one or two "comic twitters" who just do jokes, the problem is its only one or two cause around 2/3 years most of them devolve into resented posting, its like a vent of shit and frustrations people have, i don't enjoy feeding my brain with that nor engaging on it

>> No.11776575

>>11776520
stfu retard

>> No.11776767

>>11776255
Who the fuck uses utorrent anymore?

>> No.11777466

>>11776101
>chart
>literally me
Holy fuck mate

>> No.11777489

>>11776101
>Does not go out
>Still pays for media
Yea I hope no one does this.

>> No.11777806
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>>11776101
There's this girl I've been interested in for almost a decade. Ever since I became aware of her, I kinda couldn't take other girls seriously - even those that expressed interest, I've always shut down. Recently, as she became available, I've gotten to spend some time with her. She's unlike me in every possible way: where I am passive, she's excitable. Where I'm overly friendly, she's somewhat hostile. I'm prim and proper, she's definitely not. I spend my time reading, she likes being social, or watching shows.

After having been into her for years, during which she was unavailable, I am only now starting to wonder about how compatible we are. Do relationships like this actually work? Can people who are this different be together? Do opposites really attract?
>Any books for this feel?

>> No.11777818

>>11777806
>decade
>Recently, as she became available, I've gotten to spend some time with her
>Any books for this feel?
Yeah lad, Carl Jung concept of the Anima, you arent in love with her you have an inferior mentality and need to undergo individuation

>> No.11777842

>>11776255
lol Norm

>> No.11777857

>>11776101

this is indeed me if you replace leddit with this shithole, but i do go out and make temporary friends when i get tired of studying and working

>> No.11777864

>>11776155
>Moreso
>Anime
Kys

>> No.11777892

>>11776101
Social media is retarded. There are reasons not to use it aside from being to afraid to

>> No.11777900

>>11776101
Jack Kerouac

>> No.11777922

>>11776255
>>11776101

>Afraid to use mainstream social media
>Browses Reddit all day

Waddafuckamireadinghere??

>> No.11777933

>>11776101
Socialisation is bad, leads to empty performance for Capital

>> No.11778233

>>11776101
>he pays for media
fuck off

>> No.11778318

>>11776151
post pic

>> No.11778330

>>11776255
can you fucking not

>> No.11778332

You are now aware of that sinking feeling you get in your chest when you've been browsing the internet for hours and got absolutely nothing from it.

>> No.11778336

>>11776767
This, top normalshit installing malware instead of installing a good torrent program.

>> No.11778346

Holy shit the normalfags in this thread.

>> No.11778352

>>11778332
i got my wage for it tho

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>>11777806
My heart. Oh, anon....

>> No.11778395

>>11776289
>yeah well its missing the reading books part.
Sounds pretty spot on to me.

>> No.11778416

>>11776255
>speaks exclusively to cashiers
FUCK YOU STOP TALKING ABOUT ME