/lit/ - Literature

>>10629455
>Needing to read a book for something that should come naturally

>>10629479
Oh well tell me about your conquests Casanova.

Hegel's Science of Logic

>>10629455
afraid to say its not going to be my diary desu

>>10629485
>How to better at sex
Literally ask your partner what she is into lel. If that doesn't work then read the Kama sutra

this is pretty kino

>>10629455
Now that's something you can watch YouTube videos for

Talking very broadly, people who are shit at sex pay too much attention to themselves, they are either thinking of sex as their way to get to pleasure and that's all, like masturbating with the help of another, or they are so insecure they can't stop thinking if the other is liking it or not but in a neurotic way, imagining things and not feeling them, taking it in a selfish way ("what if I'm bad at sex??"), etc.

That being said, different people work in different ways. There is not one way to have sex and therefore it is impossible to just say there is an objective good-bad way to do sex. Most of the times, the quality of sex depends more on the connection between the two people than anything they do in particular. Two people who are great in bed with their respective partners may not do so well when they meet and the contrary also happends.

Some people like it violent, some people take it slow, some like oral, others not so much, some enjoy kinky stuff or out of the box ideas, others can't feel comfortable if not in that one bed, etc. That's why I think the only sensible and general advice one could give is to give yourself to the experience, negotiate your pleasure with the pleasure of the partner, listen, feel, be bold but feel it when you're being too intrusive, be careful, but feel if that is becoming boring to that person, and so on.

>>10629455
REMINDER: sage and report all non-lit threads so we can protect the catalog from being defiled by stupids

thanks

>>10629455
If you make them fall in love with you first then you will always be good at sex.

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