/lit/ - Literature

I thought "daddy issues" was a meme. But after getting older (33yo boomer) and seeing how 18 year olds will shamelessly subordinate themselves as your fuck toy if you're act congruently, I conjecture the interplay is a natural one that's present in all humans:
We're scared of fucking up stuff in our life by making bad decisions and look for a father figure who will take over this decision making for us. And if we're about to make a stupid decision, that person (the other, if you will) will be in the position to put us in place and prevent us from fucking up our lives.
When younger I wondered why some would not only tolerate but even seek a guy who'd really properly slap their ass, hold their face in their hand or put fingers in their mouth. Now I realize that girls having power hierarchy displayed this way reassures them that "daddy" will actually not tolerate them doing stupid shit and puts them in their place before they do something irreversible and stupid. Being dominated becomes a reassurance that there's one who cares for them. Devoutly sucking your dick before you go to work is a thankful appreciation for not letting their bad half derail where things are going.
Since I can emphasis with that, I think most men would act this way too, if they could. Young girls can just better leverage themselves to find a partner who does this for them. I might be severely oversimplifying the dynamics, though. Just trying to understand why some young chicks love cum over their face so much. Modern porn may play a role.