/lit/ - Literature

>meet a girl in church (inb4 fedoralords, no need for that, please)
>something about her enthrals me the moment I see her, even before we had really talked
>she studies sports pedagogy and health education; I'm /fit/
>she likes reading the classics of Western fiction; I'm /lit/
>we both want to serve God, and unlike pretty much every girl (or so it seems), she's not interested in moving abroad
>additionally, she's very interesting in hearing more about my writing
>she seems just like the kind of girl I've been looking for
>a few days ago I ask her if she's be available Friday or Saturday, so that we might go for a coffee
>"I'll think about it."

Am I wrong to assume that this is just an euphemism for "I can't think of a polite way to refuse right now, so I'll say that I'll think about it"? I actually saw her today, but we didn't talk. However, if she wanted, she could've very easily come to me, because we were both alone and not doing anything other than exiting the church.

Feels bad, man. Getting rejected by a woman is the ultimate form of rejection, because what it basically means is: "I don't want to get to know you better, because even now the possibility of pairing with you is impossible. If I can help it, your genes will not survive to the next generation. You are not good enough for me." Of course going out for coffee doesn't mean that you're going to get married and have children, but not going means that even the thought of that is unthinkable to her.

How do you deal with tfw no gf, /lit/?