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#1: Women are as insecure and socially awkward as we are

#2: You have to be proactive. Women will never make the first move.

#3: Ask the girl out within the first few messages. Many girls use dating sites for personal validation and have no interest in going out.

#4: Don't develop oneitis. She is not the perfect girl, you will meet many more. Don't work on just one girl, it's all about numbers.

#5: Social confidence is all about practice. Go to bars and coffee shops and just talk to random chicks. If you say something dumb who cares. You'll never see her again.

#6: If she agrees to meet you in person, she already thinks you are hot. Dates are all about making sure you arnt a complete autist.

#7: Practice your bullshit routine aka elevator pitch. Be able to sell yourself. Never let the girl think you are not actively improving yourself. Girls look for potential and will excuse a lack of accomplishment if you are still a college student. What turns them off is stagnation and lack of ambition.