/lit/ - Literature

>>13505827
In the Meaning Of Love by Vladimir Solovyov he actually argues the opposite, that an intimate sexual love is only possible by sacrificing egoism, and that it's the only real way for a human to end one's selfishness. I'm somewhat inclined to agree, because if we take this view for a moment polyamory would be a very childish love, where people seek different individuals that fulfill different needs much like a kid would go through a candy store and demand everything he likes. It's not the kind of relationship that would rid one of egoism but rather enforce a very narcisstic view of others. Then again I don't have much personal experience in the field, but I would recommend the book to anyone interested.