/lit/ - Literature

>>8959675
yeah, isn't it strange? I'm studying now for 6,5 years and I'm not really friends with people from my classes.
At the beginning I got into learning groups and we went out some nights as well, we had card board game nights, watvhed a movie, went to lunch together(Though I stopped that for there were too many mobile phones which they obviously rather spent their time with). I guess you'd call that friends. I don't know. But they took university way too serious, got their degree so fucking quick and left - never heard of them again.
And that's only for one of my two bachelor studies (we have to choose two - fine with me).

Now I'm doing a master degree and I get along all alright with my fellow students. there are really small classes, like 5 people only? so you do see each other very often in different classes. We help each other out if it's about university, but otherwise? We don't really have to do anything with each other. It's a bit sad. I don't know how this friendship thing is suposed to work?

Yet again I do have friends, some even from university, but from all differnt kinds of studies. We don't even share the same library! I study humanities, they study science. I really feel close to them, but unfortunately they finished their degree and moved pretty far. still in good and beloved contact. I love them. It's so strange how we got to know each other. I have no idea how this happened.
Otherwise from them I've found friends at a sport club (Rugby) and by working freely for a charity club organising stuff for students from abroad. That's a really easy way to get to know people and spend time with them in your sparetime. or go to parties, behave all excessivley stupid and happy, always meet new people.

I hope this helps you guys. Don't give up.
I don't know how it works to make friends and university, but somehow it happens in the strangest way possible.