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>Women are as insecure and socially awkward as we are
On the average, yea
>You have to be proactive. Women will never make the first move
Some will. They will probably be boring as hell though. It rarely goes beyond 'Hi Im Stacy' or 'Hi, have I seen you somewhere?'. They do expect you to respond nicely and lead the way.
>Ask the girl out within the first few messages. Many girls use dating sites for personal validation and have no interest in going out.
True
>Don't develop oneitis. She is not the perfect girl, you will meet many more. Don't work on just one girl, it's all about numbers.
This
>Social confidence is all about practice
True
>Go to bars and coffee shops and just talk to random chicks
I'd suggest some tool like Tinder, allows you to filter out like 50% of boring girls.
>If she agrees to meet you in person, she already thinks you are hot
Or she's just bored. Or her best friend just got a bf, and she's compensating. Or 100 other reasons
>Practice your bullshit routine aka elevator pitch. Be able to sell yourself
But don't overdo it. Be relaxed but responsive, like in boxing, don't stick to the same routine every time.