/lit/ - Literature

>>7186859
>Yes they do, every young person cares about it

No, literally no one cares. I have experience in this realm. I don't just whine about not getting laid on /r9k/. I talk to girls. They have no expectations of having good sex. Women have sex to be close to someone. Most men who have sex regularly are in it for themselves, and couldn't find a clitoris if their lives depended on it.

Once you get out of high school, nobody even talks about sex like that. No one laughs about it. No one thinks less of someone for not having it. If you're attractive and nice, women might even use that as an excuse to fuck you. That's what happened to me.

Guys are obviously different about sex. It's neurotic for us, and our neurotic behavior is self-reinforcing. We have sex for the orgasm, and focus on that during the process. When we talk to each other about it, we make shit up. If you've talked to a guy about sex, I guarantee half of his stories were flat out lies. The solution is obviously just not to talk to other men about it, unless you know they don't treat it as an obsession. Insisting on sex, rather than personal intimacy and love, prevents you from forming the relationships that you're really seeking out in the first place.

Self-pity will get you nowhere. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and take steps to improve who you are. Women aren't ignoring you, you're just scared.