/lit/ - Literature

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I doubt i can do that. I mean the remifications of having someone else before you are so big, not being her first love is having to be locked out of a very special place in her mind. For one it means i will always be compared to someone else if she would never admit it. A failed relationship, as the way i see it any relationship that doesn't have the end goal being a lifelong mate, brings so many problems as well, when i say 'used' it has a double meaning, one in simply the act of sex but also the fact that the ralationship didn't last it means to me that she was either used by someone, being lusted over, with no intentions of a deeper relationship . Or she used someone else with not respect or love, and both of those scenarios, to me, signal a ruinous omen for a lifelong relationship. Sex without love is debasing, being in a relationship with someone else having neither the love or respect for them, which i see modern dating as, is also debasing. Which speaks to me of either sociopathy or a lack of love for oneself, and if one doesn't love themselves they cannot love another. It's hard but i honenstly don't see how i ever get over this and accept a non-vigin, they way i see it i would rather be miserable alone that with someone else, and i would feel awful to ruin someone else's experience in, what i would feel like is, both mine and her debasement. These are the feelings i have from thinking about it as i'am not religious even in the slighest.

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