/lit/ - Literature

>>22642890
She might not even be a real person. This among other things is why you don't text with matches. When was the last time you met a girl at a bar? Did you fail to connect because you hadn't spent any time texting each other? Why is there anything to gain from Internet small talk with a woman before you meet her?
>i'm sold, let's get a drink
>got a favorite spot?
Nothing more. This lets her know that your attraction to her is confirmed and you are not interested in a friendship. It puts no pressure on her because she is invited to choose a place where she is a regular and/or otherwise feels safe. She is probably too ignorant to appreciate this fact, but it also denies you the opportunity to research her interest and ponder her demeanor, and rehearse an approach tailored to what you believe will hold her interest or build her attraction. In fact a woman's safest and smartest option is to NEVER have communication with interested men except in a social setting where the encounter includes body language, eye contact, and other physical behavior.