/lit/ - Literature

>>13588701
What do you do if you naturally developed into this as a male?

>>13283364
>The first step to becoming a man is to stop blaming your parents because you suck. Step two is reading whatever you want because that doesn't matter.
This is awful advice, this is what I did for my entire life I always blamed myself and I thought my overbearing mother and completely passive father were ideal for me because they gave me the material conditions and that it was my own fault I was overemotional, unassertive and psychologically weak, I never read anything aside from what was required in non independent education and my peers manipulated me at every turn
Do you understand why having a controlling emasculating mother who keeps you inside the house until you're 20 and never treats you like a future adult male is bad for a man? Who molds you in her own image and raises you like her mother raised her and doesn't even realise what she is doing or why you are now like this other than oh its because you're gay and in the closet
When you tell her you will have no go through inevitable hardship as a man she just laughs and says what hardship
You weren't controlled like this your whole life and were probably given a slight amount of independence that allowed you male socialization and every other normal healthy male thing like putting yourself before others and not feeling responsible for everyone elses happiness etc etc

>>13272054
Sorry I just wanted to see if I was gay.

What do you read to reverse pic related if you have been hitting yourself since you were 6 and every time you try to learn you replay bad memories over and over again in your head of what people did to you? I wasn't aroused by any of this I just did it naturally, I only feel attracted to girls