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It comes down to how okay you are with yourself.

If you're so desperate that you're looking at how to pick up "women", you're doing it wrong. You need to be looking for the right kind of woman.

Women love women's bullshit just as much as guys love guys' bullshit. They're both mostly normies. They have to be all about the fashion, and the drama, and the physical attractiveness / social-status competition, just like guys have to be all about the sports, and the cars, and the physical strength / sexual conquest competition. It's all just to "fit in", and be "one of them", so that the largest demographic will accept you, otherwise, you might be forced to stand out, to be ostracized and excluded for being "different", which is almost worse than death to the average basic bitch/bro, who need the approval of the masses to survive.

However, if you are okay enough with yourself that you don't need to be "one of them" to find strength, and that you can be proud of yourself instead of being ashamed for standing out, and you'd rather be single than spend a life with some annoying, hollow, basic bitch that just runs typical female shit-tests and social games, then you have enough standards and self-respect to limit yourself to searching for those (more uncommon but not RARE) intelligent/independent women who are at least less prone to the typical female bullshit.

When women see that you respect yourself and that you feel ZERO loss to drop any basic bitch out of your life at a moment's notice, they respect you. They want so desperately to be accepted and fit in, that they will fight each other for your approval just to get some from someone who doesn't give it out easily. It's all just to "prove" themselves, and they have nothing to prove if you're a timid nobody who just tries to fit in and would approve of any female who gives you attention.

So basically: Start the journey to approve of yourself. Once you realize that your own approval is the only approval that actually matters, you can then start to seek out the women who are actually worth your time, and disregard any thot who can't give you the relationship/life you want.

Basically: Have standards. Reject roasties. Seek out thoughtful/independent women. If enough of us actually respect ourselves enough to do this, we'll suddenly start seeing women valuing different traits (independence, intelligent discussion) once the old ones (being a catty bitch, wearing slutty designer clothes) no longer gain them approval.