/lit/ - Literature

So I am fluent in Russian and English, I also need to learn Hebrew,
I speak a bit of Spanish and this is supposed to be helpful, but the voices in my head just keep switching the languages and it ca be torturous at times, But in all else, I am in contempt. I want to read more and write more and start working out again.
I have a question for you though, is it okay to put yourself in the mentality of a father while not wanting children or having a relationship at all. Just be the man a father needs to be just without the main aspect of being a dad?