/lit/ - Literature

>>9065286
Having been there, I can answer that.

It's because they're on their own too long using media. They become convinced that all they need to do to get a girlfriend to to be direct with signs of affection without ever confirming it (and risk facing outright rejection). Media portrays women as wanting the guy that comes along and does nice things for them, without drawing excessive attention to how attractive he also happens to be. For example, watch The Princess Bride. Men will focus on Wesley's deeds and talents , while women tend to focus on his good looks.
So in the Sperg's mind, he comes up with a formula:

Gifts+Proximity*frequency=Relationship

And with it, confirmation bias
>she must like me! We went to that concert together!
>We're really close. She gave me a hug after I gave her that necklace.
>I'm willing to listen to all her problems. I'm good for her.
What's really interesting though is that the presence of other boyfriends will not deter this.
>I must be something special! I've been with her through six guys

Women, on the other hand, tend to not outright reject a guy showing her affection, which fuels his fantasy and hopes. So we end up with a delusional man chasing after an uninterested woman.

>tl;dr see pic related
Also, if you stop masturbating so much, you begin to feel sexual urges again, and will stop calling yourself almost asexual. Also speaking from experience.