/lit/ - Literature

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You kind of undermined that little resume by demonstrating that you don't know what credible sources are. Everything you have posted in this thread remains as opinion.

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A few years ago I was a complete skelly looser who was afraid to talk to people. I'm rather ripped now, feel better about myself and became more confident. It made a huge difference in my life, I have plenty of friends, don't have problems with getting women etc etc.
Last week I was visiting my friend at Oxford. We went to a formal dinner in his college. Harry Potter like shit with medieval hall, paintings on walls and everyone wearing black tie and so on. I still remember the one guy sitting near us who was entertaining everyone around for the whole time, he was cracking a joke from time to time or engaged everyone saying something more serious. People were all over him. While we had fun time too with my friend, I must admit that I still feel dull in comparison to this guy. I have my shit together, autist interests in my youth payed off in finishing uni with a good degree, I travel from time to time and read plenty of books. Nothing the guy was saying was particularly out of my league, however it seems to me that in social situations I can't connect really dots and be genuinely charming like this guy. It's not like I'm socially awkward any more, I can do fine in almost every situation but I'd like to jump onto next level. How to become more charming /lit/? Any book on that? I'm not jealous of this lad, he really seemed like a nice dude, just want to improve.