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>>22591414
>wife used to be kind of crazy
>literally would be insanely jealous and has pulled knives on me when she was mad
>was crazy to the point people would probably consider her abusive
>one time she was so mad she was trying to stab me but I caught her arm and stopped her
>something snapped and I just started having a mental breakdown crying in a fetal position against the wall.
>kept rambling on about I don't care if I died any more and just kept repeating that I loved her
>she didnt stab me but just held me
>From that day on she was never crazy anymore and was the complete opposite, completely loving, no more jealousy/anger and overall very obedient and follows my lead/decisions

What happened and why did it change her so much? We've never talked about or acknowledged the incident and it's almost like it never happened. There seems to be this unspoken thing between us to never even make any sort of reference to it.

Mind you, this happened 12 years ago so I don't think she's memeing her behavior lol

>>21957781
>Be in 30s
>Realise wife has been covertly abusive the whole time I've known her.
>Actually she was openly abusive since HS and bullied me but does it covertly after.
>Basically bullied me that I never made friends then after HS became nice to me out of the blue and steered me away from making any relationships outside of her
>Love her heaps yet in still somewhat scared of her after all these years