/lit/ - Literature

>>11880968
Yes. Not every girl makes you play elaborate social games for her affection, in fact that kind of girl is probably not a good fit for you in the first place. But for the right girl it's as easy as learning how to read and speak body language.

Girls are subtle creatures, they give subtle physical cues to let you know if they like or dislike what you are doing, like making skin contact, or fluttering her eyes, or adjusting the way her body is pointed. The thing is, you have to pay really close attention, and you have to be willing to meet her subtle cues with subtle cues of your own. Girls do this to test a guy's willingness to listen to them, they want to know if, in 1, 3, 5, or 10 years or more, you'll still be interested in listening to her prattle about her day, after the novelty of "having a girlfriend" wears off and you'd rather go back to playing video games.