/lit/ - Literature

I feel like the whole incel movement can be dismantled if they accept one simple truth. You can see this on places where women openly show their true selves like r/FemaleDatingStrategy or crystal.cafe. The simple truth is: women don't feel the need to give anything back.

It's not their fault, it's just the way society is built. Men do all the legwork, so to speak. Men initiate conversations, plan dates, buy the engagement rings, get on their knee to propose. No matter how much money you spend on them or attention you give them, they will not necessarily reciprocate. In fact, they will get very angry if you try to claim they should.

Society structures men as the offerors, women are the selectors. And you can see this even on places like crystal.cafe, the female r9k, except everyone has a boyfriend. It's their job to choose. So women's primary problem is not that they can't get anyone, it's thay they can get anyone good enough for them. This is the cause of the female saying: no good men left.

And what is a good man? In conversation about it they will get defensive and grossly understate their requirements. But if they're being honestly, broadly it is:

>be reasonably attractive and fit
>be financially stable (ie have a job with career prospects)
>give her things and show her emotional care
>do not masturbate to porn
>address her rampant insecurity which will manifest in strange and highly unpredictable ways

The importance of the last cannot be overstated. Women have been emotionally coddled their whole lives, almost all basically have never been told that they are worthless or stupid or dumb or a failure, things society directly and indirectly tell men all the time. When they have there's always someone they get cry to. So they'll repeatedly ask you things like if these jeans make her look fat or get jealous at other girls. It's an ego emotional thing; they primarily want to feel like they aren't ugly or fat, not necessarily they don't want to be.

Women will expect you all to do these things as if it's their God given right. If you do become their partner they will feel the need to reciprocate to some degree, although underneath they feel they are being extremely generous they are doing it at all. This is the female mindset.