/lit/ - Literature

I think that the problem is that you've probably spent your entire life thinking about how your first woman encounter will be romantic and beautiful and fair and cool etc., but the aforementioned encounter turned out to be a quick fuck with an obvious thot and you're kind of lost now. Don't sweat it, think about the fact that you actually had a sleepover with her and you're better with woman (since you ended up with a bj) than you were, say, a year ago. Sure, it's a laughable achievement, but try to find a solace in it and think about it in the future, when you will be inevitably approaching someone new. No need for the book, but there are great posts in this thread.