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>>11630493
The idea of unisex being progressive and good, and gender being seen as arbitrary always comes just before societal collapse and barbarian invasion.

Anyhow, you're uncomfortable around men because you were never properly socialized. This is similar to other forms of social anxiety developing for the same reason. It's not insecurity or thuggish behavior, it's playful competition. That's like calling what lion cubs do "fighting", it mimics the real thing, and exists partially for that reason (The other main one being social bonding), but it's definitely NOT the same. I feel sad for you, but I believe that you can turn your life around.