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>>9149940
You're fine, girls find it flattering if a guy gets an erection when making out, same as if a girl you liked was soaked after just a few kisses. Both genders like to feel sexy, to feel desired.

As for the not keeping it up part, that's you getting nervous, performance anxiety it sounds like. It happens to tons of dudes, you've just gotta get outta your head and enjoy the moment when you're with her.

Remember that you're both people, and if you've gotten this far it means she's attracted to you, so she's probably nervous too. Just take your time with the foreplay, include lots of kissing all over her body, nibble her ears a bit, don't be in a hurry to get your dick in her.

Most guys are really self-centered in bed, so if you take the time to go through some foreplay you're already doing better than like 50% of dudes, and if you go down and give some oral you'll be in the top 10% p much.

Main thing is, nothing's wrong with you, you just gotta learn to relax.