/lit/ - Literature

>>14049202
God-tier post. I was an incel till I lost my virginity to the girl in the pic at 20 years old. She was 18 and alright looking. Ever since then I've only fucked hookers and a boy.

But to get to her I had to go trough hundreds of tinder swipes, around 10 cold approaches, dozens of twitter/insta DM rejections and getting rejected by multiple girls adjacent to my social groups.

Thing is, I consider myself above average. I'm 6'1, decent shape, good hair, pretty decent social skills. My only physical flaws are a weak chin and acne scars but overall I'd consider myself somewhat attractive.

Even the girl I did bang, I had to talk to her for months and took a train for an hour to bang her. If a guy like me has this much trouble, I can't begin to imagine the hellhole it must be for a below-average/ugly guy.

>>14053566
The moment you talk to the girl with the intent of having sex with her, you are inherently competing with every other option she has. The only out is to not try, but with that you pay the price of sexual frustration.