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>>15381784
I have had the exact same experience. I've had relationships with women and men, and all of them required me to sit and have these asinine conversations all day just to keep contact. I've been called cold and uncommunicative, which couldnt be further from the truth. I'm just not interesting in talking about nothing.

I don't like small talk or omeone to ask me how I am every day because the answer is always the same: I'm alright. i dont understand why we have to force conversation

I once had a girlfriend of mine sit and talk to me on the phone for an hourabout how she went to go get the bus and she missed the bus and had to get another bus. I had a boyfriend who would open a conversation the exact same way every day:

>Hi
>How are you
>Good thanks
>What are you up to?
>I am watching tv/eating/cleaning

and then be mad at me because I didn't 'reply' after that. reply to what dude

I have good friends that talk to me by immediately striking up a conversation about something. no hellos, no how are yous, just straight in with some conversation. they don't care if I don't reply straight away, or if I leave half way through and come back, and they don't need to end a conversation they just let it die whenever it's done. its cool and it's easy and that's how I love to communicate.I never get that with my romantic partners, I just get empty nonsense.

And cutesy emotes and hehes and hahas and babys and goodnights!! <3 <3 make me cringe. it's fake

I don't think I'm right for relationships either, but maybe we're just not cut out for relationships with most peole

>>15381784
I have had the exact same experience. I'm female, but I've had relationships with women and men, and all of them required me to sit and have these asinine conversations all day just to keep contact

I don't like small talk. I don't want someone to ask me how I am every day because the answer is always the same: I'm alright. Don't ask me what I'm doing for the hell of it, don't force conversation for the sake of it. It bores me so much and it makes me iritated with them.

I once had a girlfriend of mine sit and talk to me on the phone for an HOUR about how she went to go get the bus and she missed the bus and had to get another bus. She just wanted to talk to me, but the more she talked the more I felt my interest in her slipping away. I had a boyfriend who would open a conversation the exact same way every day:

>Hi
>How are you
>Good thanks
>What are you up to?
>I am watching tv/eating/cleaning

and then be mad at me because I didn't 'reply' after that. Reply to what? You didn't say anything.

Meanwhile I have good friends that talk to me by immediately striking up a conversation about something. No hellos, no how are yous, just straight in with some conversation. We talk for hours sometimes. They don't care if I don't reply straight away, or if I leave half way through and come back, and they don't need to end a conversation they just let it die whenever it's done. It's great, it's easy, and that's how I love to communicate. But I never get that with my romantic partners. I just get empty nonsense.

I've been called cold and uncommunicative, which couldnt be further from the truth. I'm just not interesting in talking about nothing.

And cutesy emotes and hehes and hahas and babys and goodnights!! <3 <3 make me cringe. They seem so fake. If I wish you goodnight it's because we've spent a real night together talking, and I want to end it strong. I don't want to robotically do it every night.

I don't think I'm right for relationships either, but maybe we're just not cut out for relationships with most peole