/lit/ - Literature

Books that'll help me figure out what I want to do in life careerwise?

Is there a /lit/ magazine worth subscribing to?
What do you think of NYRB?

Can any book help you get over incelic thoughts about women?
Something that'd develop my admiration/respect towards them for who they are.

I feel like the general advice 'write more' isn't useful, because if that's all it takes no bad author would've existed. Most professional writers write a lot.
There must be some factor that elevates one's writing to the point that you recognise quality from the first line. How does someone reach that stage?

What's the most erotica book you've read?

What careers keep space for you to retain a literary mindset if you want and not necessarily turn you into a bugman?

Books on how to get rich?