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>>23449860
As a guy who has about 7 inches I think I realised what it is. I don’t think they actually care about dick size but whenever I consider the fact that I have a big dick I get a confidence boost which lets me act in a certain way. This is what they actually find appealing in my experience.

If you’re looking for a deeper answer I suppose it has to do with the fact that we associate big dicks with the ideal of masculinity, if you believe in that ideal and strive for it but feel you don’t exactly measure up then it stands to reason it would shake your confidence in your masculinity. Your instinct in that case would probably be to compensate in some way maybe by becoming overly aggressive or obsessive about certain masculine traits, humans are generally good at sensing that kind of manufactured behaviour and will see you as fake.

In other words, embrace your size and don’t let insecurities poison your mind.