/lit/ - Literature

What's up, /lit/

As a 20yo who grew up in a single mother household, i often find myself questioning who am i? What should i do with my life? But i discovered that in order to find out the answers to these trivial questions, i have to find out something every male in his life usually find out sooner or later. How to become a man. I have role models in my life, males who tend to share their ideals of what a man should do and what ideology a man should have. But no one to clearly articulate how to become one...

So, what I was wondering is if there are any credible novels out there that you guys have read that could help me figure how do i become a gentleman of society?