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>>8764261

It's certainly been extremely difficult for me to find women to relate to on anything more than a superficial level, but for the most part I *used* to be like you.

You just have to learn to socialize better, and drop the general pretense of thinking you're better than everyone else -- or at least overtly showing that this is what you think -- even if you objectively are. People can tell when you think highly of yourself and they think you're a snoody faggot for it, take it from someone who has been there. That said, it's still okay to be confident or even borderline cocky, just be okay with making fun of it and yourself, but not to the point of self-deprication if that makes sense. Socializing is an incredibly nuanced thing, you ought to use that autistic obsessiveness to master it.

Also, you're probably not as accommodating and friendly as you could be because you're depressed. I think if you fixed that you'd become a more virtuous person towards others, but now I'm just guessing shit about you.

I had to relearn to socialize. I realized that things which are totally trivial, banal, and useless to me, like my daily interactions with others, are things that people really, deeply care about. People love interacting with others and hearing of their daily triumphs and woes. If you observe what people think about and speak about, you can communicate with them by imitating it to an extent. You can learn to enjoy these interactions, too. There's something gratifying about making someone smile or feel good, whether it be by complimenting them, recalling a funny story, etc.

The key to this, however, is to learn this behavior without looking like a fucking autist. I used to be the kind of "what the fuck should I be doing with my arms" piss-bottle tier autist. Now I'm enjoying major career and personal success by virtue of the fact that I'm insanely confident and able to seamlessly interact with others, going so far as to make them feel good and wanting to get more of me. I even got to keep me autist /lit/ and /tg/ hobbies.

Before sounding too much like Patrick Bateman, I should add the caveat, again, that I learned to enjoy socializing as well, even when my deepest inclinations are to be introverted the the nth degree. People are interesting if you give them a chance, even the dumb ones. It just takes a bit of optimism (i.e. antidepressants if you're on /lit/) and patience.

I've fucked a lot of bitches; none were into dom but the vast majority of not all were into sub.

That was p cool. Never thought I'd announce something like "I've fucked a lot of bitches." Swag.