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Hey /jp/...

I've been taking it too easy. I'm in college, but I've been skipping classes. I might fail my classes because of bad attendance and not doing homework. Every day I come home and tell myself I'm going to study, or do something productive, but every day I end up surfing the BBS, cleaning my room, or doing something with a friend, or playing video games. I don't know how to buckle down and not take it easy. I joined my school's wushu club recently, but I've been struggling to get a strong horse stance, and ended up skipping that, too. I'm worried I'm too behind the rest of the club now. I'm scared to go back.

How do I break out of this? What do I do? What do you guys do? I don't want to take it easy forever.

>> No.9945357

How does one take it easy too much?

>> No.9945362

>>9945357
I'm scared of being alone forever. I'm not strong enough to be truNEET

>> No.9945370

you must embrace the yukkuri
only then can you truly understand what it means to yukkuri
and how to yukkuri even when others are not yukkuri

you must be the yukkuri.

>> No.9945385

>>9945362
I don't think you understand a NEET doesn't have to be alone. You could be a NEET with someone, you just can't be a Hikki with someone, because that's not something a Hikki would do.

>> No.9945407

My situation is that there's a fund set up for me by my grandparents that pays for my housing and schooling, and I can only use it if I keep going to school. I'm not taking very many credits and pretty much lying to my parents about what I'm doing at this point so I can have a place to live. I don't think I can truly yukkuri because I have university every day.

But besides that, I feel like I want to make something. I want to get good enough at the piano to play Touhou songs, and I'm scared of the prospect of just doing nothing and letting time pass. Do you guys who yukkuri just not care about those kinds of things?

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9945409

I can help because I am in the same situation.
Someone please help.

>> No.9945443

>>9945409
That picture is quite well done.

>> No.9945486

You can't break free. It's too late now. You have to constantly tell yourself to keep doing it, no matter what. You must bring conflict to your mind to break the yukkuri mindset and finally move forward. But then your performance won't be good enough. You'll never work at 100% performance. It's still better than nothing, though.

>> No.9945515

Whatever you do, go to the last class. It doesn't matter what you do when you get there, just make sure you attend and the professor records it. Unless you're going for free, this is almost a necessity.

The club and your grades are a lost cause though, don't worry about them.

>> No.9945530

Try getting a part-time job so you know how fucking awful it is to be on the work floor with a bunch of idiots doing mundane shit for 8 hours every day.

That should be enough motivation to get your shit together.

>> No.9945601

Dunno, man. I'm in almost the exact same situation as you. My mind is just too damn good at convincing itself that everything will work out somehow. It's a gift and a curse but mostly a curse since I'm too stupid to not worry. Laziness and apathy are for smart/rich people that don't need to worry about things. They are going to be just fine. Dumb folks like myself should be scared and work their asses off to not get pushed into the gutter to die with the other poor/dumb people that didn't try hard enough.

So yeah, don't fall into that gutter. It's a cold place full of shit and corpses. No amount of febreze will make it a nicer place.

>> No.9945616

Go find a boyfriend.

>> No.9945646

>>9945311

Anta bakaaaa?

>> No.9945651

>>9945616
I do kind of have a boyfriend, but he's FtM and has PTSD. I still feel alone most days.

>> No.9945670

Janitor approved /soc/ shit

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9945675

>>9945651

Mmmmkay...

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9945690

>>9945651
>him
>boyfriend
Fuck off.

>> No.9945696

>>9945675
Enjoy your ban for misussed report feature.

>> No.9945708

>>9945675
Okay, so you guys don't care about my problems. I'm not going to whine about it. But on a day-to-day basis, how do I keep myself going and being productive? How do I learn Japanese like a boss, and get strong and fit and stuff when all I do is take it easy? I try, and I go back to my old habits within a few days. It's a cycle I'm stuck in.

>> No.9945708,1 [INTERNAL] 

>>9945696

Technically it's an image.
>Submitting false reports or otherwise abusing the report system will result in a ban of indeterminate length. Replying to a thread stating that you've reported it or another post is also disallowed—please do not announce your reports.
I did not say the magic words.

>>9945708
I said fuck off.

>> No.9945708,2 [INTERNAL] 

>>9945708,1
>Technically
Yeah man, you sure found a loophole. I totally bet the mods would give a shit!

>> No.9945708,3 [INTERNAL] 

>>9945708,2

I don't give a shit either. It's called reset router.

>> No.9945708,4 [INTERNAL] 

>>9945708,3
That's a very hypocritical attitude as an enforcer of the rulez.

>> No.9945708,5 [INTERNAL] 

>>9945708,4
arigatougozaimasu >////<

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