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Why are the majority of NEETs always supported by their mothers as opposed to their fathers? Do mothers love their children more? Or are NEETs on average children of single mothers?

>> No.9144318

I like my father more and he supports me more than my mother who dislikes me.

>> No.9144320

Women are weaker and less likely to provide their children with the discipline and tough love that male children and manchildren need. A man strong enough to convince a woman that he's worthy enough to have her bear his children is strong enough to know that there comes a time that you have to kick the birds out of the nest if they're ever going to fly.

>> No.9144337

My mom's emotionally unstable and my dad's powerless to stand up to her. I moved out when she was threatening to throw me out because I found relatives willing to put up with me.

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>> No.9148336

It doesn't surprise me NEETs are mommy's boys.

>> No.9148337

A male is biologically more probable to bear a bigger number of offspring in a life time than a female, thus making a woman give more importance to a son than the father.

>> No.9148348

Because half of all marriages end in divorce and most divorces result in the kids going with the mom. So it makes sense that the mom rather than the dad would continue taking care of the kids even after the legal requirement isn't there anymore.

>> No.9148353

I never met my father and my mother isn't even sure who he is.

>> No.9148354

>>9144305
Because unlike in Jewmerica, parents in other countries actually care about their children.

>> No.9148362

I've never met my dad but my mom is pretty sure he's this guy so I looked his name up online.

He has almost 0 internet presence but I still found his extensive criminal history and the address to his singlewide trailer.

I'm better off just living off mom I guess.

>> No.9148366

>>9148353

Thats so sad ;_;

>> No.9148370

>>9144305

Because my mommy loves me very much, and my dad is just a neurotic douchebag.

>> No.9148371

>>9148354
>parents in other countries actually care about their children
So them letting you neet it up in their residence forever means they love you more? Nice socialist logic, bro.

>> No.9148377

Its because my mom is an alien. I don't know how she can put up with my worthlessness and work till 9pm

>> No.9148381

>>9148377
Which planet is she from?

>> No.9148383

>>9148381
I'm gonna guess Mercury.

>> No.9148382

my mom has actually said "you can live with us forever"

>> No.9148385

>>9148381

Deep underground from Nibiru

>> No.9148386

>>9148371
No, but not throwing you out to the wolves the SECOND you turn 18 does mean that they care about you.

>> No.9148387

I'm only allowed to stay with my parents as long as I go to school/work. Even then I have an "out by 25 rule".

>> No.9148393

>>9144305
because only mommy is willing to clean up when i truNEET in my pants xd

>> No.9148390

>>9148382
This. My parents are actually happy I'm still at home. They wish I'd at least earn money though.

>> No.9148399

Mothers, and women in general, are more emotionally controlled, so they make illogical decisions such as supporting NEETs.

>> No.9148407

>>9148390
yeah, i help keep them company (they both work almost opposite hours so they rarely see each other except on weekends), help cook dinner, do chores and errands, etc. i guess i'm a live-in maid minus the dress.

>> No.9148405

I overhear my mom's boyfriend trying to get rid of me. Dude kept trying to get me to join the navy for a while there now he tells me to go get a minimum wage job and find a roommate (as if living with a stranger is a viable option for your typical truNEET).

I'm thinking about killing him in his sleep

>> No.9148411

>>9148390
Where you from?

>> No.9148418

>>9148405
Do it. You might be able to get away with it because NEETs are invariably unstable mentally.

>> No.9148422

>>9148411
I don't see how that matters. Netherlands

>>9148407
I should really do more at home.

>> No.9148424

NEET is genetic, your father is a NEET at heart also. He is incapable of nurturing or supporting anyone or anything.

>> No.9148429

>>9148424
Makes sense since my dad has been unemployed and leeching off his second wife for years.

>> No.9148435

>>9148422
I say that because I figure you'd be from those countries where parents don't mind their kids living with them aslong as they make a buck.

>> No.9148443

>>9148422
Really, is there a reason for the spoilers?

>> No.9148441

>>9148424
>NEET is genetic, your father is a NEET at heart also.
If it's genetic, then it would be your mom who was a NEET at heart since all you get from your father is the Y chromosome if you're male.

>> No.9148451

>>9148443
I'm being considerate, people might not want to know where I'm from.

>> No.9148452

>>9148443
I'm using spoilers and there's nothing you can do about it.

>> No.9148460

Single mother

>> No.9148472

>>9148452
What are the spoilers for?

>> No.9148484

>>9148472
For bothering you.

>> No.9150227
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I'm a female NEET. My father is the only person who supports me. My mother's favorite children are my brothers and she treated me like shit when i was growing up. Maybe OP is on to something. On the other hand, my brothers are all complete normalfags who don't even play vidya. So who knows what the fuck that means.

>> No.9150239

>>9148354
GET A LOAD OF THIS WEEABOO LOL

>> No.9150261

>>9148382
Mine too. I don't want to, though.

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>>9150227
Same thing here, my mom only seemed to care about my two brothers whereas my dad favored me. I got stuck with my mom when they got divorced and it was fucking horrible, and I was the ignored middle child on top of it,, but my dad somehow managed to transfer custody of me to him. I guess he found the one judge that doesn't always side with the mother.

It's a shame my dad is poor as shit, though. He can't really support me financially but he's pretty much the only person I talk to.

>> No.9150284

>>9150266
Oh, so you're a cunt. That explains why you never say anything intelligent!

>> No.9150292 [DELETED] 

>>9150284
Wow.

I have feelings, you know.

>> No.9150296

>>9148422
Same situation, same country. I do pay for my share of the living costs with spare welfare bucks though, not something my mother specifically asked for but I felt it was the right thing to do.

>> No.9150298
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My dad doesn't really care what I do.
He had 4 kids with my mom, 2 kids with a Korean lady, 1 more with a Philippine and I think he's having another with someone else.

I just live with my mom, she doesn't care what I do either as long as I go to church with her and my younger siblings on Sundays. She's glad that I didn't end up a slut drunk like my older sister. I was really under the weather for a few years living in her shadow until all that bad information about her surfaced.

I'm still a loser and my future is uncertain though, I don't know what I'm going to do. But even if i cry, I wipe those tears away and look forward to the next day, no further than that.

>> No.9150315

>>9150227
Strive for attention? Was this really necessary to say you're female? You want people to hate you or what? I will never understand that.

>> No.9150321

>>9150315
It's relevant to the story. Duh.

No, that's not me.

>> No.9150326

florida slut girl anon, you're really gross.

I know you're the op, and also the person saying you're a girl in this thread.

>> No.9150327

>Why are the majority of NEETs always supported by their mothers as opposed to their fathers?
Is this the standard? My mother cycles between denial and repulsion. My father is just disappointed. I'm not even really a NEET, just a university student, and on track to actually get a BS.

>> No.9150340

>>9150315
what is this post referring to? stating that she was female was redundant anyway because we are all girls here on /jp/

>> No.9150342

What the fuck? Sluts on my /jp/?
Get the fuck out you fucking scum and go sucking penises or something.

No pure girl exists in this world, and especially not on /jp/.
If they do exist I'm going to kill myself on monday. You have my word.

>> No.9150350 [DELETED] 

>>9150340
The post that Bad Apple-chan made and that you responded to.

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>>9150326
OP is using my image, which infuriates me greatly, but it's not me. I only have 3 posts in this thread including this one.

>> No.9150355

>>9150342
The girl using the OP picture all the time is the same one that made a thread a few months back (around christmas time), asking for anyone to come to her north Florida home to fuck her.

>> No.9150359

>>9150342
normalfag plz go

>> No.9150362

I moved out of my Dad's house when I was 22.
He didn't give a shit, he even said "If it was just me, you could stay here as long as you wanted."
Problem was, it wasn't just him. He remarried.
My stepmother wanted me out essentially because she wanted to turn my room into a guest room. It rustles my jimmies pretty badly when I go over there and my old room is in really shitty shape.
Stupid cunt HAD to have a guest room (like they ever have any guests), she could at least put keep it nice (Dad's house has gotten so much messier with her there. Hell, I kept the place more or less clean and organized.)

>> No.9150365

I once talked to a neet girl on that omegle thing

Then "she" admitted to being a tranny. I guess it meant something when his problems involved "nobody will hug me I want to die" and mine involved "I sure hope I can afford food next week."

>> No.9150367

>>9150359
Calling me a normalfag for being a fundamental member of the underground society of misogynists of /jp/?
I should be the one calling you a normalfag, normalfag.

>> No.9150380

>>9150362
Get a load of this guy
Naming himself after the bigshot character of the season, talking about "rustling jimmies."

Best keep moving, kid. You're going to get hurt if you hang around here much longer.

>> No.9150431

>>9150351
Stop being so autistic about who uses whose images

http://wakaba.c3.cx/shii/

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>>9150431
No.

They're my images and they're also my identity, I can't have people stealing them and impersonating me. A perfect example of this is the guy who thought I was OP.

>> No.9150459

>>9150445
I'll be on business to Florida this November if you're interested in a dicking.

Mark it on your calendar, honey.

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>>9150445

Welp, I suppose I shouldn't be getting so upset seeing that you're a female and can't process basic functions

>> No.9150485 [DELETED] 

>>9150459
You missed your only chance along with the nerd who never showed up. Deal with it.

>>9150461
And you can't process basic functions like irony or sarcasm so I guess we're even.

>> No.9150509

>>9150485
You'll still be a girl no matter what~

Actually, let's divert this thread. How does a female justify being a NEET or a shut-in? No matter how ugly, overweight, or useless one is, there is always a guy ready to leap on her, give her food and shelter, and alleviate her of any need to work.

This is a legitimate question.

>> No.9150517

>>9150509
sex

>> No.9150525 [DELETED] 

>>9150509
I'm a hikki not a NEET. Get it right,

>> No.9150529

>>9150509

Can't speak for everyone but I'm a lesbian. Good luck finding a girl that's willing to put up with someone that just wants to be a neet housewife.

No. Really. Good luck. ;_;7

>> No.9150536 [DELETED] 

>>9150509
My severe social anxiety justifies it. They can't take care of me if they don't know I exist or if I don't interact with them.

>> No.9150541

>>9150529
I actually saw a craigslist ad for this. Some guy wanted a live in nanny to take care of his kids during the day and you can live with them for free.

>> No.9150564
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neither of my parents strongly oppose my lifestyle, i mean, they constantly ask when i will get a job, and worry about my future and whatnot, but it is more or less a peaceful coexistence. i live in the house, but my life is separate, and they do not mind my hobbies (perhaps because they are unaware of my taste).

>> No.9150584

>>9150564

Your parents aren't dumb (unless they are).

They probably know it already if they know you that long, even if they won't know what it's called.

>> No.9152136

>>9150327
I'm a uni student too and my mom has always been the one that spoils me. My dad initially wanted me to toughen up and do the whole jock routine but mellowed out given my medical problems and an accident I was in. I want to move out and get my own place afterwards but they don't want to leave me alone. It's either live with them or they'll hire someone to look after me and no doubt check in frequently.

>> No.9152209

been truneet for a week and I'm also starting to notice this.

>> No.9152216

My mom is so nice to me, I don't really know why but she just says that she will do everything she can to make me happy, she is beautiful, I really love her. She is the only women I could ever love.

I wish I had known her as a man and not as a son.

>> No.9152221

Eh? When I was a NEET for 3 years I was supported by my FATHER. My mother wanted nothing to do with me.

>> No.9152220

>>9152216
If you weren't her son she wouldn't give you a second thought.

>> No.9152224

Currently living with and being supported by my brother, but I'm still looking for work, it's not easy.

>> No.9152237

>>9152220
I asked her once and she said that she liked me because of I am a great company for her and that she doesn't just love me because I'm her son but I guess you could be right.

>> No.9152261

>>9152237
So you gonna kill your dad and marry her or what Oedipus?

>> No.9152279

>>9152261
No, that's not possible.

>I wish I had known her as a man and not as a son.

>> No.9152293

I'm supported by the United States government, not my mother or father.

>> No.9152362

>>9148441

You're retarded.
I don't care if I'm 17 hours too late.

>> No.9152588

>>9144305
i'm supposedly supported by both my parents. my father has no power in the family though, my mother rules over everything like some fucking king. i have no clue what he thinks about me, i don't even talk to him because i don't need to.

i need to mention i keep trying to get out of my NEETdom and i just keep failing. she was never accepting of me being a hikki and i'd say she does what she can to drag me out of my room without actually throwing me out. (which wouldn't work anyway, it's complicated)


>>9148441
eh my mother is actually pretty much a NEET. she has no problem going out, but she doesn't for some reason.


>>9150365
if she was a tranny it's 'she'. get over it.
also 'tranny' is pretty much an offensive word fyi.

>> No.9152678

>>9152588
It's not she.

She has a vagina.
He has a penis.

>> No.9152702

>>9152588
>also 'tranny' is pretty much an offensive word fyi.
who cares

>> No.9152777

>>9152702
Fuck off cisscum !

>> No.9154195

Well, daddy issues and being mommy's boys would give more weight as to how many NEETs fell for the moe phenomenon so easily.

>> No.9154220

>>9150509
>a female justify being a NEET or a shut-in
Being a NEET can't be easily justified, male or female. The few things that can justify being a NEET possibly: shitty economy, unemployment, etc..

>there is always a guy ready to leap on her, give her food and shelter, and alleviate her of any need to work.
My little anon can't be this stupid~
That would still be NEET, anyways, but how are you so sure that just any guy would leap on an ugly, overweight, useless female. Granted there are some really desperate guys out there, unless this NEET was willing to really prostitute herself, none of that is going to happen. Even in those conditions, the hypothetical guy is more likely to look harder for one who isn't as ugly.

Let's get those double standards and misconceptions out of the way - if you're a NEET, male or female, you won't have any magical Misaki come up to your door and make your life better.

>> No.9154220,1 [INTERNAL] 

It's over.

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