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8773477 No.8773477 [Reply] [Original]

Has any /jp/er ever been asked out by a cute, intelligent woman who knows you are painfully shy?

This just happened to me out of the blue today and I'm quite flustered /jp/. What do I do?

>> No.8773481 [DELETED] 
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8773481

say yes and live normal life away from /jp/
say no and stay on /jp/
?

>> No.8773485

>>8773477
What did you reply? "Wait a second, gonna post on /jp/ to get help?"

>> No.8773489 [DELETED] 

Yes, but she was also batshit insane and proceeded to stalk me after I denied her. After I blocked her on Facebook, she came into my work and burst into tears and started screaming. She also talked about killing herself after I told her ``just fuck off already". I thought it'd be nice because stalking looks good in VNs and she did want to have sex with me (she asked me to come to her car and fuck her when we were on good terms ... i denied it) but it became a big headache

That's how you know a crazy girl. She screams and cries all the time.

>> No.8773490

I've been goaded into asking them out by repetitive suggestion and constant prodding, but no, not in the way I can imagine you experienced. how incredibly beta of you OP, but I respect your choices as I guess you share the same opinions of most jaypee

3DPD

>> No.8773496

>>8773477
I wish for this to happen to me one day.
I'd act all tsundere of course, but if she was meant to be, she'd know I'd love every moment of it

>> No.8773502

Say yes. What have you got to lose?

>> No.8773503 [DELETED] 

Yes, but she was also batshit insane and proceeded to stalk me after I denied her. After I blocked her on Facebook, she came into my work and burst into tears and started screaming. She also talked about killing herself after I told her ``just fuck off already". I thought it'd be nice because stalking looks good in VNs and she did want to have sex with me (she asked me to come to her car and fuck her when we were on good terms ... i denied it) but it became a big headache

That's how you know a crazy girl. She screams and cries all the time.

>> No.8773507

>>8773502

This. Even if it's a joke, it's not like you can't deal with that. If she's for real, it's a big chance.

Also, no.

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>>8773503
and again reported

>> No.8773512 [DELETED] 

>>8773509
But my post's not breaking any rules--unlike your post.

>> No.8773521

>>8773503
It's `` and '', not `` and ".
Why are you still doing it wrong? It's okay to be wrong and learn from your mistakes.

And no, LaTeX didn't invent ``faggot quotes'' (and ``this" wouldn't even be valid plainTeX).

>> No.8773531

>Has any /jp/er ever been asked out by a cute, intelligent woman who knows you are painfully shy?
Thankfully no, that would be awkward.

>> No.8773549

Thanks for all your support fellow /jp/sies. You are all actually fairly kind people deep down.

>> No.8773555

>>8773477
Yes, she is cuter, smarter and even more shy than me.

But, 3DPD, and I'm afraid.

It's been 2 years since I met her.

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8773568

Disregard OP, post Koakuma.

>> No.8773575

>>8773568
This picture fills me with the sadness of a thousand 9/11s.

>> No.8773576

I'm sorry about this, OP.

This cute, intelligent woman is more interested with the idea of your painful shyness than she is with you. Once she's become bored with you she'll crumple you like an empty ramen cup and move on.

>> No.8773585

>>8773576
might as well take advantage while you can :/

>> No.8773593

>>8773576
What if she is the exception of the rule and OP actually has found a soul mate.

No, you are right because 3DPD

>> No.8773598

She's probably just making fun of you, it's best to play it safe in this situation

>> No.8773600

>>8773576
Speaking from experience she chose OP because crippling shyness is usually a good indicator of someone exclusively interested in long-term relationships. I only date shy men and I've never had a relationship that lasted less than six months.

>> No.8773603

>>8773593
>soul mate
Please outgrow this concept, society. I am a very open minded person who wants James Randi to die, but people literally believe there is one single person out of the billions in the world that they're supposed to be with because of destiny or whatever, and it makes me very sad.

Either all these people are getting impossibly lucky or they're "settling", both of which are SHIT.

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>>8773603

Stop being so jaded and cynical and take it easy anonymous~.

>> No.8773619

>>8773477
Yes, problem is they mistake my intentional unsociability for painful shyness. I'm not talking to you for a reason, don't talk to me.

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>>8773616
I think I just unironically, non-teen-angstily hate the world and all the people in it, /jp/.

>> No.8773630

Enjoy dating an aggressive person

>> No.8773637

>>8773502
>Say yes. What have you got to lose?
wizard powers?

>> No.8773640
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This is my greatest fear. Good thing those years are behind me. Wizardry here I come.

>> No.8773647

>>8773600
If this is the case she's seeking you out because she's clingy, insecure and even more neurotic than you are. If you think this might be the case avoid her like the plague.

>> No.8773652

>>8773647
no way! no way! It'd be a cool experience!

>> No.8773654

A few times, yeah. It's... pretty awkward. But oh well.

>> No.8773657

>>8773640
This picture is my fetish.

>> No.8773662

>>8773647

But we could be partners in suffering and become strong together ;_;.

>> No.8773663

Don't come back crying though, we've warned you about the 3DPD
But I hope for you that she is different from the others and a really nice person you can love

>> No.8773665

>>8773654
What the hell... a few times? I would be happy if this happened once

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>>8773647
Speaking from experience again, this is also true. I hope you like yandere, OP.

>> No.8773668

Pretentious normalfaggotry /adv/, /soc/ bullshit

You do realize that 3D women are utterly disgusting and filthy right, OP? And will probably leave you within the month.

>> No.8773671

>>8773576
This, OP.

Had a pretty similar situation happen recently. Girl I had known for 2 years approaches me wanting a relationship, felt great. 5 months later, she pretty much got bored with me and ended it.

The worst part of it is that she told me "I did nothing wrong", which is either bullshit or a painful indicator of how she really didn't appreciate me.

Feel free to go for it, but don't invest your soul in a 3DPD, ever. Everything comes to an end, etc

>> No.8773675

>>8773665
My high school experience was pretty weird, I think, overall.

>> No.8773677

How can you complain of a woman getting bored with you when you change waifus more often than the seasons?

>> No.8773679

>>8773677
>>>/a/

>> No.8773678

>>8773677
Everyone is mai waifu.

>> No.8773680

>>8773675
Please go into detail

>> No.8773681

>>8773677
because men are slimy hypocrites!!!!
am i right, gurlz~? <3

>> No.8773684

>>8773600
How are those long term relationshipS going for you, slut? This is the kind of person you'd be dealing with, OP. You are not special to her. If you are special to her, she's just one of the crazy ones. Assertive women are a good thing less often that any woman is a good thing, which is obviously to say never.

>> No.8773686

>>8773680
I don't think he wants you masturbating to his tales of high school romance.

>> No.8773689

>>8773686
Well, I was gonna say more along the lines of I don't think /jp/ would be very interested in my misadventures in that area, but that works too.

>> No.8773695

Nope, because I'm probably too ugly. Being beta and ugly is the miracle recipe to stay virgin for your whole life. At least I'll be a wizard in 7 years.

>> No.8773700

>>8773689
I was actually interested, but have it your way. It's not like I'm anyone important anyway

>> No.8773707

>>8773684
Well, I've only dated two men. One guy broke up with me after six months because he decided to go into the navy after failing out of school and becoming NEET, and after having several sour experiences with long-distance relationships decided he didn't want to deal with another one. I've been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for three years, though. We are moving in together soon.

>> No.8773717

>>8773503
Filtered.

>> No.8773724

>>8773684

[X]Knights of the Told Republic.

>>8773707

Glad to hear that you have found someone whom you love.

>> No.8773752

>>8773700
Aw, if you're gonna be like that...

Well, the first time was this girl I barely knew, and she was kinda eh. It was actually relayed to me by a friend of hers, and even though I tried to say no somehow she misinterpreted and thought I said "sure". Compounded with the fact that apparently she had a reputation in the school for being a little loose, it was rather incredibly awkward for the next few days.

Second time was with this really short (like, 4 foot something short) black girl who I didn't know at all. I kept saying I wasn't really interested but she kept asking for my phone number and whatnot. I guess she got the idea after a few days.

Third time (and, I suppose, the only one which actually qualifies as a cute, intelligent girl) I actually didn't realize at the time, since she just said she wanted to go running with me. We kept doing stuff, but it was super duper awkward since we never exactly made anything official and I am absolutely incompetent at knowing what to do in pretty much any situation like that. It lasted for a while but we didn't do very much over the course of it.
Oh well.

>> No.8773772

>>8773707
>I've been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for three years
And I'll bet you've already fucked.

Whore.

>> No.8773792

>>8773752
Thanks for your time,
I just wanted to know how things like this happens... and you seemed to have experience.

>> No.8774055

>>8773629
let's be pals, dude.

are you a NEET? I've long wanted to speak to a true NEET.

>> No.8776188

>>8774055
No, sorry.

>> No.8777414

I don't really leave my house much, and random guys don't ask me out, thankfully. If a guy ever asked me out I would feel really bad, because I'd say no to spare him from all my terrible problems and trust issues and stuff, but he'd never know that. ;_;

>> No.8777465

>>8773477

I really hope you said yes OP. I would give everything to be in your shoes right now. Assuming that she's not 300 lbs and is remotely attractive. Not asking for much.

>> No.8777478

>intelligent woman
I wonder if such thing even exists.

>> No.8777484

Good luck, OP. It could be a defining moment for you.

I got asked out by a cute girl in high school but I was so beta on our first date she lost interest. So much regret...

>> No.8777517

there are women in /jp/?

>> No.8777546

>This cute, intelligent woman is more interested with the idea of your painful shyness than she is with you. Once she's become bored with you she'll [EDIT] simply move on [/EDIT]
I'll warn OP about this.
I've experienced it several times, even though the 1st month are wonderful, in the end they'll just move on.
Why? Well just try and you'll see, maybe you'll be lucky (though I don't think so if we're talking about < 20y ~ 25y girls, they usually just get bored with "shy men", trust me)

But still, don't forget that she's a real 3D woman, nowhere as perfect as a 2D waifu.

>> No.8777563

WHY IS THIS THREAD STILL HERE FUCK

>> No.8777589

>>8777563
Because it's the kind of thing Internet users (in general) care about. There are certain things you could post on any sort of board, and no matter how off-topic they are people will discuss and debate and flame and cry. For example abortion is something a lot of people feel strongly about. I could make an abortion thread on /jp/, and provided I choose my words carefully (and the janitor doesn't delete it), it would easily get at least 50 replies.
This isn't /jp/ or even OP's fault, but "geeky" human beings needing to blog or have the last word, combined with everyone's inability to ignore trolls and things they know they're supposed to ignore.

>> No.8777596

I want to go out with a fat female /jp/er twice my age.

>> No.8777599

strong, black woman who don't need no man

>> No.8777602

the problem is that all you nerds see 3D women as something comparable to 2D. They're not, you know they're not.

But if you're not a dumbass you know they aren't the monsters some /jp/ posters make them to be. If you're interested in anything to do with her, just think of her as a friend that can help you make feel good without you feeling gay. There's no need to be super serious about women, specially on your age. They're imperfect and you'll have imperfect relationships, just enjoy what you can if you even want it. Just take things easier, anon. Girls can be nice friends, but also they'll never be perfect or give you a perfect relationship like you usually idealize.

>> No.8777678

fuck you OP at least girls notice you

>>seclusion. rwsing

>> No.8778097

>>8773477
It happened twice. I respectfully refused their advances. Turns out that was for the best because it turned out that, besides cute and intelligent, they were also insane. Not in the good way, though.

>> No.8778149

>>8777596
they don't exist

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>>8777589

>I could make an abortion thread on /jp/, and provided I choose my words carefully (and the janitor doesn't delete it), it would easily get at least 50 replies.

Just append "Who is your favorite 2hu" at the first line and post normally.

>> No.8778182

You'll regret it, OP.
I hope you'll suffer a lot and kill yourself afterwards.

>> No.8778201

Never. It's for the best, really.

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