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7028189 No.7028189 [Reply] [Original]

Do any of you need help healing your hikkimori ways?

>> No.7028195

Reported for /a/.

>> No.7028194

I read the novel and I hate it. The creator made the whole book just to have a huge baw fest over his life.

>> No.7028201

I'm sure those f/a/gs would this kind of threads.

>>>

>> No.7028216

>>7028195
>>7028201

Come now. I'm sure being a shutin is more related to /jp/ than any other board. /a/ is full of normals.

>> No.7028218

Reported.

>> No.7028257

This is ridiculous. Isn't being a shutin part of Otaku culture? I merely posted an image of a certain anime and all of a sudden I'm bombarded with butthurt assumptions. Calm down.

>> No.7028265

>>7028257
You're free to leave anytime soon.

>> No.7028271

>>7028257
I've never been more mad in my life, reported.

>> No.7028274

>>7028216
being a shutin might be /jp/ related, but roleplaying people out of it isn't. Why would /jp/ want to be outside with all the normals and horrors of reality?

>> No.7028278

>>7028257
SOOOOOOO MAAAAAAAAD. I'M TELLING THE JANITORS/MODS.

REPORTED.

>> No.7028282

Please don't let this be your first impression of /jp/. You just happened to arrive at the time at night where it's mostly inhabited by bored night shift people.

>> No.7028283

bump

>> No.7028288

>>7028282
And who are you exactly to be representing /jp/.

>> No.7028297

>>7028282
Don't let this guy fool you OP, /jp/ is easily the worst board on 4chan so you shouldn't bother with it and just go back to /a/ or something.

>> No.7028307

>>7028274

>roleplaying

I posted this image because it directly relates to the topic. In no way am I roleplaying.

>>7028278

What's with you? By informing people that you've reported them you're actually just helping to bump the thread. Just report it without replying. All I get from you is "I WANT ATTENTION". "EVERYONE LOOK AT ME AND REMEMBER ME AS THE TRIPFAG WHO REPORTS POSTS".

>> No.7028317

>>7028307
>telling White Ren-sama what to do

Reported

>> No.7028327

>>7028307
WHAAAAAAA YOU'RE SO MEAN. THAT'S IT I'M TELLING MY MOM TOO. YOU JUST WAIT.

Reported.

>> No.7028328

>>7028317

You tell him!

>> No.7028331

>>7028317
I don't say this lightly but go fag up the outside world you big hairy MAN.

>> No.7028333

>>7028317
>>7028327
>>7028328
Reported, all of you, including OP.

>> No.7028337

You're all rep­orted.

>> No.7028335

>>7028317

Oh I get it now. Lame sense of humor though. You should probably be paying close attention to this thread.

>> No.7028334

>>7028307
Reported for not knowing White Ren.

>> No.7028336

>>7028307
Jesus christ stop being so buttangered because a bunch of random people on the internet were mean to you, either you contribute to your thread or shut the fuck up.
And posting a picture referencing one of the reasons people think being a neet is cool or something in the op wasn't a very smart move.

>> No.7028341

Late night /jp/ is the best kind of /jp/. I don't care what anyone else thinks. You're pissing on each other, and my god it is amusing.

>> No.7028342

>>7028337
NO U!

>> No.7028343

I like minecraft

>> No.7028344

White Ren is the most amusing tripfag on /jp/

>> No.7028352

>>7028344
I miss the old one.

>> No.7028351

>>7028336

I'm not angry. I'm still willing to help hikkimoris to escape this dreaded lifestyle and achieve a healthy balance of fantasy and reality. All I'm looking for are some questions from people who actually want to help themselves.

>> No.7028349

>>7028334
Reporting myself for using the wrong tripcode.

>> No.7028347

>>7028343
Me too, I wish the /jp/ server was still around.

>> No.7028356

/jp/ - Blog Culture

>> No.7028365

>>7028349
Reported for incapability to comprehend irony.

>> No.7028366

>>7028351
Oh so you were just a troll, there I was thinking you were actually trying to start a legit Neet/Hikki circlejerk thread despite being a bit misinformed.
Quite a dissapointment if I may say so.

>> No.7028368

Today I baked some cookies. My sister was sitting at the kitchen table looking bored, making up dialogues for the toys she was playing with. Every now and then she'd look over at me without saying anything, so I felt a big awkward. To break the silence I offered her some of the cookies when they came out of the oven. She seemed very happy and came running over to the oven while telling me that she loved cookies, then asked me if I liked cooking. It seemed to put her in a good mood because she knocked on my door later with a mouth full of refried beans in an attempt to gross me out.

I was beginning to think she disliked me, with the not talking to me or knocking on my door anymore. It was nice to see her act like herself again. I don't want her to stop being like that. I know she'll grow up and eventually think I'm creepy or a loser and leave me alone. She's the only one in my family I interact with.

>> No.7028369

>escape this dreaded lifestyle and achieve a healthy balance of fantasy and reality

Reported.

>> No.7028372

>>7028351
>I'm still willing to help hikkimoris to escape this dreaded lifestyle and achieve a healthy balance of fantasy and reality.
Nobody needs your help. Also, at least spell 'hikikomori' right.

>> No.7028374

>>7028351
Next time google pig find a random image then start a thread with "Who NEET here?".

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>>7028374

You NEET here?

>> No.7028409

>>7028366
>>7028369

See that's where you're wrong. Instantly dismissing me as a troll is a very /b/ thing to do. The reason I say it's dreaded is because I know that deep down alot of you are filled with constant uneasiness and uncertainty about living this way. You can say things like "3DPD" "I live my life regardless of what society thinks" and "My waifu will never leave me" all of those things. I've heard them all before. But at the end of the day you aren't happy deep down. You're body is letting you know somethings up and you've gotta do something about it.

Living this type of lifestyle leads you to start developing depersonalisation, which is a feeling of being disconnected from reality. This feeds anxiety and in turn starts to spiral into depression. Then there is the fear of losing ones mind, rest assured you aren't going crazy. But..it really is unhealthy to continue living this way.

I have tools and methods to help you out of this. I was like this myself. So ask me some questions I'll be glad to help.

>> No.7028420

>>7028409
Trolls don't have to be lying to be trolling; they can be very honest about themselves. The people who think we are a bunch of weeaboo retards who secretly obsess about being Japanese all day and tell us we should get out and go fuck some girls probably genuinely do believe that their advice is helpful.

Conversely, we don't give a shit about what they have to say.

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>>7028374

>> No.7028427

>>7028368

I'm not sure if this is copypasta or legit.

>> No.7028435

>>7028409
Who gives a shit reported

>> No.7028449

>>7028409
Why are you trying so hard, even go to such length as to bump this thread.

>Instantly dismissing me as a troll is a very /b/ thing to do
Lies and slanders. Keep on denying, we all know you're trolling.

I'll rephrase it again, take your good intent to >>/a/. Those people love this stuff, even though most of them, like you said, are "normals'.

Reported.

>> No.7028461

>>7028420

Going out and "getting laid" is something I'm not going to tell you to do. Doing something like that won't heal your hikkimori ways either. You do need exposure to reality but something like that is empty if done under the wrong circumstances.

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7028467

You will never meet a Misaki-chan.jpg

feels bad man. (op is probably a hairy guy)

>> No.7028471

>>7028467
You will never not shitpost on /jp/.png

feels bad man.

>> No.7028474 [DELETED] 

>>7028467
Feels good, Misaki was a gargantuan bitch.

>> No.7028481

>>7028467
>>>/r9k/

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>>7028409

>> No.7028488

>>7028467
>>7028471

CHI-GAO!

Stop making these negative assumptions! For this thread to work you've got to maintain an open mind and have a reasonably positive attitude.

>> No.7028510

>>7028409
fuck it, i'll ask this guy some questions.

I've been feeling a lot lately i should try to achieve some better balance between my indoor / outdoor time.

How do i stop that sick crush feeling in my gut whenever i go outside that only get worse as soon as somebody looks at me, and god forbid im walking towards a girl, attractive or not; i turn into a fucking mess.

>> No.7028512

>>7028427
It happened today. I didn't feel like making a thread for something like that so I figured I'd post it somewhere it would be deleted in a few hours.

>> No.7028514

>>7028488
Cool story, Kurasu Iinchou.

>> No.7028517

ITT, your reaction knowing that it was the janitor who made this thread, hence why it is still here.

>> No.7028523

>>7028517
I was thinking the same thing when I saw his daily sweep on /jp/ and this thread hasn't 404d.

>> No.7028535

>>7028351
>I'm not angry. I'm still willing to help hikkimoris to escape this dreaded lifestyle and achieve a healthy balance of fantasy and reality. All I'm looking for are some questions from people who actually want to help themselves.

And you claimed you weren't roleplaying.

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>>7028510

That's anxiety and it takes a while to get rid of that. First thing that you need to do is rewire the way you think about things.

For example, lets take that bad thought you're having. Thoughts require negative or positive energy for them to float to the surface of your concious mind. Without emotional investment, thoughts become fragile like thin glass that can easily shatter in the wind. Emotions are what make a thought solid. So for those thoughts that are bothering you, use visuialisation techniques. Imagine those bad thoughts as as stainless glass, at the moment they are full of colour. And slowly drain that colour (emotion) until they become colourless, the glass might be thinner now. And imagine it slowly crumbiling away (the worry).

Use this technique as often as you can during situations that make you feel anxious.

This isn't going to work straight away, however over time it will work, at first it's going to take a lot of concious self monitoring, but it gets better over time, and then you don't even have to think about it anymore.

Remember that everyone has problems and don't hate others. Because this world has made them the way they are. Be understanding of that. People are just people. They put up these broken masks but underneath the majority of them are sad faces.

Start with some exposure. Go for a run, or simply walk to the dairy to get something to eat. Take small steps.

>> No.7028584

I liked it better when OP was Welcome to the Imageboard !tripcode

>> No.7028609

Some other stuff:

People are always trying to escape from reality. The most common form is drugs. Don't start doing these! First things first, reading about it over the net, especially 4chan can lead you into a false sense of security. Drugs do affect the way your brain functions, so it's best to avoid these if at all possible!

Don't be disheartened on what people think of you. Because you have the upper hand. Everyone around you leads a life full of distraction. We're actually the lucky ones because we have all the time in the world to contemplate existence and other things that are important to the development of our minds.

Don't give up. This is important. I find the saying "feel the fear and do it anyway' to be great. If you spend too much time procrastinating nothing gets done and it ends up discouraging you in the end. So think about something and then do it.

>> No.7028658

why do I always want to fart at bad moments, like outside in public
i hold it in and then my belly makes a strange sound that anyone can hear

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7028659

Time to post this classical portrayal of /jp/.

>> No.7028667

i became a hikikomori years ago because i couldn't endure people looking at me anymore

by that time i was still in evening school every day
i didn't really give a shit about anything until i met a girl from another evening school on a school trip
we were much alike and talked for hours
she wanted to see me again on some one-week school trip i didn't want to attend before
i agreed

after that i became more and more obsessed with my looks
i eventually sanded and cut out beauty spots from my arms and face successfully
and i would cut open my chin again and again from below every few weeks
that was to remove small grubs and worked somewhat but left a visible scar

after that i did meet the girl i met
it was very enjoyable being with her even though i couldn't really let go and was constantly under the pressure feeling like some kind of ugly monster
so when she asked me if i could image a relationship with her i told her "no" even though i loved her
that was pretty much the end of the trip

after the trip i still thought she would write me again (of course she didn't)
i eventually became more and more depressed and started operating my chin again and again until all grubs were finally gone
but now i had a bigger scar beneath that everyone could see
so i barely managed to finish school and instantly broke up contact with everyone becoming a hikikomori

the scar i had eventually removed
i had a maxillary expansion and got braces
in a few months my jaw will be cut into pieces and my nose will get fixed in a single surgery

after that i'll hopefully feel good about how i look again and stop being hardcore-hikikomori

i would have needed someone over these years and i'd still need someone now
but i know in reality no one could really love me until i accept myself first
so there seems to be nothing else i can do right now except wait and work on how i look

>you-are-now-aware-of-your-loneliness.jpg

>> No.7028673

>>7028667
>grubs

what, you had bugs living under your skin?

wtf

>> No.7028680

>Do any of you need help healing your hikkimori ways?
I won't fall for that one again.

>> No.7028684

>>7028673
uhm no
i mean "grubs" like small dents

>> No.7028685

Heal my dick.

>> No.7028692

Not really, they aren't that bad at the moment. I am not NEET, but my only social contacts are online (I sometimes talk to people I knew years ago in IRC and frequently (more like all the time) chat on a few IRC channels related to imageboards that aren't 4chan, in addition to that I browse some imageboards).

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7028708

I need help applying for Job Seeker's Allowance tomorrow, the easiest benefit to set up and arrange in the UK, the only thing is the people at the job centre are awful and it's really draining having to go there, I'll try to apply tomorrow, I really need the money for a new computer, my one is about to pack up any second now, and I can't miss next season's anime.

>> No.7028725

How would I go about getting professionally diagnosed with a mental illness? Who would I visit? How would I set up an appointment? I mean, following some recent real life situations I've really been questioning myself and everything about myself lately, and I'm pretty sure that I'm not in a right state of mind. The more I think about myself and how I've acted over the past years, the less reluctant I am to accept that there's simply something wrong with me.

>> No.7028754

>>7028725
first you need to find out what you have
then just google a specialized clinic or doctor that can give you the diagnosis

>> No.7028761

>>7028725
I don't know how (probably depends on your country) but you should get a ttime for a psychologist or a psychiatrist. Or well, if it isn't public healthcare, you probably call a psycho and ask for a time and pay for it.

>> No.7028766

>>7028754
I think he should rather think of what might be wrong with himself (not the name or a mental disorder or anything, just the problems itself), then go and describe it to a professional.

>> No.7028786

>>7028766
most doctors nowadays can barely diagnose depression
no help if you're actually mentally ill

>> No.7028990

Yes, I hate being a stuck in my hikki ways.
Even without criticising anyones precious lifestyle here on this board, I can without doubt say that the lack of freedom to move outside of your house, is just that, a limited form of freedom.

And I can't argue that being stuck in a way that imposes on your freedom, is in any way nice.
Then wether or not you want to remain a NEET is a whole other thing.

>> No.7029119

/jp/ is not, and was never, receptive to /a/-level "WHAT IS IT LIKE TO HOLD A WOMAN IN YOUR ARMS SO RONERY ;_;" threads. We are not closet normalfags that secretly long to be accepted by sluts, fratfaggots an d pseudo-intellectual college scum. We are NEETs that have chosen our path of parasitism of our own accord and have no need for 3d people beyond how much we can use and steal from them. If you don't understan d this, then you don't belong here and need to go back to /a/, /b/, /v/, /soc/ or whatever terrible board spawned you.

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