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>I'm not ugly, but I'm quiet and shy
>Damn it, my life would be so much better if only I was sociable
>All of my conversations are either short or end en awkward silences

>> No.6188412

I am quiet too, And I don't like to talk to people, because their conversations aren't smart enough for me to handle.

>> No.6188410

Yeah.

>> No.6188420
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6188420

same for me
so fucking true it hurts

>> No.6188423

I think I'm too attractive, and it puts everyone off.

>> No.6188417

I used to look down on people who said dumb things,
but since everybody else says stupid things all the time to make up conversations I should learn to too.
But it's annoying.

>> No.6188430

If youre actually good looking you can just pass by without saying much, you know.

>> No.6188578

Story of my life

>> No.6188590
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>>6188423

>> No.6188594

Nobody even knows what I look like.

>> No.6188595

That's why you have to watch TV or read newspapers in order to learn some small talk. Sports, books, movies, news, it doesn't matter as long as you can maintain a 10 minute conversation with someone everyday. You don't need to talk about how hard you fapped to the latest C78 loli doujin.

>> No.6188600

>>6188595
This is really hard, especially when you hate most of the popular things from the bottom of your heart.

>> No.6188601

When I'm with strangers I'm very quiet and shy but if I'm with people I like I end up talking too much.
I guess I'm afraid that strangers will make fun of me or hurt my feelings if I talk to them.
If one wants to talk to my "real" self that person would have to earn my trust first.

>> No.6188606

>Damn it, my life would be so much better if only I was sociable

>implying that has any value for any non-idiot

Yeah, I just implied.

>> No.6188609

>>6188595
You can somehow cheat. Just join a group of people and from time to time when it gets a bit silent just say something on the topic. Or small conversation with someoneone who talks from alone without you need to say anything.
Or just have some phrases and stuff ready that gets you over the day.
Standing alone somewhere makes people mad and lets them think you hate all people.
Just follow some rules and guides and you will be mostly okay even if you talk only a bit.

Goal should be to have people like you somehow and mostly leave you alone.

>> No.6188607

>When I post in these kinds of threads, I F5 like mad.
>Hopefully someone responds, then I feel good for about 10 minutes

>> No.6188620

>god damn you people must have assburgers

>you repost some variation on this thread and say the same exact shit in it hundreds of times a day

>> No.6188625
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6188625

>Damn it, my life would be so much better if only I was sociable

You wish that were true.

All of my friends are more sociable than I am.

All of my friends are into troubles most of the time because of this.

It's good to be sociable, but there are limits.

>> No.6188627

>people try to talk to me
>I always reply with maybe, I guess, I don't know, or just nod
>conversation ends

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>>6188625
>All of my friends

>> No.6188644

but I am ugly and full of diagnosed complexes instead of juvenile "baww people suck I must be smarter than them".
you suck at this

>> No.6188645

I haven't had friends since highschool.

The scary part is, I'm starting to not mind.

>> No.6188646

>>6188625
This.

All of my "social" friends just went wrong. Unwanted pregnancies, car accidents, deaths, dropping out of school, etc. The list goes on. Me, the weirdo, was the only one who finished a career, and has no real problems so far. Sure, I have yet to marry, but that is becoming less and less of a problem. I just don't care enough to find a significant other, and I'm not even on my 30s.

>> No.6188655

You guys had shitty friends.
Being social =/= being a retarded jock manwhore.

>> No.6188671

>そして　何ひとつ
>いい事もなく
>死んでしまいました
>おわり

;_;

>> No.6188673

ITT: Obnoxious snobby asshole who think they're too "smart" to hold conversations with normal people. It's not hard. Not every conversation has to be some brain stimulating display of intelligence and debate. Just shoo the shit with people. If some of you got off your high horses and stopped being so uptight then maybe you'd be able to be more social.

>> No.6188680

My only friend is moving away soon. I'm going to feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I won't have to worry about moving figures or anything anymore, and I won't have to worry about being dragged out of the house by him anymore. I can finally take it easy.

>> No.6188686

I am a 20 year old male and I want to become friends with a 12 year old girl. Is this acceptable? Why or why not?

>> No.6188691

>>6188686
i dont see anything wrong with it

>> No.6188702

>>6188686
My parents are 6 years apart, I don't see how 2 more years makes a difference.

>> No.6188746

>>6188686
Not really "acceptable", unless you're related to her in some way.

>> No.6188754

>>6188746
I don't know her. I'd have to find a 12 year old girl to befriend.

>> No.6188760

>>6188673

When all they talk about is what the SUPERSTARS are doing or what happened in the latest TALK SHOWS, then tell me, how can I possibly talk normally to them? Feelings of hatred and disgust dwell up inside of me when someone tries to talk about that shit with me.

>> No.6188766

>>6188673
But "small talk" sucks. I dont want to talk to people without having a somewhat meaningful or interesting conversation.

>> No.6188767

When I interact with people, I switch to autopilot. It feels like I'm watching someone else - I laugh at jokes I don't think are funny, and make pithy or quirky comments depending on which seems more appropriate. No one is going to invite me to any 'awesome' parties (thank goodness) but neither do I make people uncomfortable. During these interactions, I also have to fight the part that wants to start screaming at the top of my lungs, start throwing things or say the most inappropriate thing I can come up with. I never used to be like this, things were simpler when I was just awkward. Sometimes I wonder who I am, but most of the time I just try not to think about it. If I weren't able to do this, then I wouldn't be able to drag myself out the door each day, which I need to do because time passes more quickly that way (spending all day indoors hitting F5 makes time pass at a snail's pace). I wish to fill my time with work so that my life will just hurry up and be over already. While I believe that killing myself would probably be the most efficient way to achieve that end, it would confuse my family and probably cause them some unhappiness. As I am tired and disinterested rather than unhappy, I may as well just continue doing what I'm doing until I snap or die.

>> No.6188768

>>6188760
not everyone is like that

>> No.6188769

>have acne and anxiety
>look good otherwise and confident in my personality
>virgin forever

>> No.6188777

this thread is going according to my expectations

>> No.6188794
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>>6188769
>have anxiety
>confident in my personality

>> No.6188827

Everybody usually thinks I'm a chill guy. I tend to be quiet, but if someone engages me in conversation, I can carry on a good talk without autisming up my words or being anxious and shy. That's not to say I didn't pass through my anxious phase when I was a tiny, spotty teenager. Alcohol helped me a lot. I just act like I'm slightly drunk and people love it.

Another trick is to let the other person talk. Because of my great listening skills, and my tendency to put people at their ease around me, I often end up leading groups and taking care of everybody. People also think I'm deep and edgy and a dangerous Alpha because I stalk around the place quietly all the time.

Sometimes I wonder what those people would think if they knew that the cool person they spoke to was actually a cute little girl when they were at home.

>> No.6188861

>It's pretty cute and have nice body
>Shy but can talk with anyone of nearly every subject
>Doesn't even go scarying people with nerd stuff and nobody would think is the kind of person that actually would visit 4chan
>Never had a fucking boyfriend neither looks like will have one in the next years.

>> No.6188875

The only one time I remember talking to people easily in my life was when I woke up after a surgery and the effect of the anaesthetic faded away a little. Heck, we were talking about some things I didn't know or care about for hours. I wonder what that stuff was they injected me and is there is any chance I can get more of it somewhere.

>> No.6188881

>look decent, rather muscular and only have some damn acne scars left
>have the highest weeaboo powerlevel in my 300,000+ town and very good concealing skills
>confident in most of what I do
>WHY DOES SHE NOT LOVE ME BAWWWWW

>> No.6188895

>>6188875
The only time I ever had conversations with people was while I was on painkillers for two weeks following wisdom tooth surgery

I would like to buy more hydrocodone online, but I'm scared.

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>>6188827

My own clone, I am proud.

>> No.6188913

>>6188906

Also, I'm dreadfully lazy.

>Alright, today I'm going to go out and talk to people!

>but first, internet!

>Hours later:

>Alright, I'm gonna go out!
>But first, food!

>hours later:

>Alright!
>Shit, it's night time and everywhere is closed.
>Oh well
>/jp/

That is the rut I've been stuck in for decades now, except replace /jp/ with various other boards in 4chan, and before 4chan, Usenet.

The fact that I live in a COMPLETE SHITHOLE doesn't help. Anything worthwhile is an hour's drive away. I

>> No.6188937

> no esteem at all but i got told look really cute and young
> batshit crazy, I.. don't really think i'm weird but i got diagnosed.
> even if i try, i live in escapism and i'm clueless how to deal with people. also anxiety and personality disorder
> i don't tell anyone about my disorder because i don't realize it and that's not helping
> endless powerlevel. i can't talk about it anyway but it takes up my life.

>> No.6188948

>>6188913
You should come over and fuck
I'm a guy though

>> No.6188951

Meh, I have plenty of friends online and a couple good ones IRL. THE ONLY reason i'd consider talking to people is sex. IF ONLY I could eliminate that fucking urge completely.

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>>6188937
> i don't tell anyone about my disorder because i don't realize it
>is talking about it

>> No.6188960

>>6188913

>nearly the same situations

Just... wow...

Are you sure you're not me?

>> No.6188969

>>6188861
...Are you gay?

If not and you're a female virgin I don't get why a fellow 3D-inclined /jp/er wouldn't dig that.

>> No.6188970

>>6188960

Worst part is, all of my friends live very far away from me. So I rarely if ever see them.

forever alone.jpg

>> No.6188976

>>6188954
i'm in a lucid stage, anon but not quite because i already feel like my new dissociate personality is about to take over.
and i can because i'm anonymous, i'd never ever say that if i had a trip or if i were in my denial stage.

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