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I've always been an introvert and have tried to be most of the time alone because I've been unable to make friends but now I feel very lonely and would like to go out and meet people because I feel so alone but it's hard for me.

How do you deal with the loneliness?

>> No.5557010

I go to >>>/r9k/ or >>>/adv/ to make a thread about it. It works 100%. Derek can guarantee this.

>> No.5557004

I take it easy.

>> No.5557014

be a hermit

>> No.5557019

I'm not really sure, but I stopped caring at some point. I most likely had a depression, that just sorta disappeared, or maybe its still there. I don't feel much at all now.

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> I would like to go out and meet people
DO IT.

You've got the wrong impression, here in /jp/ we could tag along with normal people, we just don't like it.

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>>5557012
>here in /jp/ we could tag along with normal people,

>> No.5557030

I tried to make friends for a while, but in the end it's always the same. I just can't do it. Not online nor off.

All I can do is read vns and play games to avoid thinking about it.

>> No.5557040

I've always had at least one friend at any given time, even if only an online friend, so I can't say I've ever been lonely.

Sucks for you though. I'd be your friend if you didn't live several hundred miles from me.

>> No.5557046

>>5557030

But I consider you my friend, anon...

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>>5557025
>we just don't like it.

>> No.5557049

"When I'm sad I stop being sad and be awesome instead"

That or I play vidya gaemz.

>> No.5557053

I felt like that a few years ago, now I have resigned myself to be alone.

I don't need to deal with loneliness, I feel at peace when I'm alone, after being with people I need to heal alone.

I wish to die, but when I'm ready to an hero, I always say "I'll do it tomorrow", and then I regret by not doing it.

>> No.5557071

>>5557046
You say that now, but if you ever talked to me personally you would want nothing to do with me.

>> No.5557089

>>5557010

I guarantee this.

>> No.5557104

>>5557071

People think that about me as well! We should be best friends.

>> No.5557124

My first 6 months of being an neet were horribly depressing and lonely
Now though, I just don't give a fuck

>> No.5557134

>>5557071
everyone on /jp/ is like that. And anonymity is the only reason we put up with this place. Whenever I see someone who I know is an anon in another places, be it RL or other forums, they always look like huge faggots to me. I, you, whoever wouldn't be an exception.

>> No.5557169

I'm on a slew of antidepressants. Also, and this is gonna sound fucking sad, but my dolls and figures keep me company. It's OK, though, since I don't really want to interact with people in general because they suck.

>> No.5557199

>>5557169

I'm on a ever changing mix of ad's too, but I just prefer being alone.

The ideal life would be living alone, with a steady income to buy food and electricty and be left alone till I die.

Sadly this is seen as being "mentally ill".

meh, dont think I care anymore either.

>> No.5557220

>>5557199

If that is considered mentally ill, does that mean I can get money from the government?

>> No.5557229

I'm actually really extraverted online but am mute in person. And I have no friends online or off. I deal with my failure of a life by not thinking.

>> No.5557234

>>5557229

I'll be your friend.

>> No.5557246

Any of you want to talk on msn or something? ;_;

>> No.5557250

>>5557134
Pretty much this.
When I have to interact with others, and were I to show my "true face", no one would want anything to do with me.
So, instead, I do like most others and put up a front. I've gotten quite good at it too, I can almost deceive myself at times.

>> No.5557264

I'm adopting every single one of you into my family. Now no one will be lonely!

>> No.5557272

>>5557264
But what about the sexual tension within a family. It will drive us all mad.

>> No.5557275

>>5557220

Yes, I get disability benifit for it, since no one will employ me due to my "condition".

but you get constant medicals, and checking up, its really not worth the tiny amount of cash for all the hassle.

and about the friends thing, I used to be really outgoing back in high school times, I was popular , went out a lot. But now I have no friends in real life or internet, I've tried making some friends online, but I always end up drifting from them after a week at most.

At least here I can dip in and out when my mood takes me and no one cares who I am.

>> No.5557278

>>5557272

Well, you're not blood related. So it's okay!

>> No.5557419

Being alone is practical if you can handle it.

>> No.5557438

I HAS A DEPRESSED BOO HOO

>> No.5557440

You're pathetic for feeling lonely. Go back to /a/ or /r9k/.

>> No.5557484

>>5557071
I love you, Anonymous. I love you just the way you are, and though you may make me angry at times, there is no way I could ever to hate you. Because you're special to me.

There's only one of you in this wonderful world, and no matter what you do, or what you say, you are my friend.

So don't feel lonely. You'll always have me.

>> No.5557502

I've been alone for most of my life. I stopped feeling lonely when I was 10 or so. The thought that I want to have friends never even crosses my mind nowadays.
Curiously, the only time when I feel something akin to what I remember as the feeling of loneliness is when I'm forced to attend some social event, like a birthday or something, and thus am surrounded by boring people I don't care about.

>> No.5557522

i'm an angry man. When I am out in public, I either end up saying incredibly rude and mean things or bottle it up and feel frustrated for days or weeks afterwards. I typically just do not enjoy spending time with others.

The worst part is that when I'm home for awhile, I start to get lonely. The only solution that I can come up with is finding someone that I can be compatible with, aka a girlfriend, but it's kind of hard to do when I get so frustrated with everyone all the time :/

It's a never ending cycle.

>> No.5557538

It's all right, if you're alone for long enough you might just start to go insane. I can say this after not interacting with anybody for six years. Your mind starts to degrade after not being in contact with anybody.

So to fill in the hole of making contact with people, my mind normally sets up hallucinations instead, so I end up talking to people that aren't even there.

>> No.5557561

>>5557538
Like a waifu?

>> No.5557575

This entire thread is reported.

>> No.5557579

>How do you deal with the loneliness?
Eroge and alcohol.

>> No.5557584

>How do you deal with the loneliness?

Do what you like.
Whenever you like.
However you like.

Pick up a couple of waifu too.

>> No.5557586

>>5557522
http://articles.orlandosentinel.com/1988-01-06/lifestyle/0010050088_1_anger-angry-feelings-young-chi
ldren

>> No.5557587

>>5557561
The things I see are pretty mixed, actually. It's usually a touhou that my mind places there, but if I play a certain game for hours on end, most times the main character from the game will come along.

I probably see Touhous the most because I'm almost always on /jp/.

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>>5557538

>> No.5557594

>>5557575
I reported your mom, if you know what I mean

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