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5031809 No.5031809 [Reply] [Original]

Any fellow /jp/sies around here with 0 friends?

I haven't spoken to anyone since my dad died 3 weeks ago and the ronery is beginning to strike me for the first time. He was my only contact with the outside world and now he's gone.

How do you guys cope with the fact that nobody even cares that you're alive?

>> No.5031819

too bad next~

>> No.5031826

>How do you guys cope with the fact that nobody even cares that you're alive?
There's no real coping involved when the feeling is mutual.

>> No.5031827

I don't care... I used to be lonely but now not so much. Maybe I just died inside.

>> No.5031828
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5031828

I personally shit on the floor until the smell gets so bad that somebody knocks on my door and talks to me about it.

Works like a charm.

>> No.5031831

Why do you faggots bump this shit?

>> No.5031839

I like to pretend that I'm a JRPG protagonist.

Those guys are generally badass loners before and after the story takes place. The black hermit from KOTOR is a good example.

>> No.5031843

>>5031831
Why do you tripfags post on /jp/?

Nobody likes you guys, get out.

>> No.5031844

Go fucking kill your ugly ass, dipshit.

>> No.5031847

I don't have any friends as well, but I still have my family. So I'm all right for now.

>> No.5031850

>>5031831
>faggots
why cant the word dyke be used once in a while god

>> No.5031856

I dunno - I dont really get lonely even if I am alone. + My family does care about me. And I do talk to old friends via IRC, even though it has been a long time since I saw them.

>> No.5031857

I come to /jp/ and fap to Touhou.

It staves off the loneliness for a few hours and when the feeling comes back I just fap again.

'tis a vicious cycle.

>> No.5031862

>>5031850
because there aren't any dykes
only girls who haven't met me

>> No.5031869

>>5031844
You're a pretty cool dude, eh?

I hear cool dudes like yourself like to hang out in /b/. You should check it and never come back.

>> No.5031870

>>5031809
You cope by going outside, find something interesting to do, and make some fucking friends. I'm the most anti-social one in my family, and yet I'm getting invited all the time to get-togethers, movies, and parties by friends from high school and co-workers. It's not fucking hard. Stop trying to make it seem like it's the hardest thing in the world to do.

>> No.5031876

we uh... think that all fucking life is worthless and so is death. So it is 50th 50th.

>> No.5031882

I want to be friendly, but I don't know how. I can either not talk at all or be a complete asshole.

>> No.5031884

I only have two friends. I didn't see one for a few years now and didn't see the other for about a month.

I don't really know, it doesn't bother me that much these days. Maybe I have gotten used to it over the years ?

>>5031839
I like to pretend I'm a new character in every story I like no matter the medium : game, anime, eroge, etc...

>> No.5031890

>>5031882
It's not your fault that no one notices you're just tsundere, anon-kun

>> No.5031891

>>5031882
America's the only country where you can be an asshole and still get friends. It all lies in how well can you make people laugh.

>> No.5031893

OP how did you get kugyu in that pic

>> No.5031894
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>>5031870

Perhaps he you know, doesn't enjoy the company of people around him? Even a social fag can be ronery in places out of his element, which there are plenty of in this world.

>> No.5031898

>>5031869
How about no.

>> No.5031902

>>5031870
This. Even I still have my old middle school friends who I still chill with and I love all the "sick and twisted" stuff (from normalfag vision) you guys post on here. I also have no job or go to school yet. A few have left our "circle of friends" over the years, but the remaining ones are those whom I end up caring about most in my life alongside my family. Hell, I've even reconnected with some old middle school friends last month. Most of you guys seem like decent people, and if a failure like myself can manage a few friends, you can too.

>> No.5031906

>>>/r9k/
All of you. Get out.

>> No.5031908

I still have one real friend, my best friend of about 15 years. Once in awhile we'll go out and do something, or hang out and watch baseball on TV, but thats it for my socialization. Its enough for me really.

>> No.5031913

>>5031902
Wow, you sound like a fag.

>> No.5031915

>>5031870
This might shock you but there are people that have serious social anxiety or outright social phobia. For them being around people is a mindwrecking chore but they can still be lonely.

>> No.5031916

I have nobody. I suffer from severe social anxiety, and during the "There's nothing wrong with me, it's everyone else!" phase, I purposefully cut everyone who I was even vaguely friendly with out of my life. They kept trying to make me go outside, therefore they were the bad guys.

The fact I no longer have anyone I'm comfortable around also means it will be pretty much impossible for me to recover properly, so I'm pretty much fucked.

>> No.5031917

>>5031913
Feeling insecure?

>> No.5031918
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You pussies have been enlightened by this picture.

>> No.5031922

>>5031906
How does this belong on /r9k/?

That place is full of normalfags complaining about their girlfriends and girlfriends complaining about their boyfriends.

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>>5031918

>> No.5031928

A girl I talk to alot through Skype confessed to me yesterday.

Too bad she lives half way across the world. ;_;

>> No.5031936

The social phobia/anxiety excuse is bullshit. I went through it, I said the same thing just like you on this same exact board, but I eventually got over it. How? I stopped giving a fuck, I finally learned how to take it easy. Go smoke some weed, maybe it'll open a stubborn door.

>> No.5031937

>>5031870
>invited all the time to get-togethers, movies, and parties by friends

Who said I want shitty friends to go to shitty parties like some sort of normalfag? I'm just looking for a way to cope with it without actually getting any friends.

>> No.5031939

>>5031928
If she isn't a virgin : forget about her.
If she is a virgin, be a man and travel to her country.

>> No.5031945

>>5031922
I don't see any difference between people talkin about their own life. If you want to talk about your life go somewhere else.

>> No.5031954

>>5031937
Play lots of galge.

>> No.5031955

>>5031809

oh god OP stop bitchin it is a well known fact that everyone in the world is a bitch/asshole
just grow up and deal with hoe

>> No.5031956

ITT normalfags who don't belong on /jp/ reveal themselves to boost their ego on an anonymous imageboard. Nobody cares about your dipshit friends.

GET OUT NORMALFAGS NOBODY LIKES YOU HERE

>> No.5031966

>>5031937
I've tried. You'll never find a way to cope. People will say they'd be completely fine without anyone else, but they are all lying faggots trying to be the tough guy. Humans are sociable creatures by nature, you just can't fight being lonely. Even a great man such as Kenshiro had his little loli girl keep him company. I'm not saying go be a bitch or anything, but you WILL be lonely for the rest of your life if you choose to deter from people as much as you do now.

>> No.5031977

>>5031966
Hopefully genetics will locate the social gene so they can burn it out of existence soon.

Then again, our whole being evolved around being social so it might be quite a few genes.

>> No.5031980

>How do you guys cope with the fact that nobody even cares that you're alive?

You say that like there's a hole in my life that I need to fill. I can talk to thousands of strangers on the internet, that's good enough for me.

>> No.5031997

Talking about these things on the internet doesn't help. I definitely don't want to hear about how many or how few friends you lot have.

Just immerse yourself in stuff to enjoy like the rest of us.

>> No.5032032

>>5031997
>Just immerse yourself in stuff to enjoy like the rest of us.

B-but /jp/ doesn't like anything.

>> No.5032046

>>5031936
>I went through it
No you didn't, you were just a lazy fag.
People with social phobia need to go to a psychiatrist or take medication. You don't just get over it just like you don't just get over PTSD or OCD.

>> No.5032047

>>5031870
Why does everyone always say "go outside" what am I gonna do outside play tag by myself? aimlessly walk around?

>> No.5032058

>>5032047
Get a job.

>> No.5032062

>>5032047
hahaha true

>> No.5032063

>>5032047
Hahaha yeah man, that's what I always think when someone says that bullshit "go outside" line like it's some sort of holy grail of social capability. It's not surprising the people with the mental capacity of an 8-year old still believe their time is best spent like it was in their youth.

>> No.5032067

I would be your friend op ;_;

>> No.5032068

>>5031809
If no-one cares you're alive then they won't obviously care what you do. Think about, it's like a blank canvas. The world is the paint and you're the canvas. Stick on what ever colors you wish OP, that's my 2 cents.

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>>5032068

FAAAGGGGGOTTT

>> No.5032098

I learned how to take it easy.

>> No.5032102

>>5032068
We're the canvas, and the world is the paint. The colour is gonna be brown.

>> No.5032107

internet friends, go make some

>> No.5032141

>>5032046
It all went downhill for me after 8th grade. Going outside, interacting with people and being seen - it all frightened me to death. It made me sweat, have blood rushes to be around more than one person and I could not think straight at all because I was so worried about people paying attention to me even the slightest bit. Due to this, I never went to highschool for more than a week. I made an attempt to go back into Highschool once, but I ended up quitting after the first week. Eventually I just got a GED, only because my parents kept pressuring me for an entire year to do something. My unlit cave of a room always felt like a sanctuary, a safe haven from the outside world. My lowest point in life has to be when I was pissing in water bottles.

Anyway, last I checked this was not at the very least normal behavior. And don't tell me it's impossible to get over it unless you go to a psychiatrist you bag of dicks.

>> No.5032153

>>5032058
Its easy to say get a job, but is it easy for the manager to be interested in your resume, or is impressed by the intervirew.
I hate people who say that, and most of them have connections to get a job so they don't know how hard it is.

>> No.5033011

>>5032141
Nice to know I'm not the only one who lives in a dark cave.

Is there some sort of disorder for people who can't stand the light? Aside from vampirism.

>> No.5033013 [DELETED] 

>>5031806
h + t p : // a T . K i M M ó À . s € /

>> No.5033019

My only friend is someone that has never seen or heard of me.
But I know everything about her.

>> No.5033029

3 weeks? That's less than summer vacation. I've been friendless for years.

>> No.5033043

I lost all of my friends at around age 13. I'm pretty used to it and have not once lamented about it. I don't think I'm interesting enough to be able to befriend anybody anyways.

>> No.5033072

>>5033029
His dad died 3 weeks ago, he made no mention of having friends before then.

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>Faggot thread for faggots

>> No.5033295

Meh, i don't have any 'actual' friends.

I never see them outside of school atleast, but sometimes chat with them in school. Ive been ronery like this for years now but ive gotten used to it.

>> No.5033368

>>5033096
you are here after all

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>>5033368

>> No.5034274

>>5033079
How can that hypocritical faggot talk about being ronery when he's talking to a little girl?

>> No.5034280

Man, you don't look 20 at all...

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>>5033368

>> No.5034289
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>>5034256
>>5033368
>>5033096

>> No.5034292

never post pics again OP

just do it

>> No.5034307

>>5034292
>never
>do it

Make up your mind, dipshit.

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>>5034307

>> No.5034320

this thread just gave me deja vu...

>> No.5034351 [DELETED] 

Nathan?

>> No.5034375

>>5032141
Confirmed for trolling and no you don't get just past such problems by taking it easy.

>> No.5034376

Well I was lucky. I made some close friends in high school that I still hang out with every now and then. But they became my friends before my self-imposed isolation. Somehow when I'm around them I feel like I'm in high school again and that allows me to act normal. I've made zero new friends after high school though.

>> No.5034404

I make new friends/acquaintances all the time, since I work as a "temporary everything". But I don't really try to move out of my way to be close with those people, since I already my own circle of good friends that I stick to.

inb4 you have no friends enjoy your figmas.

>> No.5034406

>>5031809

That's me in the picture.

>> No.5034437

That picture is so depressing

>> No.5034440

>>5034437

Oh, no it isn't!

Birthdays aren't depressing.

>> No.5034494

Generally i'm a likeable person and i can talk with everyone with no anxiety whatsoever.
But it stays 'friends in school/work' at most and i can't get out of this phase.
Doesn't help that i'm a huge big pessimist either.

>> No.5034507 [DELETED] 

>>5034437

Dude has a mother that is willing to bake him a delicious cake.

My mother once through a whiskey bottle at me because I got beat up at school.

One of these is depressing.

>> No.5034512

>>5034437

Dude has a mother that is willing to bake him a delicious cake.

My mother once threw a whiskey bottle at me because I got beat up at school.

One of these is depressing.

>> No.5034519

>>5034437

That guy is/used to be an /a/ regular. He posted the story behind that pic.

>> No.5034532

>>5034519

Sounds like a good story, do you know it?

>> No.5034547

>>5034519
Do you or anyone else have it saved, by any chance?

>> No.5034575
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>>5034532

He told that even though he didn't have friends and spent his birthdays alone, he still managed to overcome that and find a girlfriend. He said that if he could do it, anyone could, so there was no reason to be depressed and ronery.

Pity-kun is a different story. He evolved into a 7chan camwhore.

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>>5034575
I'm glad he had a happy ending

>> No.5034608

>>5034575

He could teach those normalfags over at /adv/ something.

>> No.5034627

I feel awkward or pissed when I'm with my "friends". My grandfather died 2 months ago and I used that as an excuse to get rid of them.
I have been happier ever since.

>> No.5034646

>>5034440
In some parts of the world, birthdays aren't celebrated. Some don't even have an "age", since they don't memorize, when they were born.

Not everyone is the same. I couldn't care less about birthdays.

>> No.5034689

>>5034575
He was probably bullshitting himself the entire time.

People who magically overcome their situation probably had the potential to do it all their lives but was too lazy to make it happen until that moment.

>> No.5034700

PROTIP: OP asked:
>How do you guys cope with the fact that nobody even cares that you're alive?

NOT

>How do I get friends?

Goddamn normalfags.

>> No.5034716

>>5034646

Has color been discovered in your country yet or is it just black and white all the time?

>> No.5034733

I had a weird dream a few years ago. I was talked to about a dozen people in various settings, I don't remember the conversations I had with them (they weren't people I recognised either), but I remember understanding completely. Each conversation ended with a smile and coming to some sort of understanding. When I woke up something flipped. I didn't feel depressed any more, I didn't feel sad or lonely and I felt pretty good.

Thinking about it, I can only imagine these people being the personification of the areas of my mind.

>> No.5034759

>>5034733

We should figure these dreams out.

Now, tell me about your mother.

>> No.5034794

This thread is why hate you /jp/ and 4chan in general nowaday.
You are just a bunch happy normalfags who think they are something special because you post here.

>> No.5034798

>>5034716
my traditions > your traditions

>> No.5034838
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Well...me, I haven't had a friend in 7 years now. I've been counting. I was kicked out of school at 16 since I wasn't attending, as I had bad social phobia. I never really dealt with it and ended up entering a seclusion. I ended up spending all my time on the computer and it never stopped. Over the years I just became apathetic toward everything and stopped caring all together.

Eventually my parented kicked me out around age 19. I had to go on disability (by this point I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder and psychotic depression). This paid for an apartment with 1 main room, a bathroom and a closet. For 5 years now I've been living this way. My days consist of just waking up, sitting on the computer, drinking tea, reading, sleeping, and whatever can fill the void.

At this point I just don't care. I'm 23 now and have no life experiences. From a medical point of view I have the social development of a 16 year old, and that just makes me feel worse about it (though I don't feel sad or anything). I will never be able to reintegrate back into society, though I don't really seek to. I'm cynical toward everything and just can't stand social contact. For now I'll just live how I do now until something happens that makes me want to kill myself or something.

>> No.5034849
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5034849

You know how to make some good friends? Stop caring about what people think about you. Stop hiding your powerlevels, your hobbies, your eccentricities. Let people like you for who you are. Stop caring about being seen with the rejects,because those are the bros that are going to stick through thick and thin for you when you need them.

>> No.5034904

lolno, if I showed my power level in my country, I'd be arrested.

That's another thing contributing to my crippling depression and anxiety, I'd probably get worse legal action against me than a child rapist just because I enjoy hentai. I'm not hurting anyone, I think real children are fucking disgusting to be around in any situation, nevermind a sexual one, yet I'm apparently a sexual predator because I have a few drawings on my computer.

>> No.5034913

I talk to my family.

>> No.5034943

>>5034849

Is that the /jp/ band?

>> No.5035014

>>5034849
But all of my hobbies are best enjoyed alone.

What's the point of friends?

>> No.5035021

>>5034904

I once left my notebook on during class and went out to buy a drink and found a fellow classmates going through my hentai collection. They even managed to run my saves of Sekai de Ichiban Dame na Koi.

They thought I'd feel embarrassed by that, I just shrugged it off with a "wait until you guys see what I have in my 'tax' folder" joke.

>> No.5035046

>>5035014

If you come to /jp/ to discuss your hobbies, you have answered your own question.

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>>5035021

>> No.5035092

>>5035021
Not really the same thing. I could get put on the Sex Offenders register, which means I'd never get a job and I'd get stalked by crazy vigilantes trying to "Protect their kids", and get jail time for being a dangerous paedophile. All for having some drawings. UK normalfags have a stupid culture of reporting their friends and loved ones to the police if they see them doing something they think they shouldn't, so "they can get help". It's way too dangerous to reveal your powerlevel over here.

>> No.5035216

phenibut

Not a cure but it will allow you to go out and buy supplies or empty your garbage every now and then.

>> No.5035449

>>5035092
kind of ironic UK was the home of George Orwel

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