are you herpes bro from the other day?
bro you are overthinking this, its like uhm, you know how theres people that think if they only are given the secret, the answer, they can pick up japanese in a month?
don't be that guy
theres no trick, even if someone gives you their answers, what matters is not the answer but understanding where they come from and what they mean
figure this shit on the go, you are asking for rare kanji forms when you don't even know the core
hang with a girl, if she likes you and you like her, it will happen, and who pays wont be a problem
if she doesn't, who pays still won't be a problem
enjoy the ride anon, half the fun of women is that
and eh, think less, overthinking is the worst thing you can do, especially if you aren't that confident, you WILL find a way to fuck things up, and yes i have experience with that
just relax and have fun
good luck bro