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Do you ever feel awkward masturbating to a character you're attracted to? She'll be on my mind all day and then when I finally decide I'm going to masturbate to her, I get shy looking at her and can't bring myself to do it. Does this happen to anyone else? Pic somewhat related.

>> No.3710470

...

Are you fucking serious?

>> No.3710467

HEY EVERYONE LOOK A VIRGIN

>> No.3710476

>>3710464
I would think she would be more disappointed if you couldn't get it up.

>> No.3710481

Not really. I usually can't even bring myself to find masturbation material of girls like that, and I feel guilty whenever I consider it.

>> No.3710488

Fapping to a character I like just makes it feel better for me. OP, the reason you can't get it up is because that's a picture of a boy.

>> No.3710487

No, but occassionally I have an irrational fear that when I'm fapping to a picture of an anime character, she would suddenly come to life and insult me for how pathetic I am for sitting there alone, in front of my PC, fapping to a cartoon drawing.

>> No.3710490

>>3710487
But if she came to life then she would have just destroyed any point she possibly could have had.

>> No.3710492

>>3710467
>calling anyone a virgin /jp/

>> No.3710498

>>3710488

As long as it's cute.

>> No.3710503

>>3710490
Don't know about that. Even if she came to life, she wouldn't have sex with me for being so pathetic. And I imagine it more like that she would become alive to say it and then stay forever silent again.

>> No.3710519

So what the hell I'm the only one? I have no problem masturbating to the slutty characters, it's just the characters I love.

>> No.3710566
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>> No.3710592

>>3710467
>>3710470
Please GTFO back to sankaku complex or whatever shithole you crawled out from.

>> No.3710607

Welcome to /jp/, OP.

>> No.3710613

I only fap to characters I'm attracted to

>> No.3710701
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3710701

I feel you OP I can't fap to him no matter how hard I try

Same goes for all the other loli sluts in this series

>> No.3710731

I've never fallen in love, with either a human or a drawing, so this is not an issue for me.

>> No.3710746

>>3710731
You're lucky.

>> No.3710783

I can't fap to characters I'm attracted to at all. And when I fap to characters from anime, I'll go back and watch an episode of that show and feel guilty whenever they show up. I'm stuck using my imagination or original characters.

>> No.3710914

>>3710731

you're lucky, and unlucky

love is necesarry to really understand how much life sucks

>> No.3710937

I can't fap to mai waifus

I just can't, I love them so much ;_;

>> No.3710962

I guess I'm horrible then. I imagine my faps are intercourses with my waifus and at the end I'm smoking and my waifu is on her side crying with her hands over her face while I say "I'm the worst."

>> No.3710963

>>3710937
I did it once. Felt bad man, never again.

>> No.3711016
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>>3710464
I don't either. Pic related.

>> No.3711053

>>3710937
I don't understand this. To me love is, at least in part, sexual attraction.
I know I for one would be flattered, if slightly embarrassed at the thought of someone fapping to me.

Imaginary characters have no power to embarrass me. That's one thing that makes them better than actual people with, you know, actual minds of their own.

>> No.3711070

>>3711053

I'd rather have someone schlick to me.

>> No.3711084

>>3711053
I don't know, I guess I just associate fapping as being a dirty thing. As if I'm violating their purity. I guess it doesn't help that the characters I've fallen in love with are never sexualized in their shows/games. So I'm looking at them in ways they weren't meant to be shown.

I don't know, I have a hard time explaining the feeling.

>> No.3711107

>>3711070
Well, yeah, that would be even better I suppose though I'd find it flattering that someone found me attractive enough to masturbate to regardless of gender.
>>3711084
Seems like you've grown up with the old "sex=bad" association. That's unfortunate. Really is.
You're far from alone on /jp/ though from what I've seen.

>> No.3711122

>>3710962

Oh God, you even give yourself badly translated lines like that in your own thoughts?

You don't...

You don't actually speak like that in real life, do you?

>> No.3711153

>>3711122
You mean you doesn't too?

>> No.3711172

>>3711107
Not the one you quoted but
I don't think >sex=bad
I fap to NTR and stuff but I can't bring myself to fap to "mai waifu". It's really hard to explain as someone mentioned before me.

"Tainting" her through fapping, I... I just can't do that.

>> No.3711196

>>3711172
Then you do think sex is bad, it's just that if it doesn't involve someone you "care" about it doesn't bother you.
I don't like NTR stuff because I like some intimacy and romance but to each his own.

>> No.3711210

>>3711107
>Seems like you've grown up with the old "sex=bad" association.
But my parents never talked to me about sex, I learned about everything through the internet.

>> No.3711219

>>3711196
I can't fap to romance stuff, I really like it alot though!

The "slut theme" is better for my fapping purposes.

>> No.3711220

>>3711210
>my parents never talked to me about sex
Which means they were uncomfortable about the subject, so you thought it was bad, naturally.

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>>3711220
forgot my pic

>> No.3711240

>>3711210
The internet contains all viewpoints.
Hell, here it's about as common to think "mai waifu, don't taint her" as "lolfapfapfap" and some claim this is the anus of the internet.
Noone lives in a vacuum, you're going to have picked up your associations from somewhere no matter what they are.
>>3711219
Fair enough, it's just the thought that having sexual thoughts about someone taints them that bothers me. It reeks of thoughtcrime which is one of the cornerstones of religion.

>> No.3711265

>Fair enough, it's just the thought that having sexual thoughts about someone taints them that bothers me. It reeks of thoughtcrime which is one of the cornerstones of religion.
Is there something wrong with purity? All of the characters I've fallen in love with aren't ones I would like to fuck. They're characters I would like to spend every day with, that I could be happy just by being around them. When looking at them sex doesn't even enter my though process which is why the idea of fappign to them is so undesirable.

>> No.3711268

>>3711240
I don't think that having actual sex with her would be bad ;_;, just only fapping to her feels not right. Damnit, why is this so hard to explain?

>> No.3711273

>>3711240
I wouldn't call that a cornerstone of religion, more like the result of religious conservatives pushing their readings of religious law on the rest of society. But I agree with the sentiment, anyway.

>> No.3711283

I find it hard to masturbate to characters I'm not attracted to.

>> No.3711289

>>3711273
>religious conservatives
They're called conservatives because they continue to tout older worldviews. In the case of religious conservatives, they apply religion as it was originally applied, and anyone who isn't a religious conservative is both insane and a godless heathen.

It is a cornerstone of religion. Period.

>> No.3711307

>>3711265
The idea of purity, to me, isn't bad in itself but it's associations with things like being punished for not being a virgin when you get married and the like riles me up.
I don't think purity is a virtue in itself either, however.
To me the thought of it as such is a sign of fear, trying to control other people by shunning them if they give in to weakness.
>>3711268
I'm not good at explaining myself but I don't think I misunderstand you, it's just that to me, fapping to someone is not something that in any way diminishes their value. In fact I'd say it reinforces the fact that you find them desirable.
Seeing masturbation as something dirty is another thing I can't forgive religion for reinforcing.

>> No.3711324

>>3711289
Pretty much this.
By even being liberally religious you continue to give legitimacy to the kind of people who shoot abortion doctors and stone homosexuals even if you don't agree with them.

If you develop religion to go with the times how can you claim to be a part of the same religion that you've cherrypicked your "beliefs" from.
No, "religious conservatives" and "liberal" or "reasonable" religous people are in essence the same thing.

>> No.3711334

>>3711307
Also, I don't think platonic "love" such as the love for one's child is in itself better or "purer" than the love for ones lover.

>> No.3711404

>>3711289
You don't really know what you're talking about, but this isn't the place, so whatever.

>> No.3711412

>>3711404
>I disagree with your point. However, my disagreement is without basis so I am going to make up a vague excuse to avoid revealing this fact.

>> No.3713315

>>3711412
It's just some butthurt christfag, I guess.

>>3711265
Why do you think someone having sex makes them "impure"?

>> No.3713335
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3713335

Oh I can fap to them without a problem. It's just when faceless males come into the picture and suddenly your waifu turns into a raging slut who is constantly fuckedsilly.jpg and demands to live off nothing but the sperm of said faceless males then I begin to rage.. while still fapping, of course.

>> No.3713353

I feel disgusted at myself after masturbating. I've tried to stop doing it but I can't. I don't even enjoy it.

>> No.3713387

>>3713353
>>3711283
>>3711268
>>3710937
lolwut youre all gayfags go back to /h/

>> No.3713388
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3713388

>>3713335
you can fap to To-Love-Ru?
WTF is wrong with you?

>> No.3713395

what's with all the normalitis in this thread?

>> No.3713398
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3713398

I didn't expect to see this thread again.
>>3713335
I'm not much for faceless men doujins myself, not when it's about a character I like rather than some random girl at least. Same reason I don't like NTR games basically.
>>3713353
Have you considered seeing a therapist?
You might be able to get over the shame you associate with masturbation which is, after all, a perfectly normal thing to do.

>> No.3713399

>>3713388

I never said I fap to TLR, I just simply used that image since it was the most appropriate one that came to mind to accompany my post. I've fapped many times to Mikan though.

>> No.3713401

I can't masturbate to Sakura. I feel like I'd fall into her endless erotical black hole.

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>>3713353
Shit is getting too depressing. I'll just avoid the psychological bullshit and stick to /b/

>> No.3713437

>>3713398
I used to feel shame after fapping too... but that was when I was 10.

In the past I also used to from time to time completely delete all the porn on my computer, only to regret it afterwards.

>> No.3713446

>>3713437
Ha. I did that too a few times though now after living on my own for a few years the only way I could delete all my porn is to completely format all my HDDs. I suck at keeping stuff organized.

>> No.3713447

>>3713446
C:/Documents and settings/my documents/new folder/new folder/new folder/net folder/image1.jpg

Yep.

>> No.3713461

>>3713447

I'm not him but

C:\Documents and Settings\Insert name here\Desktop\Images\Random Images\New Folder\New Folder\New Folder\New Folder\Organize This Shit\

That's just one of my folders, after they start to fill up with a few thousand images and I get tired of having to dig deeper just to dump some images I go back to 'Random Images', make a new folder and repeat the process all over again. I'm currently on New Folder (23).

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>thread

>> No.3713468

>>3711412
>>3713315
Because last I checked, every religion in the world has laws putting you to death if you have sex outside of marriage. Generalize much?

Besides, no one follows most of those old laws anymore. When was the last time you heard of someone washing a chair because his wife sat on it while on her period? Religion is generally kind of fucked up, but you sound like some kid who just hates it because his parents force him to go to church every Sunday.

>> No.3713474

>>3713461
>>3713447
Well, mainly my stuff gets spread out when I need to "temporarily" move stuff around because my downloads drive is getting full. I had great organization for about a week after I bought the computer.
Anyways, I feel like I'm getting sidetracked here.

>> No.3713476

>>3713462
I couldn't even see this thread until you posted in it, my brain was subconsciously ignoring it.

go to bed Arc

>> No.3713481
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>>3710937
I can't fap to any of the hentai/manga/whatever of my waifu but I can through games that allow custom characters. Most likely because I control the guy in the games, since I can't directly express my love I can use a mindless avatar to do so for me. I've become a expert at adapting the personality of the character I am playing as because of this.

>>3713446
I just toss anything I save into a giant folder that I never touch just like almost every other image that isn't one of my favorite characters/waifu...I should really get to deleting it if I never ever look at any of them or use them for anything but I keep them just because I saved them once in the past. If I saved it then I must of liked it at that time.

I accidentally selected this image and I can't be bothered to undo it, so here's Arcueid.

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>>3713476

>go to bed

I'M TRYING

FUCKING INSOMNIA

son of a bitch, roll another blunt, i'm gonna get high and see if I go byebye sleepyland

>> No.3713575

>>3713468
Oh no, not another one of those idiots who thinks he is a more "sophisticated" atheist because he refuses to be critical of the moderate religions his friends practice.

See >>3711324, but you probably didn't understand it the first time you read it.

>> No.3714458

It only happens to characters I know, weirdly enough. If they feel real enough, then I can't fap to them. ie. I can't fap to female characters with personalities that I feel are real

>> No.3714526

I feel that fapping to characters is showing my affection for them. I can fap to faceless men and group sex as long as there isn't too much man face or man ass. I become the dick(s) that is/are pleasuring her.

You're all fucked up.

>> No.3714559

>>3713575
You have no idea how much the religious right hates the religious left, do you?

>> No.3714621

This is a pretty cool quote about that.

>The issues you will never hear red-letter Christians talking about include winning the lost, the lateness of the hour, or sin and repentance. Their mantra is peace, yet they do not understand that only Jesus ruling from Jerusalem will bring peace to this planet. They would scoff at that and say peace would be better accomplished if they saved the planet with their works based on the red letters of Jesus. And their understanding of the peace of God is minimal.

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>>3711265
>All of the characters I've fallen in love with aren't ones I would like to fuck. They're characters I would like to spend every day with, that I could be happy just by being around them.

This. Though this dosen't stop me from fapping to them, because if one of us was suddenly transported into the other's world, I'd try my best to be a good husbando, which does in fact include sexual pleasure.

WHat stops me from fapping to her is the fact that there's only like 4 pornographic images of her. I know there's more doujins out there, i just cant find them at all :<

pic related

>> No.3714853

>>3714559
Christians have fought over minute differences in opinion as long as the religion has existed, hell muslim factions hate each other possibly more than they hate infidels.
Doesn't mean that to an outsider looking in they are going to look noticeably different.
>>3714458
That seems really weird to me. To me a believable personality only adds to the attraction.

>> No.3714877

>>3713575
It's not that I "didn't understand" it, it's just wrong. If someone promotes liberal/tolerant social policies I couldn't give less of a shit whether they believe in God or not, because that's a private matter.

>> No.3714893

Love and Lust are two different things that don't necessarily mix.

>> No.3714911

I fap to characters I like all the time without feeling guilty.

Also, why would you fap to a guy? Unless you're gay,bicurious or desperate.

>> No.3714933

>>3714853
The difference between conservative Christians and liberal Christians is pretty blatant, you're blind if you can't see it.

>> No.3714958

>>3714933
I maintain that to an outsider what there is fundamentally more in common between religious conservatives and liberals than there are differences. Of course there are those that really shouldn't, in my opinion, call themselves christians because they disregard so much of the religion they might as well be secular humanists but I don't include them in the religious category for this discussion.

>> No.3714977

>>3710464
Yes, but it only happens with 3D people.

>> No.3714997

>>3714958
I'm talking about something like going to a church and talking to a few people afterwards, not fundamental similarities.

>> No.3715000 [DELETED] 

>>3710463
Stop spamming your shitty board on www ZJPGCJKYtalk com (replace "ZJPGCJKY" with "anon"). We are tired of your fucking spam, DDoS attacks and trolling. You are the asshole of the Internet.

>> No.3715004

>>3714977
The last time I felt like this about someone was five or six years ago, and she turned out to be kind of a bitch. I might have a relationship later on, but I'll sure as hell never fall for anyone ever again. That's just asking to get hurt.

>> No.3715021

>>3714997
Do people actually talk about serious issues in church? Where I live it seems like more of a place for middle-aged women and old ladies to gossip or complain to each other about their back problems.

>> No.3715037

>>3715021
This should be obvious, but it depends on the church.

>> No.3715071

I have never masturbated to a character i like nor i ever will, I m too chivalrous.

>> No.3715095

I get shy looking.

So are you looking at yourself in the mirror, or did you have someone tell you you were looking shy?

If you answered yes to either of those questions, it might not be because of the character you're masturbating to.

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>>3715071

>> No.3715110

>>3714877
No, you really didn't understand it.

>because that's a private matter.
It is not, because religion interferes with every thought a person may have. It taints otherwise rational thoughts with mindless dogmas, the proportion of which only dependent on just how far gone the person is (i.e. how "religious" they are). But in the end, they both reinforce the same idea: that it is okay to cling to irrational, illogical thoughts as long as your religion tells you that you should.

>> No.3715222

ITT: Virgins theorize sex and relationships. They're fucking cartoon characters, get over it, faggots.

>> No.3715535

>>3715222
>They're fucking cartoon characters
N-no...!

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