>>30612812
It's normal for women, especially Asian women, to be high in neuroticism. Women select men for confidence, after all, so it's a masculine trait.
You can actually tell how confident/neurotic someone is by looking at their face. You won't consciously realize it, but it will alter the way you treat them. People tend to be more friendly and enthusiastic towards more confident people, while they tend to avoid or even mistreat neurotic people. It's a vicious cycle: people get negative feelings because they're prone to negative feelings, and then other people treat them like shit and make it worse. They don't realize they're doing it, though. It seems that it's an evolutionary thing. It benefits you to associate yourself with confident people and keep sad/angry people away.
Anyways, my point was that since people treat you a certain way based on your face, which tells them how neurotic you are, you can infer how neurotic people are by simply observing how others treat them.
Ergo, the holos with high self-esteem are the ones who are popular behind the scenes.